It is a joy to have a grandson who is old enough to enter kindergarten! But why is Aunt Ma looking so sad?

I just got off work and was walking downstairs in the activity area when I saw Aunt Ma from Building 6 holding her eldest grandson\’s little hand and talking animatedly to the neighbors. Aunt Ma is the backbone of the literary and artistic activities of these amateur choirs, and her voice can be heard from a long distance away. It turns out that Aunt Ma’s eldest grandson is three years old and has reached the age of entering kindergarten. Due to work reasons, Aunt Ma’s son and daughter-in-law have no time to take care of the child, let alone pick up and drop off the child to and from the kindergarten according to the time period. Therefore, the problems of taking care of the children\’s daily life and kindergarten can only fall on Aunt Ma. Aunt Ma retired and had nothing to do at home. She took care of her grandson and helped her children share some of the pressure. At the same time, she also enjoyed the family happiness of having her grandson around her knees, which was quite content. Now that her eldest grandson is about to enter kindergarten, Aunt Ma really feels bad about leaving her to live in a collective life. And when she thinks about the news media or other online media from time to time about the corporal punishment or abuse of children by kindergarten teachers, this little heart I just jumped and jumped wildly, so I wanted to choose a suitable kindergarten for my grandson, but I couldn\’t be happy about anything! As a result, after shopping for almost a week, I still haven\’t decided which kindergarten is suitable for my grandson. So I am inquiring and communicating with these old neighbors who are taking care of their grandchildren in the same situation as myself. Aunt Zhang told Aunt Ma as someone who has been there, never choose a kindergarten far away from our community. She is an example. The kindergarten her daughter chose for her nephew took an hour just to pick up and drop off. Not to mention that even their children couldn\’t bear it, especially on windy and rainy days. Fortunately, my child went to school and was picked up and dropped off by my daughter, so I am now free. Aunt Wang suggested that Aunt Ma should choose a kindergarten for her children where they can learn some knowledge. Don\’t send your children to kindergartens. They will not learn as much knowledge as they can teach their children at home, which will delay their children\’s growth. What these aunts said was that they really had all kinds of answers, and they were so enthusiastic. The sharp-eyed Aunt Liu shouted to Teacher Zhang who had just entered the community gate not far away: \”Teacher Zhang, come here quickly, we have a question to ask.\” Please come.\” Teacher Zhang is also from our unit building, and has been teaching for more than 30 years. She really has a unique aspect in educating children. Now that she has retired, she has been hired by a private kindergarten. I\’m going to be a business consultant. Seeing the old neighbor saying hello, Teacher Zhang was also an enthusiastic person and hurried over. After listening to the old neighbor’s doubts, she modestly said that she was not an expert or scholar, but since everyone asked, she would use her work experience to help us. Neighbors gave some practical suggestions and told everyone to consider the following aspects: When choosing the location of a kindergarten, you usually only choose one that is close to your home and not one that is far away. The advantage of choosing a nearby kindergarten is not only that it is convenient for parents to pick up and drop off, and that it is convenient for parents to work, but more importantly, it is conducive to the growth of children. Especially for children who are younger and have just entered the kindergarten, there may be many problems that require the cooperation of parents due to their indications for admission, so parents arriving as soon as possible will be more able to help the children. Pay attention to the environment and cultural atmosphere of kindergartenBefore their children enter the kindergarten, parents can learn about the kindergarten\’s philosophy and cultural environment in advance. You can learn about it through word-of-mouth reviews from parents who have attended this kindergarten. In addition, you can bring your children into the kindergarten for on-site understanding and observation. Although we cannot clearly understand the essence of this garden, we can at least have a general understanding. The kindergarten philosophy and cultural atmosphere reflect the characteristics of the kindergarten and also reflect the quality of the teachers. A kindergarten with excellent kindergarten philosophy and atmosphere will be responsible to parents and more to the children, and there will be no accidents. Parents are worried about the vicious events that make their children unhappy. Look at the hardware facilities. The hardware facilities include garden buildings and children\’s leisure and entertainment facilities. Parents can decide this based on their own preferences and financial situation. Usually kindergartens with higher-end hardware facilities also charge considerable fees, but it has little direct correlation with teacher quality and cultural concepts, so this point is put last. After listening to Teacher Zhang\’s suggestion, the aunts suddenly seemed to have a backbone, and Aunt Ma was even more aware. Her mind was full of uncertainty, and now she knew how to weigh the pros and cons of the choice. Now Aunt Ma\’s eldest grandson is in middle school. The little guy has a great time in kindergarten. Not only has he learned to be more polite, but he is also versatile! Aunt Ma couldn\’t help but smile from ear to ear. When people in kindergarten asked her about it, she always mentioned Teacher Zhang\’s suggestions because this method was really useful.