It’s understandable that you don’t have time to spend with your children, but you can’t take it for granted.

Children\’s growth is fleeting, and they must feel loved, cared for, and guided by their parents during their childhood, so that they will not face various intimacy problems when they grow up. I accidentally saw a video online. A little girl was sitting alone in a kindergarten classroom, waiting for her parents who were police officers to pick her up. The children looked left and right, and there were only a few little figures waiting silently. It is said that this child is the last to be picked up almost every day. There are many professions, such as the police and medical staff, which are very busy professions. Not to mention working the night shift, you also have to be ready to be called at all times, which is really hard. Children are also a part of their lives that they cannot take good care of. I really salute these people, but at the same time, I don\’t think parents who are absent from their children\’s lives need to be eulogized. You can lament that life is not easy, and you can feel sorry for your children\’s early wisdom and sensibleness, but as parents, you can\’t stop there. Regardless of whether there is a valid reason or not, the missing companionship must be made up for at some time. Using the excuse of being busy at work, comforting oneself with the fact that the child is sensible, and feeling contentedly absent from the child\’s life is just wishful thinking on the part of some parents. For the child, it is always the absence of company, whether there is a valid reason or not, it doesn\’t matter. Regarding success, the past consensus was that being successful, being successful, having money, power and status were all considered to be successful. In recent years, the generally accepted view is that happiness, joy, and a perfect family are the key to success. There is a saying in the book \”Poor Dad, Rich Dad\”: \”The so-called success means having time to take care of your children.\” Why should you accompany your children? Because your children love you. To your children, you are the most special person in the world, and you can comfort their hearts. For the same praise, the most beautiful words come from parents\’ mouths. For the same hug, parents\’ arms will be obviously warmer than others. To your child, you are the whole world he loves. If so, are you still stingy about spending time with your children? Because children need education. When he came into this world, he had many things to learn, including as small as a vocabulary, as large as an ability, and then to the correct three views. Parents are their children\’s first teachers, and children acquire various abilities and skills through observation and imitation of their parents. Parents accompany their children, observe carefully and provide timely guidance. The process of accompanying them is also the process of teaching. Many parents lament that they have little time to spend with their children, and at the same time go about their own business. What is the difference between this and deceiving others? This is simply pretending to be kind. In the final analysis, all he wants is peace of mind for himself. There is no company in the world that cannot function without one person, no dinner party that cannot be held without one person, and no business that will be completely wiped out if one day of overtime is missing. If you don\’t take your children into consideration, all those high-sounding reasons are just excuses. Parents who truly care about their children have to spend time with their children even if they create conditions. Companionship does not matter how much time you have, but intention is the key. Letting your children feel your companionship and love is the key. There is no way to stay with your children day and night, and no one can blame you. Ruining your career for the sake of your children is the most unprofitable approach, but there is always another option.ways to accompany your children as they grow. For example, squeeze some time for your children every day. You can play any games with your children, read picture books, or take a bath together, or even invite your children to cook together. As long as you are happy together, it is good company. Some parents even come home every day and their children have already fallen asleep. Before the children wake up, the parents are gone again. Although they live under the same roof, they are relatives who cannot be touched. If this is the case, it is recommended to make a greeting phone call to your child every day, send a few WeChat voice messages, or put a small blackboard at home specifically for communication to write what you want to say to each other. You can also write The way of exchanging letters is a secret that only belongs to you two. In short, as long as you are willing, you can always find an appropriate way to develop a harmonious parent-child relationship. There is a good Chinese father Cheng Min, known as \”Rabbit Dad\”. He was originally a doctor and later became a director of a company. He has been very busy and his daughter often does not see him. However, his communication with his daughter But it is not affected by time and space. He and his daughter insisted on communicating by writing a diary. Over the course of 8 years, they wrote nearly 300,000 words. The diary started by telling people about their worries, then asking why the world is like this, until he and his daughter began to discuss values. He also has a career and is very busy, but he does not ignore his daughter for granted. He stays with her by writing a diary and has always been her daughter\’s dearest friend. Children\’s growth is fleeting, and they must feel loved, cared for, and guided by their parents during their childhood, so that they will not face various intimacy problems when they grow up. A child must always feel the love of his parents and have their parents\’ attentive company in order to grow up healthy and happy.