It is better to teach your children to be as fierce as wolves than to teach them to be sheeplike. Parents collect it!

A popular saying in the circle recently is that it is better to teach your children to be as fierce as wolves than to teach them to be like sheep. Nowadays, the competition in society is cruel. Parents are always worried that their children will have a low starting point and be easily eliminated by the outside world if they are not careful. This is a natural mentality of protecting their children. But Dandan’s mother feels that children don’t need to be as fierce as wolves, nor do they need to be as fierce as sheep. Because you are as fierce as a wolf and have a sharp look, others will not dare to bully you, so they will naturally find ways to get rid of you behind your back. As a sheep, you will be weak and incompetent, so others will naturally not think highly of you and give you good opportunities. After all, being a moderate and measured person is the easiest person to stand in society. And if you have a boy at home, please ask your parents to teach him how to be a man! Game education conforms to children\’s nature, let\’s play! Smart parents will not let their children become nerds who can only read. Children have their own nature. In their childhood, what they need most is not to study at their desks, but to feel the outside world happily. Especially boys, they need to be more wild! Be more manly! Sometimes, you can also learn knowledge through playing, why not? There was a mother who liked to reach out and pick the neighbor\’s roses when her son was naughty. The mother took her son to the flower shop and asked him to pick his favorite plant seedlings and experience the fun of planting. The child bought small kumquat seeds and planted them at home. Every day after the children finished studying, they watered the little kumquats, observed their growth, and made some small notes. Later, the little kumquat really produced several fruits. The child learned about plants, experienced the joy of labor, and enjoyed the fruits of labor. The important thing is that the child also started to like reading books about plants. From then on, the child became fluent and knowledgeable when it came to plants, and he understood them better than adults. His peers around him regarded him as a \”plant master\”. How impressive! Mothers can also take their children out for outings, allowing them to pick up shells at the beach, play in the sand, or run happily in the playground. When a child is happy outside, he will naturally feel comfortable and his temperament will become cheerful. There will definitely be no personality problems that will trouble parents in the future. Life education encourages children to pay more. Parents should dare to \”use\” boys and not take care of them. Showing weakness to a little boy occasionally can stimulate his great energy! A man, regardless of age, should know how to protect those who are weaker than him and help those in need. This is a man with positive energy. If parents are reluctant to let a boy do things, then he will naturally become delicate and will not consider others. If a child does not develop a big picture when growing up, he will inevitably be petty in the future and even be timid in doing things. Ultimately, encouraging boys to give more is a good thing. A person can feel his own value only when he is needed by others and pays for others. Boys easily find themselves with more responsibilities and more energy than girls. Therefore, parents can show weakness to him occasionally, ask him to help with housework, shopping, pouring water… and praise his performance. Slowly, children realize their importance in the family. This good character of being willing to help others will follow him to school and society, and he will become a truly good man! Character Education: Men must be strong and brave. During the growth stage of children, do not oversatisfy them.Let the child try to make a certain amount of effort. If it is too easy to obtain, the result will be that the child loses interest in the process of exploration, and this process of exploration is the best way for children to grow. In fact, cultivating a child\’s strong and brave character is a treasure in his life, and parents are the ones who inspire him and give him the opportunity to release his precious character. If possible, please take your child to boldly try to conquer those huge toys in the amusement park, bravely explore unfamiliar caves and towering bridges, and participate in confrontational sports such as football and basketball… These can all allow him to experience competition. Fun and thrill. When these actions have become his habit, this strong and brave character will also enable the child to face life and studies positively. Adverse quotient education allows children to face setbacks. \”Adverse quotient\” is the way people react when facing adversity, that is, the ability to face setbacks, get out of trouble, and overcome difficulties. When children encounter failures and setbacks, the most effective and thorough way to help them get rid of negativity and frustration as soon as possible is to cultivate their positive thinking and let them know how to affirm themselves in daily life, that is, let them Children learn \”reverse quotient\”. For example, if a child comes in last in a sports competition, parents can say: \”Although you are in last, you are the winner if you persevere. Mom and dad are so happy for you!\” This approach will make the child feel trust and security. , motivating him to continue working hard next time. If parents say: \”What the hell, you\’re so stupid, don\’t participate in the competition!\” Then the child may avoid this kind of sport and be unwilling to participate in it from now on. As parents, you must not be stingy with your affirmation and evaluation of him. You must know that your behavior determines his habits. Pick up the setbacks and pile them into stepping stones on the child\’s growth path. The child will slowly avoid mistakes and achieve good grades and results again. These are the \”reverse business abilities\” that children have gradually accumulated. Parents, please don\’t categorically block the next possibility because of your children\’s setbacks.