In the games a child plays, his future is hidden

When your child says to you, \”I want to fly!\” how do you respond to him? I remember one time, my son was playing outside with his grandma. He said to another old woman, \”I\’m going to fly!\” \”You can\’t fly.\” \”Why?\” \”Because you are a person, not a bird.\” \”The mosquito is not a bird, so why can it fly?\” \”Because mosquitoes have wings, but you don\’t.\” At this time, I saw that the old man was already a little impatient. He ran over and picked up his son, lifted him up high, and then flew him around. \”I can fly!\” he shouted happily. Now, he will hold his coat open with his two little hands, and then jump and run. Said they were his wings. If I happened to be wearing a coat like this, I would fly with him. In a child\’s world. We are their father or mother. But sometimes it is imagined as some other objects or characters. For example, I once spent half an hour playing a pirate game with my son. We were standing on a large concrete slab. That is the big ship we use to travel around the world. It is as big as you can imagine. It has whatever functions you want to give it. So we started from Asia and headed east, with the goal of going to South America. The little guy used almost all his knowledge to make this game richer. Of course, with me as the \”captain\” here, he will have more fun! Unfortunately, not all adults understand children\’s games. For example, we will encounter some adults who self-righteously say that this is not okay and that is not okay. It seems that everything the children imagine is just fantasy. Or you think children’s games are boring and a waste of time. A few days ago, I was playing with my son downstairs. Several children got together to play games. One of the boys pulled his mother over to play with him. \”Mom, we need an ugly witch, you can be the one!\” Unexpectedly, his mother put down her phone and her face suddenly darkened. \”You go and have your own fun, don\’t look for me, I don\’t have time!\” The child could only lower his head and walk away. Of course, every mother hopes to be a beautiful goddess in the eyes of her children. But when children play imaginative games, they need a character like this. But don\’t be angry. There are a lot of dads out there, too, when the kids play role-playing games. Always likes to cause trouble. Say the child is too naive or point fingers. If he was asked to participate, he would refuse as if it cost him his own life. Please don’t treat children with the perspective of the adult world. But look at it with tolerance and let their imaginations fly boldly. Because every child\’s childhood is inseparable from imaginative games. It can even be said that a happy childhood is inseparable from this. Because they are observing and contacting the world. On the other hand, I still feel like I am dreaming. Children’s future is actually hidden in children’s daily games. They demonstrate their abilities, character, and potential through games. I love spending time with children. Not just because of their sincerity. It\’s because they can dream and are full of hope. One wonderful thing is to dream with your children. So don\’t use your boring rationality to shackle your children. Rather, we should strive to create more in lifeBuild something fun. For example, encourage children to give their toys a name. Almost all the dinosaurs from the little fish have a name. I remember when he was more than two years old, I bought him a pair of dinosaur dolls. One is called Xiaolu and the other is Xiaohong. Later, five or six members were added successively. I work with him each time to come up with a name for the new member. For example, Spinosaurus \”Seth\”, Tyrannosaurus Rex \”White Fang\”…or give your own cars and objects a name. For example, the car we have is called Fatty White. So when we sit on it, we feel very friendly. In life, if you create more fun for your children, they will also become very interesting. For example, when giving eggs to a little guy, he always eats the egg white first, and then the yolk is difficult to swallow. Once again, I took out the egg yolk with a spoon, then made a small cup with the intact egg white and filled it with a little water to drink. He also told his son that it was a \”glow-in-the-dark cup of grape wine.\” The little guy suddenly became excited and wanted to make one. That’s great! Eat the egg yolk first, and then carefully make a small cup. I destroyed the eggs completely while playing. Many parents say that their children are disobedient. Maybe there\’s something wrong with your expression. For example, if a child doesn\’t like to eat, it will be useless even if you urge him or hit him. The key is to taste delicious and be suitable for children. The other thing is to add some creativity and fun into it. For children, the attentive care of parents can make childhood full of fantasy and expectations, and continue the beautiful feelings throughout their lives. Plant a seed of sunshine and kindness in the heart of a child. When the heart contains one\’s expression of concern and love for others, it is also a way to adjust life. But many parents actually use their children as their own weapons. For example, there was a report in the news: Because the couple couldn\’t get along and wanted to divorce, the mother took her elementary school daughter to jump off a building. The child was so frightened that he pulled his mother and said, \”I don\’t want to die.\” A little child has to face such a test of life and death. There is also news that when an old man violated regulations and was punished by the traffic police, he failed to act and used the baby in his arms as a weapon to hit the police to vent his personal anger. A child\’s heart should not be dusted prematurely. Those children who become old-fashioned before they grow up, even if they become \”little doctors\”, I think they are still unfortunate. I like the way my son reads seriously, and I also like the way he rolls on the floor. Children\’s hearts should not bear disaster prematurely. Children who often witness their parents quarreling are also unfortunate. It\’s like being exposed to high-intensity radiation, except that this radiation kills the child\’s mind. What is a child\’s world like? That is a paradise that many people cannot reach in their lifetime. I like Rabindranath Tagore\’s poem \”The World of Children\” very much. I wish I could occupy a quiet corner in the center of my child\’s own world. I know that the stars spoke to him, and that the sky dropped before him, delighting him with its silly clouds and rainbows. Those who everyone thought he was mute, those who looked like they would never move, all brought their stories and plates full of colorful toys and crawled to his window. I wish I could march on the road that crosses the hearts of my children, freeing myself from all constraints. In fact, being with my children will free my heart. And it willYou create something you didn\’t even expect. There are many things you may never do. So, when my son was about to lose his teeth. I prepared a deciduous tooth box for him in advance, hoping to leave a souvenir for him. The box is very beautiful, and after opening it can record the time of each tooth falling out. Some people may think this is redundant. But there must be a little excess like this in life. We often say that women love a little romance. In fact, children also love these little romances. Moreover, letting your child feel it from an early age will make it easier for him to express it when he grows up. Children who grow up in an environment full of love and fun. They will also grow into an interesting person. I still remember that my wife and I rented a house just after graduation. There is plenty of time. I had enough time to cut the carrots into heart shapes, boil them in soup, and serve them to my wife. It takes a lot of time to hollow out the grapefruit, then stuff the apple inside, and then seal it completely. He gave her a grapefruit on Christmas Eve, and to her surprise, she discovered the secret inside. Now I think of these things that seem to be a waste of time, but when I think of them many years later, I still feel warm. I think when parents do those things for their children with their heart. Maybe you thought your child had forgotten. But one day he may clearly tell you that he remembers it. Then look at you lovingly. Of course, we don’t do these things expecting to be rewarded by our children. But these things we do can indeed warm children’s lives. That\’s worth it!