A new semester means a new possibility; a new starting point means creating a new future. For every child, standing at the beginning of a new semester, setting new goals, being strict with oneself, and opening up a better tomorrow. For family education, take the new beginning seriously, make good plans for the new semester, and support your children for a better future. Just as school started, something Dong Yuhui once said hit the Internet. In recent years, there are always people saying that \”study is useless\”, claiming that studying hard is meaningless. It is better to become an internet celebrity and make money early than to spend time studying. But Dong Yuhui used his own growth experience to prove that only by working hard and being down-to-earth can children from ordinary families accumulate upward capital step by step, change their destiny and stand higher. As he said: \”I tried my best to get into college so I could have the opportunity to tell people my story. Reading is very useful for many children from ordinary families.\” When people are young, they always feel that the years are long. , studying is hard, and when you struggle to survive after graduation, you will understand: the days in school are the happiest time in a person\’s life; studying hard is the best springboard to the larger world. In the new semester, everyone should keep the following six educational tips in mind. To parents: Truly outstanding children are those who have been accompanied by high-quality people. The People’s Daily once recommended 9 views on family education to parents, the first of which is: “Parents are the first persons responsible for family education. If parents are responsible for their children’s education, Being the master of the problem may leave hidden dangers for the child\’s future life. \”This is indeed the case. In the eyes of some parents, it is the responsibility of parenting to ensure that children have enough food and clothing and to provide them with sufficient material conditions. Therefore, during the critical period when children develop their character and habits, they do not take education seriously, and even leave the most critical companionship behind. In their view, by sending their children to school and passing on the responsibility to teachers, they have completed the \”task\” of parenthood. But in fact, parents are their children\’s first teachers, and the family environment plays a key role in children\’s growth that cannot be ignored. What kind of structure a father has and what kind of outlook on life he holds will affect the path his children take. What kind of character the mother has and what kind of attitude she has in doing things determines what kind of person the child will eventually become. How much growth stages parents accompany their children through will determine how much energy and confidence the children will gain from it. Raising children is like nurturing a plant. How much effort you put in will result in how much fruit you will reap. Only when the family environment is suitable and parents provide high-quality companionship can children absorb enough nutrients and have a fruitful future. After studying countless cases of top students with high scores in the college entrance examination, we learned that: behind every top student, there are strong parents; behind every miracle of success in life, there is the promotion of family education. On the road of education, do not ignore small problems, do not be confused when dealing with the general direction, and control every level of the child\’s growth path. Never let a moment of carelessness leave a lifetime of regrets. To the children: The days spent in childhood will turn into slaps that cannot be avoided in the future. In the book review of \”Me and the Temple of Earth\”, someone left a thought-provoking paragraph.Thoughtful words: \”In the summer when a man was thirteen or fourteen years old, he picked up a real gun on the road. Because he was young and ignorant and fearless, he pulled the trigger. No one died, and no one was injured. He thought he had fired Later, when he was thirty or older, he was walking on the road and heard the faint sound of an appointment behind him. He stopped and turned around, and the bullet hit him right in the middle of the eyebrow. When I was still studying, I cheated on exams by being clever and tried my best to skip classes all day long. Over time, I ruined my good years like this. How many people give up everything easily when they have the choice, and end up crying in pain as they look at the gloomy future. Things in the world seem to develop like this. Things that make you feel happy will leave you with doubled pain sooner or later. Those moments that bring you short-term comfort will be repaid bit by bit later. When the results of the college entrance examination come out, when you look at the only two or three hundred points, you will definitely regret the time wasted by staying up late playing games. In the future, when you struggle to make a living and suffer a lot, when you worry about your livelihood every day, you will know what it feels like to be slapped in the face by time. Only after falling into a deep pit again and again do people realize how valuable everything they once had is. Children, never let the time of reading pass by in a flash and be completely wasted in your own \”little cleverness\”. Time is the only criterion for testing results; hard work is a necessary condition for a longing for the future. The questions you have done carefully, every word you have written down, and the words you have written down stroke by stroke will eventually accumulate keys for you and help you open up a beautiful life. To teachers: Don’t be lenient when you should be strict, don’t be indulgent when you should be responsible, and be a guide. I heard such a story before, which impressed me deeply: There were many students under the sage Mozi. As a teacher, he treated every student Very strict. Once, Geng Zhuzi, a disciple, asked Mozi: \”In terms of intelligence and learning, I am no worse than others, why are you still so strict with me?