There is a friend who used to be an out-and-out \”baby-sharing expert\”. He always liked to share the daily life of his children in his circle of friends. However, in recent months, this friend has not updated anything. What would make a mother who loves to share stop her desire to share? After asking my friend, I found out that she had encountered a lot of problems with her child\’s learning during this period. She was so worried about her child\’s learning every day that she didn\’t even bother to share her child\’s daily life. Many parents who love to show off their children invariably \”disappear\” from social circles after their children enter elementary school. When asked about the reasons, most of them are related to children\’s learning. Those parents who feel overwhelmed after their children enter elementary school often do not make adequate preparations when their children enter kindergarten. Especially the last half year of kindergarten is particularly important for the growth of their children. Parents must not only take graduation photos of their children and be immersed in the sadness of graduation and farewell, but forget to prepare their children for the key preparations before entering elementary school. After Junjun entered elementary school, he exposed many learning problems, which made Junjun\’s mother very troubled. The teacher also reported to his parents many times that Junjun could not sit still in class and was not interested in what the teacher taught. When other children focus on the lessons taught by the teacher, little Junjun always likes to look around. Junjun\’s mother had actually discovered this problem of her child a long time ago. She thought it would get better after her child entered elementary school, but she didn\’t expect that her child would still be the same. Every time the teacher shared the classroom video, Junjun’s mother would always find that her son was different from other people’s children. For example, if a cleaning lady passes by the door, she can attract Junjun\’s attention. In fact, situations like what happened to Junjun will also happen to many children. Because primary schools and kindergartens are very different in terms of class patterns, curriculum arrangements, etc. If parents do not seize the last half year of kindergarten to prepare their children for elementary school, the children will be prone to various problems after entering elementary school, giving parents a headache. Children only “know it later” after they enter elementary school. The last half year of kindergarten is very critical. It is only after children enter first grade that they understand that it is important to make three preparations in the \”last half year\” of kindergarten. The first preparation is to train the child\’s concentration. If the child does not fall behind when he enters elementary school, he can even become the leader in the class. , parents must consciously train their children’s concentration in the last half year of kindergarten. If your child still can\’t sit still when he reaches elementary school, looking around during class, and focusing on the small objects in the pencil box, then the child\’s grades will naturally not be good. There are many ways to train children\’s concentration. Parents should be careful not to think that their children can focus for an hour or even longer at once. This is unrealistic. When training children\’s concentration, we must also follow the principle of gradual progress. Take your time and increase the duration of your child\’s concentration in five or ten minutes. There are many ways to train concentration, such as letting children focus on eating, focusing on puzzles, focusing on reading a book, etc. As long as the child can concentrate on doing one thing well, this is training for the child\’s concentration. The second preparation: Prepare children psychologically for their transition from kindergarten to primary school. When children enter kindergarten and begin to live together, many parents will have the awareness of psychological construction for their children. But when their children graduate from kindergarten and become elementary school students, parents may focus more on their children\’s learning and ignore their children\’s psychological development. In fact, the transition from kindergarten to primary school is also a big challenge for the child\’s psychology. Children have to learn to live and study in a class with dozens of people all at once, not to mention having to sit upright all the time during class, which makes the course more difficult. If the child is not mentally prepared for primary school life, then the child will experience a huge psychological impact after entering primary school, and may become tired of learning and miss kindergarten life. Therefore, parents must consciously prepare their children mentally for the next semester of kindergarten. You can take your children to visit nearby primary schools and let them follow the primary school schedule in advance. What parents have to do is to let their children understand that there are many differences between primary school and kindergarten. It is best to prepare a sense of ritual for their children to become primary school students. The third preparation: Prepare knowledge reserves for children from early childhood to primary school. Although many parents now like \”chicken babies\”, there are still some parents who are more \”Buddhist\”. Especially when their children are in kindergarten, parents always think that their children are still young and just need to \”have fun\” and do not need to learn any knowledge. Although it is not recommended for parents to \”advance education\”, it is also not recommended for parents to be too Buddhist and let a child who knows nothing enter elementary school \”confidently\”. When a child has no knowledge reserves, but his classmates know everything, a negative emotion that the child can easily develop is inferiority complex. The child does not know that his classmates know everything because their classmates have already accumulated this knowledge in advance. The child will only think that he is not as smart as others and not as good at learning as others. If a child has such a negative evaluation of himself, it will be bad for the child\’s entire learning career. It may take a lot of time for the child to change this inferiority complex in the future. Therefore, it is recommended that parents seize the last half year of the transition from kindergarten to primary school to properly learn some basic knowledge for their children, so that they can have some \”confidence\” to better prepare for life in primary school. Conclusion Going to elementary school is very important for children. Parents should not only pay attention to their children\’s academic performance, but also pay attention to their children\’s psychological state and build a knowledge reserve for their children. If parents can prepare their children in advance in the last half year of kindergarten, then the children will be able to better prepare for primary school life and have a good \”start\” when entering primary school.
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