Incest of molesting girls happens one after another. Is this society getting better or worse?

It\’s been a bit rough lately. Over the past few days, I saw several incidents of molesting girls. The one that attracted the most attention was at Nanjing South Railway Station, where a 20-year-old man held a teenage girl in his arms and caressed the girl\’s chest. In full view of everyone, so blatantly. The most irritating thing is that the two adults around him turned a blind eye. Later, it was learned that these two adults were the parents of the young man and the girl was their adopted daughter. It\’s so excessive in public, and I don\’t know what will happen at home. That’s why everyone couldn’t accept it. Not only did someone take a picture and upload it to Weibo, but many people retweeted it, quickly making the matter a hot search topic, and some people decisively called the police. Things are progressing very quickly. The family\’s situation has been uncovered as quickly as possible. There have been constant denunciations online. It is expected that the young man involved will be punished by law soon. This incident was already irritating enough, but yesterday I saw something even more irritating. On the stone slab of the Nanxi Yangtze River Bridge, someone found a newborn baby girl with blood still all over her body. Seeing abandoned babies, everyone couldn\’t help but condemn the irresponsible parents. However, things soon took an unexpected turn. The police found out that the mother of the abandoned baby was a 12-year-old girl. The girl was a left-behind child whose parents worked outside the home and lived with her grandparents. The trend of the comments quickly changed this time. From condemning the parents of the abandoned baby to sympathizing with the 12-year-old girl, everyone left messages to find out the real culprit behind it. A 12-year-old left-behind child was actually able to give birth to a child. If he had not been sexually assaulted, would there be other possibilities? Therefore, everyone has the same goal. They believe that the little girl is also a victim, and the truth behind it is what we should pay attention to. The evildoer behind it is the heinous one and should be found out and severely punished. The two things were enough to make people angry, but then I accidentally checked Weibo and saw another similar thing. This time the perpetrator was a courier, and while delivering the courier, he molested an underage girl who was alone at home. As a result, the girl\’s parents grabbed her, beat her severely, and called the police. The courier has been detained. I\’m so angry that I don\’t want to watch the news these days. I really don\’t know what\’s going on in this society. Why are all the beasts extending their claws to children? Some parents around me are also very nervous and angry. Some people lament that the world is declining. The society used to be so pure, but now it is getting more and more dirty. Some people even jumped up in anger and cursed these news reports, saying that because everyone reported on it every day, more and more people committed crimes. If they didn\’t mention it, many people wouldn\’t know that girls could be molested. I never understood why such incidents happened one after another, so I always had something to say but didn’t know what to say. Until a friend told me that something similar happened to her when she was a child. She was about seven or eight years old at the time and was very playful. Her favorite thing to do was to get on the stool and look through the cabinets. One time, a cousin came to play at home. When he saw that she wanted to look through the cabinet but couldn\’t reach it, he said, \”Let me hug you.\” Her cousin was about 20 years old at the time and was already very tall. She thought this method was easier and she agreed without hesitation. The cousin picked her up and she was able to open it easilyCabinet door, rummaging through the contents. She was turning happily when she suddenly felt uncomfortable in her lower body. She clearly remembered that her cousin put one of his hands on her lower body and kneaded it hard. She didn\’t know why her cousin was doing this, but she felt scared instinctively, so she quickly stopped rummaging and shouted to get down. Her cousin coaxed her with nice words and asked her to turn over a little longer, saying that she was not tired from lifting. She quickly stopped caring about this matter. She didn\’t know what it meant, and she didn\’t tell her parents. She would still play with her cousin when she saw him in the future. Until she became an adult, when she saw the news about the molestation of girls, she still didn\’t understand what molestation meant, and what was the difference between it and rape? Only later did she slowly understand the difference between the two, and finally realized that what her cousin did to her back then was actually considered obscene. This incident has become an indelible mark in her heart. Every time she sees the word obscenity, she will hate herself for being so stupid in the first place. She is also secretly glad that her cousin did not do anything more excessive. Otherwise, her life will be ruined. It might be different. So she told me: Today\’s children are actually luckier than us. At least they know what molestation is, and at least adults will teach them and be wary of the opposite sex around them. We didn\’t know anything about it at that time, and neither did our parents, so they all thought it was a normal thing. For example, if this case of molesting a girl at Nanjing South Railway Station was considered in the past, some people might think it was nothing, just an intimate act between a brother and a sister. Even now, there are still such voices on the Internet. However, most people now know that this is abnormal and obscene, which is why someone filmed it and posted it online, and why so many people were filled with indignation, which attracted the attention of the police. It\’s not that society was pure in the past and there were few molestations of girls, but people in the past didn\’t pay attention to it and didn\’t take it seriously. People now finally understand that this is bad and must be condemned and put to an end. Only things that most people think are abnormal will be reported and paid attention to. This does not mean that society has become bad, it just means that society has become better. We know better about safeguarding the rights of girls and are less willing to condone bad people. As a result, we have also seen that the family at Nanjing South Railway Station has been condemned and faces punishment, and the courier has been detained. I still remember when I was a child, there was a female classmate in the class who was developing early. Every time she asked the math teacher a question, the male teacher would touch her breasts intentionally or unintentionally. At that time, we didn\’t understand anything about men and women, but we all treated it as a joke. Many people made fun of the female classmate about it, and some called her a slut. Surprisingly, no one thought there was anything wrong with the male teacher. Every time I think about this incident, I wish I could go back in time and tell my former classmates and my former self that the male teacher was molesting me. Many friends said that they themselves or the girls around them have experienced molestation to some extent. Even if they have not experienced it, they have heard about it a lot. It\’s just that we were ignorant at the time and didn\’t know what it meant. So we often lament that we have grown from ignorant children to adults. We have been ignorant all the way, and we have escaped so many open and secret attacks. We are really lucky. Yes, molesting girlsSuch things have never happened, but we didn\’t know about it before, and even thought it was a shame for girls. Now we finally know that this is a bad person doing evil. We also finally know that this matter is very serious and cannot be condoned or allowed to develop. Therefore, any obscene incident is discovered by the media. These things happen one after another, which of course makes people angry, but at the same time, it also means that people pay enough attention to it. Only by paying enough attention will changes occur. As long as we pay enough attention, there will be fewer bad people. It is said that the account of a certain pedophile Internet celebrity has been blocked, and we have also seen that those who molested girls were punished (such results were rarely seen before), and the previous crime of prostitution of underage girls was deleted from the criminal law. When a type of thing is exposed frequently, it is precisely when it gets better. Although it is sad, only in this way can change be achieved. So when it comes to molesting girls, I think this society has become better. Instead of deteriorating, it is becoming more and more pure. Only when society is pure can it not tolerate filth.