It has been a year since Luo Yixiao passed away, and his parents only knew about it because of their children…

The New Year is here, and there is a joyful atmosphere everywhere. Suddenly I saw this news: On the first anniversary of Luo Yixiao\’s death, Luo Er, who had been accused of fraudulent donations, is now helping people find relatives. Luo Yixiao, the little girl with two braids and a sweet smile, has passed away for one year! On such a joyful festival, Luo Yixiao was alone in that world, wondering whether he was happy or not? On Christmas Eve in 2016, Yixiao, who was only five years old, closed her lovely eyes forever after fighting in the intensive care unit for three months. Everyone got to know her through her father while she was ill and hospitalized. She didn\’t know that everyone knew her because of her father\’s articles and the huge donation. She didn\’t even know that because of this incident, the whole society had started a big discussion about charity. Her father was accused of using charity to gain public sympathy and obtain huge donations. Such a lovely girl was killed by such a violent and vicious leukemia. It still hurts my heart to see Xiao Xiao with two pigtails and a grin on his face in the news. If people who have nothing to do with her see her like this, you can imagine how her parents feel. Please click here to enter the image description. When Xiaoxiao was lying in the intensive care unit with tubes inserted all over her body, she must have expected her parents to stay with her 24 hours a day. Even if I look at myself through the glass window, I am praying in my heart. If Xiaoxiao could talk, she would definitely say: \”Dad, don\’t go away, stay with me.\” The way Luo Er cried in front of the camera was not false at all, but only the pain and helplessness of a father losing his beloved daughter. I think he must have said words similar to \”God, let me bear this pain and let the child be free\” countless times in his heart. Since Xiaoxiao left, Luo Er believed in Christianity and determined to use \”love\” and \”tolerance\” to help others. He silently said to Xiaoxiao in his heart: \”Passing on love will become dad\’s main job in the second half of his life.\” Luo Er said that it was the innocent Xiaoxiao that taught him how to be a competent father, a qualified husband, and a good husband. People and believing Christians. There are now some missing person notices posted on his official account, all of which are free to help others find their lost relatives. In less than a month since it started, three people have already found relatives through his platform. He is still writing books and is currently on his second one. \”I hope to do a better job in tracing people on WeChat,\” Luo Er said. \”The words I most wanted to record in the first half of my life have been collected and published. In the second half of my life, I want to write another book to write down all the missing people stories I have collected. Come out.\” It is said that children are the best gift God gives to parents, and a smile is the best gift God gives to Rolle. Her passing also caused a father to undergo tremendous changes in body, mind and soul. Because of their children, parents grow and transform. Loving children pays off. Zoologists have observed a phenomenon in nature: almost all animals have \”reward\” behavior. Take wolves for example. When a wolf is young, its parents will go out to forage for the pups. When the wolf grows up, it will also go out to forage for its parents. This phenomenon is called \”feedback phenomenon.\” Animals can do this, let alone humans? A friend told me a story. Once her husband was on a business trip, and she and her son were the only ones at home. those days,My 8-year-old son has become a super little sweet boy. Help her carry and wash the dishes, mop the floor, and usually procrastinate on her homework. On those days, she didn\’t need to remind her and it was done quickly. One day she caught a cold and suddenly woke up from her sleep with a violent cough in the middle of the night. In the haziness, I heard the son in the small room running out of the room with his slippers on. It was winter at that time, and she was afraid that her son would catch a cold. She was about to shout at the top of her voice, but suddenly she found her son standing next to her bed. My son is holding a glass of boiling water in his hand! \”Mom, drink some water quickly and your cough will be better.\” The son said with concern. She saw her son put on his down jacket obediently. She said before that only by taking care of yourself can you be able to take care of others. At that moment, she really burst into tears. What she did to her son was exactly what she did to him when he had a cold. She said to her son, it\’s such a cold day, come to bed quickly, don\’t catch a cold. The son slipped into bed like a little loach. That night, both mother and son slept very soundly. She and her son once had a lot of \”fights\” to separate beds, but that night, all the \”struggles\” disappeared. From then on, my son stopped being naughty and ran into his room to sleep obediently. \”Maybe I misunderstood my son before.