It is better to educate yourself if you are poor and rich! These 10 things must be taught to children

Many of the clothes my daughter Xiaoyou wears were replaced by her cousin\’s children. They say they are old clothes, but they are actually quite new. Every time I went home with big and small bags, Dad You said with disgust: \”People say that daughters should be rich, but you still go home all day tinkering with second-hand goods. If you let your daughter be so unworldly, who will be a bad boy in the future?\” If you\’re being careful, won\’t a new dress lure our daughter away?\” Looking at Dad You\’s serious nonsense, I smiled and replied to him: \”If you are rich, you won\’t be lured away by a bad boy? What if you are spoiled and spoiled? If a Mercedes-Benz comes to you one day and you can’t afford it, you will still follow the rich bad boy!” In fact, no matter whether you are raised poor or rich, in the end, the problems that should arise in the growth of children will still appear. The so-called \”poor and rich\” is not the key to children\’s growth. Proper education of children is what we should work on the most. My friend works as a human resources officer in a company and is responsible for recruiting and interviewing fresh college students. Once she complained to me: \”To put it bluntly, the employment pressure is so great now. Many college students deserve it if they can\’t find a job! They don\’t have the most basic etiquette and upbringing!\” It turns out that she usually sees in her mailbox that she meets the requirements When applying for a resume, we will call you to confirm. But in many cases, it is as follows: \”Hello, are you classmate Zhao?\” \”Ang, who are you?\” \”I am the human resources specialist of xx company, and I just saw that you submitted a resume in our company. Excuse me , have you found a suitable job now?\” \”Oh, not yet. What does your company do?\” \”What does our company do? Is it possible for you to have an interview tomorrow morning?\” \”Not tomorrow, I\’m in my hometown. , I won’t be able to interview until next month.” “…” These kids who are being interviewed don’t have basic etiquette first of all. When someone calls politely, they should also ask “Yes, who are you” out of politeness? Instead of asking \”Who are you?\”; secondly, he doesn\’t pay much attention to work. Since he has submitted his resume, he should at least get to know the company he is applying for, but he still asks the personnel \”What does your company do?\” \”; Third, if you don\’t have any sense of time, since you are ready to find a job, it is generally impossible to just wait for the interview and let the company keep the opportunity for you for a month. After such a phone call, the impression left on the HR teacher was very bad. Although I haven\’t met him yet, I already feel that this child lacks manners, serious attitude, and the most basic upbringing. It is conceivable that even if there is a good opportunity, it will not be the turn of such a child. Education is in the details, don’t let your children fall down on these 10 little things 1. Please smile when you meet people. Of all the expressions, smiling is the most comforting. When you meet a stranger, smile and say hello naturally and generously, you can leave a good first impression in others\’ hearts. This is really a great interpersonal communication skill. 2. All promises, no matter how big or small, must be kept. If you agree to lend a toy to a friend, don\’t worry about others destroying it and regret it; if you agree to go play football together, if something happens and you can\’t go, you must tell him in advance. Our integrity in the hearts of others is built up and broken down by every little thing. If you go back on your word, you will have no friends sooner or later. 3.Do not touch other people\’s personal belongings without their permission. Everyone has their own private space, and once it is intruded, they will definitely feel uneasy, angry, and disgusted. Therefore, when you go to someone else’s house, don’t open drawers casually, don’t enter the bedroom casually, and don’t browse other people’s phones casually. 4. Don’t make negative comments on other people’s things and hobbies. \”You like TFboys? What\’s so good about it, you poop-picking boy!\” \”The color of your pencil case doesn\’t look good\”… Denying other people\’s favorite things and hobbies is actually no different from blaming them themselves. It\’s very hurtful and very tricky. Annoying people. 5. Don’t speak ill of others behind their backs, because your words will reach their ears sooner or later, which will hurt both others and yourself. In addition, you should also be wary of those who say bad things about others all day long. If they say bad things about others today, they may say bad things about you tomorrow. This is absolutely true! 6. When you have a date with someone else, you have to wait for them, don’t make them wait for you. This will become very important when you enter the workplace, because being late is a taboo in the eyes of the boss, which means disrespect and indifference to work. Of course, this is also crucial when it comes to dating! 7. When facing help from others, you must not forget to say thank you. When you leave home, no one is obligated to help you, so remember to be grateful. No thanks this time, no thanks next time, maybe there won’t be a third time. 8. Be sure to keep quiet in public places such as movie theaters. I remember there was a news article that said: In a movie theater, a child kept kicking the chairs in the front row for fun. The people in the front row got annoyed and turned around and said a few words. As a result, the parents of the child were unhappy. In the end, the two families fought directly. 9. Don’t spoil your eating habits when eating out. When everyone is having a dinner together, don’t grab your favorite dish and eat it, and don’t use chopsticks to flip through it. Although everyone said politely at the time: \”This kid has a great appetite!\” But in private, people would only accuse the child of not having a tutor. 10. Cover your mouth and nose when coughing or sneezing, and turn to one side. The last time I went to the supermarket, I wanted to buy some fried peanuts for my daughter, but the uncle in front of me sneezed and sprayed the peanuts evenly in the glass case… I don’t want to mention it anymore. I haven’t bought anything from the supermarket for more than a year. Bought bulk roasted seeds and nuts. We are always pursuing some lofty educational concepts, but in the end we ignore the most subtle and essential things in life. If I\’m raised in poverty, I\’m really afraid that poor control will make my children feel inferior; if I\’m raised in wealth, I\’m even more afraid that if I don\’t handle things properly, my children will be arrogant and compare themselves to others. Therefore, teaching children to educate them bit by bit is the most effective and practical.