It is not shameful for a son to want to be a baby daddy, but it will be dangerous if he will only make money and not take care of his family in the future.

I took Cece to the park to play on the weekend. Before going out, he said he would bring his two babies, a red stuffed chick and a pink stuffed elephant. Although he has said that the two babies he gave birth to are good children since he was 2 years old, and he usually takes them to listen to stories and put them to sleep, but in the past, every time he went out, he would only bring a car, a pistol, and an airplane. A cool little boy wanted to take two stuffed animals out for a walk. It was really his first time. The picture was so beautiful that I couldn’t imagine it… I was sweating coldly and said: Uh… why do you have to take your baby to be good? When you go out, don’t you usually take a small car with you? Can you bring your car with you today? How about bringing a small airplane and a small pistol. CeCe insisted several times: \”The baby told me obediently, they have never gone out to play outside, but they also want to play.\” Mom, let’s just take them out to play once. I had no choice but to let him hold his two babies and go out. Along the way, he acted like a \”super baby daddy\”, but in my heart, that was not what I wanted. I remembered that when he was 2 and a half years old, he was very interested in all kinds of kitchen toys that could be washed and cut, and he expressed his willingness to buy them several times. Naturally, I refused at the time. It wasn’t until a month later that I learned that another male classmate in his early childhood education class – a boy who usually looked like a small steel cannon – also liked playing with this kind of kitchen toy at home, did I convince him. I bought him a set myself. I remembered that when he was 3 and a half years old, he asked for a bunk bed. When I took him to a furniture store to choose, he ignored the cool little prince models among the many styles and fell in love with the pink HELLOKITTY one at a glance… Although he had chosen pink clothes and a pink stuffed elephant before, the pink KITTY bed he fell in love with this time really made my heart as a mother gallop. In the end, I tried my best to persuade him to choose the Little Prince model, but luckily I got his consent and bought a decent wood color one. He is now 4 and a half years old. He usually uses his small kitchen at home to wash and cut vegetables and bake cakes for these two babies, put them to bed and make milk. Now he has to upgrade to holding the two babies like a little girl. Plush dolls taking to the streets? ? The little man I was looking forward to in my heart, who dared to love, hate, stand up to the heaven and earth, whip his horse and gallop forward, has now developed into such a sissy? The thunder is rolling. As a mother, should I intervene and stop his behavior? ! After a day of anxiety, I went home in the evening and ran to my friends and parents group to complain. Unexpectedly, several mothers of male children said that their sons would also prefer to choose pink and red things, simulate cooking at home, and feed the toys and dolls at home like adults… They felt calm. After coming down, I began to slowly collect my thoughts. In my subconscious mind, boys should be masculine and should establish their tough guy image from an early age. So since I no longer needed to cry to express when I was hungry, sleepy, and needed to pee, I began to tell him intentionally or unintentionally that a man should not shed tears easily, and that it was embarrassing to cry. I even asked him \”No\” when I was anxious. cry\”. When his concept of money was just budding, I told him that boys will be responsible for making a lot of money in the future. NowI have to learn skills from the teacher; I tell him every day that I need to eat well and not be picky about food, and that I can protect girls by growing taller. How should I put it? I just wanted to be like the \”tyrannical president\”, but now I have been given a \”super baby daddy\”. This kind of contrast is really too cute for me. But, is it shameful for a boy to like pink, love cooking, and be willing to take care of babies? Positioning men in the frame of a big man, just making money and ignoring the children and housework and just being a hands-off shopkeeper, is it particularly masculine? Jackie Chan has been working hard for most of his life and has already earned over 100 million yuan. He is also the only Chinese winner of the Oscar Lifetime Achievement Award, and he has gained both fame and fortune early on. He is a tough guy on the screen. In his life, he only cares about his career and has no time to take care of his family. He has only seen his wife and son six times in six years. In ten years, the family of three has only had dinner together once. But in the end, The Xiao Longnu incident happened in vain, and now he is recognized by everyone as a scumbag with a well-established career. The masculinity is definitely present, but it may be the unsavory kind… Huang Lei\’s wealth and status in the entertainment industry obviously cannot be compared with Jackie Chan. But since his debut, he has always been responsible for his acting skills and good looks in the entertainment industry, and all his films have been well-received and well-received. In life, she is an excellent cook. When taking care of her two daughters, she is patient, meticulous, resourceful and independent. Recently, an article he wrote, \”A Woman Like My Wife,\” went viral on WeChat Moments, calling him a model of an ideal husband for women in the new era. However, no one thought he was a bitch just because he could work in the kitchen or raise a cute baby. Shot. Cece\’s dad has always been stuck in the \”big man\” frame. Not only did he never do housework, but he also often drank and socialized without being home. But in recent years, with the birth of Cece and her growth day by day, she has not only turned down all the social activities that can be avoided, but also has a great job washing and bathing the baby, telling stories and playing games. Even if he encounters a social event that cannot be postponed, he can always get home around 12:30, because he usually takes over the work of his son’s night urination… Did the child change his machismo, or did the child awaken his true nature? Manly nature? Thinking of this, I ran to the living room to hug my son and chat, so we had the following conversation: Me: My dear, do you like pink the most? Son: Well, yes, I also like red, blue, and green. Oh, and also, I don’t like yellow and brown. Me: Oh, then why do you like pink? Son: The girls in our class wear pink skirts and pink hairpins. They are so cute, so I like pink. (It turns out that liking pink comes from the hazy heterosexual aesthetic) Me: You are the obedient father of the little elephant and the little chicken, right? Son: Yes, I have to take care of them, cook for them and change diapers. If they cry, I will pick them up and comfort them. When I grow up, I will go to work in the company where my father works to earn money and buy a lot of delicious snacks for my baby. It turns out that such a little boy actually knows how to take care of others and how to love others. It turns out that such a little boy actually understands better than me and his father that he can support his family, take care of his family, and love his family. This is what a man truly looks like. Baby, the way you are chopping and cooking in the \”little kitchen\”, the way you are \”walking around\” when you go out, in fact, very MAN. Baby, I hope you will always remember this loving heart and continue to be a \”super daddy\” in the future.