\” She said with a thoughtful look on her face. I once saw a heart-warming video of a newborn baby subconsciously hugging its mother and kissing her face. This scene moved all the medical staff. After it was posted online, countless netizens exclaimed that they were moved. In the eyes of children, parents are the dearest and most beloved people in the world. If you ask a child to answer, who in the world loves you the most, and who do you love the most? The answer must be mom and dad. Many children, when their parents buy them delicious food for fun, they will give it to their parents to enjoy. No one ever doubts the love between a parent and a child. For children, their parents are their world. No matter you are poor or rich, as long as your parents are around, life is paradise. Parents\’ love for their children and everything they do for their children are seen in their eyes and remembered in their hearts, and they secretly make up their minds about how they will behave for their parents when they grow up. My little girl once said that when she grows up, she wants to make money and buy delicious and fun things for her parents. A child\’s first impression of the world comes from the words and deeds of his parents. What parents do leaves a deep imprint on their children\’s minds and affects them for a long time. The words and deeds of parents are gentle and silent, and are better than any textbook. Some parents said that after becoming a parent, they became careful about their words and deeds because they are role models in the eyes of their children and are omnipotent. When some children grow up, they feel that their parents\’ actions, words and deeds are not suitable for their own development, and they will spend a lot of time correcting their hearts. The optimistic thing is that as long as you put your mind to it, there will be changes. But if parents continue to learn, strive to make progress, and learn how to be parents after becoming parents, will they give their children a better environment for growing up? First of all, parents should maintain a kind heart and do their best to help others. As a parent, while being kind to your family, do some charity when you have free time, help those in need, and fill your heart with kindness. The child sees it and alsoWill learn to take care of others and face the world with a friendly eye. Rohr said that in his new book, he will write down many touching moments to let everyone understand that there is a lot of love and tolerance in the world. His official account became a public welfare platform to help others find their families. After many people become parents, they understand the meaning of \”old people are like other people, and young people are like young people.\” Secondly, parents should face life with strength and cope with various difficulties optimistically. Life is a difficult journey. As a greasy middle-aged woman, I increasingly feel that life is difficult. Declining physical condition, stagnant wages, and increasingly higher prices… Faced with increasingly sensible children, parents not only want to train their children to become excellent people, but also want them to be able to cope with life. various difficulties. Parents should face life with a smile. No matter what kind of difficulties arise, we must firmly believe that they will pass and there will be solutions. There was an example before. A mother is sick and needs surgery. But her daughter had just entered college, and she didn\’t want to affect her child\’s study, so she asked her husband to hide it from her daughter. A few months later, my daughter learned about this incident when she came home from vacation and couldn\’t help but burst into tears. This mother didn\’t know that her daughter\’s crying was actually the fear, concern and fear of almost losing her mother. In fact, when parents encounter such a thing, there is no need to hide it from their children. Instead, they should take the initiative to tell their children and discuss coping strategies with them. You know, every child has to grow up and face the stormy world. What parents need to teach their children is their attitude towards facing hardships and positive coping measures. Finally, parents should smile at their work and be good at learning and growing. Parents who actively face their work and do their best work will make their children feel that their parents are serious and powerful. When they face work in the future, they can take this attitude seriously. Good parents should love work and love learning. Singer Peng Jiahui is a mother of four children. She not only wants to be a good mother, but also wants to be as good a singer as possible. She said: \”Setting a role model for your children is the most important thing for a parent.\” Countless busy performances once made Peng Jiahui\’s life lose focus. \”I not only have the role of a singer, but I also have to be a mother in my life.\” She almost choked up when talking about this. But she still said firmly, \”My children will see in the future how serious their mother is when it comes to work. I believe that setting a role model for our children is the most important thing for us as parents.\” Children see their parents working for work. And if you pay and work hard for gain, you will naturally remove \”get something for nothing\” from your dictionary when you grow up. Educator Suhomlinsky once said: \”Children begin to understand the human world from their parents. Children begin to understand the human world from their parents. The first thing he understands is how his mother talks to him. , how dad treats mom. From this, his initial concepts and understanding of good and evil were born.\” I hope every parent can smile at life and give their children endless examples.