It\’s so ugly how you love your children so much!

I recently saw a very shocking video. A video of a 6-year-old girl driving on the road in Chongyang County, Xianning City, Hubei Province has caused heated discussions on the Internet. The video shows that the girl was driving in the evening and the sky was dark. She was holding the steering wheel and driving a motor vehicle on a village road with dense houses. The girl\’s father filmed the video from the passenger seat and said, \”You can drive on the highway. You are so awesome. You drove from the street to here.\” I don\’t think any normal pair of parents would do this. But these two really did it. In such risky behavior, mothers generally pay more attention. But the child’s mother said, “The child was so naughty that she had to crawl over by herself. In addition, the child’s father was very doting on his daughter, so she had no choice but to park the car on the side of the road and let the child sit on her lap in front of her. Come on, I drove it for about a minute.\” It can be seen that not only can\’t he control the child\’s temper, but he can\’t stop his father\’s doting. This mother also got worried once, but luckily nothing happened, only her driver\’s license was revoked and she was fined. We often say that we must trust and respect children. Trust and respect are anything but pampering and indulgence. This kind of love can really kill you sometimes. When the traffic police found the father, he said that he had poor traffic awareness and thought there were not many people on the country road. He thought it was fun, so he took a video and sent it to the family group, hoping to show off. What a nice show off. There are really many people who use their children to show off. You see, my daughter can drive at the age of 6. Does your child have such courage and ability at the age of 6? Just be envious and jealous. But is this a bumper car for an amusement park? Not only did he treat his own life as a trifling matter, but he also disregarded the safety of other people\’s lives. Usually, not many people let their children drive, but there are many parents who let their children expose half of their bodies from the panoramic sunroof to look at the scenery. There are also many adults who tease their children to drink for fun, and some parents even do not stop them out of consideration, but instead add fuel to the flames. Children may see this as a fun gaming experience. Even if an accident does come, I still don’t know what happened. Can you blame the child for being ignorant? Blame the child for being naughty and stubborn? Your indulgence in children\’s uneducated behavior and your blindly protective love is really ugly. At Shanghai Disney, an 8-year-old boy touched a girl\’s butt intentionally or unintentionally. After many times, the girl said something to the little boy. Originally she just wanted an apology, but unexpectedly the girl was pushed to the ground and beaten by the boy\’s mother and friends. Finally, the adult on the boy\’s side said categorically: \”What does an 8-year-old child know?\” \”You look like this, and you are touched?\” \”I touched you when I touched you. Have you never been touched?\” and so on. The logic is bastard, but it\’s common. Because I feel that if a child is young (is 8 years old really young?), he can do whatever he wants. Doesn’t the 4-year-old boy have more reason to lift up his aunt’s skirt? Children\’s exploration of sexuality accompanies them throughout their growth years. Children as young as two or three will be very interested in their own gender characteristics. For example, little boys will pay great attention to their penis. By the age of four or five, they will be interested in adults of the opposite sex. Especially for boys who do not sleep in separate beds, some will still touch their mother\’s breasts to fall asleep. During this period, the relationship between a child and his mother isThese behaviors can be understood as a kind of attachment, which is very normal. But at the same time, they will also focus on other members of the opposite sex, such as sisters and aunts. It will show up especially during the fun process. During the summer vacation, Xiao Xiaoyu played with her aunts who were in middle school. There have been times when I would lift my skirt on purpose. At that time, his mother and I seriously told him how to respect other people\’s private parts and not touch them casually, let alone lift girls\’ skirts. At the same time, your private parts should not be exposed casually. For example, if you take off your clothes before taking a shower, you can take off your shirt and pants in the living room or room, but you must take off your underwear in the bathroom. Private parts cannot be touched by others. After telling him twice, he never behaved like this again. Of course he would still be curious. I said you can read it from books. For example, you can see it in The Revealed Body that Dad prepared for you and in my body. If parents themselves do not have a certain understanding of their children\’s psychological development. Simply using age as a cover for a child\’s ignorance is irresponsible to the child. If you know that your child will behave in this way, then take the initiative to apologize with your child, and you will definitely not resist. And isn’t it also a good opportunity to take the opportunity to teach children some necessary social etiquette and supplement some knowledge they need? Children\’s behavior cannot always be impartial. Therefore, parental guidance is crucial. Behind well-educated children, parents often need careful upbringing. Parents\’ controlling love is often hidden deeply, because it is often under the guise of love. It looks beautiful, but in reality it is poisonous. For a while, the incident about Zhu’s mother hit the screen, making people worry about the arranged parents. Because the mother interferes too much, there is a real possibility that the son will not be able to marry a wife. Let future mothers-in-law be frightened and reflect deeply. Zhu\’s mother proudly said: \”I get up at four o\’clock every morning to boil pear juice for more than an hour and a half. For ten years, this must be done before eight o\’clock. Otherwise, I will not be able to prepare lunch and dinner later. \”The division of labor between men and women is different. Women should be good wives and mothers. Since I married you, since you are willing to enter this family, you should shoulder your responsibilities. This must not be compromised!\” I know every relationship he has, but I always interfere. I think she is too revealing. You cannot be too frivolous at home in front of your elders. Even throughout my life I have maintained this state: \”I spend my whole life treating my son! No matter where my son goes, I will give him a warm kitchen.\” Doesn\’t it sound wonderful and touching? In a truly happy family, everyone has their own place. Everyone must have their own boundaries and respect the boundaries of others. It all makes sense. But it tasted different when it was made. If you see that the housework your children are doing is not decent, stop them from doing it. The result will never be done. So in the middle of the night, a Chinese mother would show her son studying abroad how to make a tomato scrambled egg dish. Maternal love is great, but it cannot be a breeding ground for doting, let alone the cradle of weird \”mom\’s babies\”. In fact, we need to know the character of our parents? Just look at the kids and you’ll know. Want to know what the family style is like? Just look at thisChildren who have grown up in the family know this. Children with arrogant tempers are often the result of their parents\’ connivance. As for children who lack education and rules, their parents themselves lack education and have little sense of rules. Children who are controlled by their parents will be weighed down by this heavy love throughout their lives. The older they get, the heavier it becomes. Therefore, we often say that we should educate children and educate children. Little do they know that it is the parents who need more education and reflection.