\” Mozi did not answer, and then asked Geng Zhuzi: \”If I want to go up the mountain, I decide to use A good horse and an ox come to drive, which one do you want to whip?\” Zhuzhu thought for a moment and replied, \”Of course it\’s the horse, the good horse deserves to be whipped.\” Then Mozi told him, \”I also think you are worthy of my whipping.\” , so I’m extra strict with you.” Admittedly. Everyone is lucky to meet a strict and responsible teacher on the road of life. When students make mistakes, if the teacher \”turns a blind eye\”, it will only give the children the opportunity to make bigger mistakes. A good education is inseparable from the constraints of rules and the careful guidance of teachers. A kneeling teacher cannot teach standing students; a muddled education cannot produce outstanding children. In the process of growing up, children will always face various crossroads. Fortunately, they have strict teachers to teach them, so they will not make mistakes. A good teacher is worth thousands of wealth. In the new semester, there are disciplines, teachings and punishments. Don’t be lenient when it’s time to be strict. Timely supervise when it’s time to discipline. Carefully guide each child to a broader world. To the best cultivation: It is never the big principles that determine your destiny, but these three good habits. In one Ted speech, the speaker David NaVince said on the stage: \”Small habits have huge power. Developing beneficial habits can bring about more positive changes.\” Details determine success or failure, behavior determines habits, and habits affect destiny. It is never an empty talk. Good habits can not only enable a person to gain a steady stream of motivation in the present, but also encourage a child to move more smoothly into the future. Truly outstanding children have already developed good habits and know how to complete life\’s important tasks with self-discipline and efficiency. Really powerful people know how to make plans for moving forward, and in their study and life day after day, they can live up to themselves and live up to their time. In the new semester, no matter how much you talk about, it is better to teach your children to develop these three good habits: (1) Stick to the habit of reading: At the beginning, you can buy different books according to your children\’s interests to create a reading atmosphere. Parents can also share more reading experiences with their children and urge them to accumulate valuable knowledge in the reading process. Broadening your knowledge, broadening your horizons, reading is the most convenient way and undoubtedly the best choice. (2) The habit of self-discipline and self-examination: Don’t run away from problems when you find them. Timely correction is the best solution. After school starts, whether it is study or life, set clear goals and complete them carefully bit by bit. (3) The habit of cherishing time: Only by grasping the present moment can you move towards a better future step by step. Never waste time, how you live the present moment will be how you live your life. To the greatest responsibility: Never owe these three debts on the road to education. Bai Yansong said that parents have three major responsibilities: first, to be a role model for their children; second, to help their children build strong inner strength and good external habits. . Third, help children realize their dreams at all costs. In family education, once responsibility is missing, it will leave a hole that is difficult to make up, and you will regret it for decades to come. No matter how busy you are at work, no matter whether your family is wealthy or not, the moment you become a parent, you must take on various responsibilities and provide the best upbringing for your children. As a parent, instead of preparing expensive and luxurious gifts for your children, it is better to carefully guard your children during the critical period of growth. From now on, never owe these three debts to education: (1) Do not owe \”teaching by words and deeds\” and be a role model for your children: the way you are at home is what your children will be like ten years from now. A parent who loves reading will naturally raise a child with sufficient knowledge; an environment with an upright family tradition will naturally raise a diligent child. (2) Do not owe \”strict rules\” and supervise the growth of children: without rules, there will be no squares. Only when there are rules and regulations, everything will be safe. Managing the rules and keeping the bottom line are the fundamentals of being a human being and doing things. (3) Don’t owe money to “correct character” and manage your children’s desires: academic qualifications cannot represent character, and virtue is the foundation of time. Parents should teach their children as early as possible to manage desires well, not to do evil things, not to be accustomed to evil thoughts, and to walk a good path in life openly. To the highest level of education: Parents are responsible, schools are not laissez-faire, and they work hard to make the new semester work. Families and schools cooperate well, shoulder every responsibility, and manage every checkpoint to give children the best education. As educator Suhomlinsky said: \”The effect of education depends on the consistency of the school and the family. Without this consistency, the school\’s teaching and education will collapse like a house made of paper.\” Towering trees cannot grow in the greenhouse, and there is no practice in the alley. Send out thousands of troops and horses. In the new beginning, teachers and parents will work together to help children develop good habits and provide timely and correct guidance in study and life. In the new starting point, in addition to learning, don\’t forget to pay attention to the healthy physical and mental growth of your children and help inject more sunshine into your children\’s lives. Always remember that the ultimate mission of education is to cultivate a child who is happy, positive, warm, and with a sound personality. Click \”Like\” and encourage all parents, teachers and children.
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