Is accompanying children the best family education?

There is a saying in \”Collected Sayings of Confucius·Yi Zhe\”: \”The prosperity of humanity must come from couples.\” The family is like a landscape painting, the father is a towering mountain, and the mother is an endless river. My father uses the strength of the mountains to hold up the world; my mother uses the delicate water to make the days lively. The pattern of the father and the mood of the mother determine the future of the children and the prosperity of the family. The father\’s overall pattern determines the height of a family. British psychologist Alver said: \”The father\’s influence on the child is huge, and it will penetrate into the child\’s blood and embed in the child\’s soul bit by bit.\” A father loves his son, and teaches him. With righteousness. The father is the benchmark for the child\’s growth. The father\’s love for the child is to tell the child what is the right path. The children\’s exploration of the boundaries of life depends on their father\’s vision and pattern. In the novel \”To Kill a Mockingbird,\” the protagonist Atticus is a white lawyer and a father. He spent as much time as possible with his children, giving them respect and teaching them to read and understand. One day, Tom, a black man in the small town, was framed and was about to go to jail. In that era when racial discrimination was prevalent, no white lawyer was willing to take the risk to defend him. When Tom was at his most difficult and helpless, Atticus stood up. Because of this incident, the residents of the town laughed at him. The neighbor\’s wife even said in front of the two children that their father had embarrassed white people. Atticus\’ son couldn\’t control his anger when he heard other people insulting his father. He broke all the neighbor\’s flowers. After Atticus found out, he did not scold the child harshly, but said gently: \”Don\’t take it too seriously, show your gentlemanly manner.\” Afterwards, he asked his son to apologize to the neighbor. Even though these things put Atticus into a huge dilemma, he did not give up his integrity as a lawyer and insisted on defending Tom. Regardless of the outcome, he used practical actions to tell the children that the mob is not necessarily right, and the most important thing a person should not lose is his own conscience. Fan Deng Reading Club\’s Five Compulsory Courses in Family Education for New Parents [Video + Audio] Educator Ning Shiyi once said: \”For the development of the family, the father\’s pattern will have a very important impact.\” The father\’s vision and The pattern is the character of the family, and the strength of the children all comes from this character. The so-called pattern is not about strength and wealth, but the quality of a person. The father is the child\’s guide to the outside world. If the father is of noble character, the child will have a pure nature; if the father is far-sighted, the child will have a bright future. My father uses his knowledge and wisdom to figure out the future path of a family. A mother\’s good mood determines the temperature of a family. There is a saying: you can know the family by observing a person, and you can know the virtues of a child by observing a mother. The character and virtue of children can be gleaned from their mothers. A gentle and optimistic mother will always bring surprises in ordinary life. No matter what we experience, we can be healed by the fireworks at home. Just as the writer Liang Xiaosheng said: \”Mother\’s love is great, and this greatness is in the little things in life; maternal love is sincere, and this sincerity is in the trivial reminders.\” Liang Xiaosheng once told the story of childhood and love in the novel \”Mother\” Bits and pieces of my mother’s past. On winter nights, his mother put him and his brothers and sisters on the warm kang, doing needlework and talking about homely things. suddenly,The mother conjured up a little book like a magic trick, and the children grabbed it to read, while the mother went to roast some sweet potatoes and starch the cotton clothes. In Liang Xiaosheng\’s writings, the mother can be described as having \”magnificent powers\”. The mud house at home was originally like a cellar, but under the care of my mother, the windows were bright and clean, making it warm and comfortable. When there was no food to eat, my mother would nimbly climb up the tree and roll out the elm money, and then make the elm money into steamed cakes, small tofu, and batter soup, which were delicious and left a fragrant aroma on the lips and teeth. Her mother\’s tenderness is like sowing a seed of generosity in her heart. No matter what happens, she will respond calmly, without getting anxious or complaining, and with open-mindedness and relief. Until many years later, Liang Xiaosheng still said with emotion: \”Every lonely day, I miss my mother, deeply.\” The older generation often said that children are like crops in the field, they are like crops in the wind. long. In fact, the wind is never outside, but the smell blowing from mother\’s heart. The true educational power of a mother lies in her emotional tenderness. \”Mother is the soul of a family.\” The mother\’s mood determines the atmosphere of the family. If a mother does not want her children to be sensitive and have low self-esteem, she cannot allow herself to be emotionally unstable; if she wants her children to be optimistic and confident, she must first be optimistic and confident herself. A gentle mother can provide her children with a relaxed and happy family environment. The best family education cannot be separated from the mother; and the best education from the mother cannot be separated from stable emotions. Xie An, a famous prime minister in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, once said: \”The best family education is for parents to be the best version of themselves.\” A warm family is inseparable from the strong support of the father and the considerateness of the mother. If the father is resolute and strong, and the mother is as gentle as water, the fortune of a family is bound to be smooth and smooth. The father will not exaggerate himself or deliberately hide his shortcomings, but calmly use actions to give his children the best demonstration; the mother will not affect her emotions because of trivial matters, and try to speak calmly when things happen, instead of Losing his temper at the top of his lungs. \”If the father is the sun in the family, shining brightly to guide people, then the mother is the moon, shining brightly to soothe people\’s hearts.\” If the father is a leader and the mother supports the family, she can bring unlimited blessings to the family. Happiness and hope.