Kindergarten teacher admits that Type 3 parents \”picking up their children\” are disgusting, but they just don\’t say it clearly.

Taking your children to kindergarten seems simple, but there are hidden mysteries in it. There are some parents who seem to be very serious and what they do are ordinary, but they easily offend the teacher without even knowing it. When picking up the second child from school, a parent talked to me about a parent in the class who was always anxious to pick up the child and would drag him away, sometimes without saying a word. At first I thought she was busy, but later I found out that every time she picked up her children, she would go to the community square. While her children were playing, she would sit and check her phone for two or three hours without anything important. The parent said that when he saw her coming to pick up his child, he would immediately avoid her. For three years in kindergarten, he had never spoken more than three sentences, and the teacher did not talk to her very much. The child\’s situation was always in a hurry. Just left. I suddenly remembered what a kindergarten teacher friend told me. Picking up children in kindergarten seems very simple, but there are many \”ways\”. There are three types of parents\’ ways of picking up children, which are easily offensive. It’s just that it wasn’t stated clearly! Next, I will share with you parents in detail what methods they are. If you don’t win any of them, congratulations, your child must be very popular, and you are also a parent with high emotional intelligence. If unfortunately you get hit, correct it as soon as possible. The first way is to pick your children up too early. Kindergarten usually ends school at 15:30 or 17:30. Each region and kindergarten has different requirements, but they are all at the same time. Some parents pick them up no matter when school is over and they are free. Some may be after 1 o\’clock or after 2 o\’clock, and the time is not fixed. Maybe the teacher has just put the child to bed for lunch, and the parent calls to pick up the child. This situation is really annoying. Some parents simply don\’t call and go to the kindergarten gate. They ask the guards to help them while they just wait on the side. To be honest, if it\’s just once or twice, it doesn\’t matter. It may be urgent, and everyone can understand it. But if it happens often, it’s really easy to get offended. After all, if a teacher has to take care of dozens of children, how can he have time to send one child alone every day and leave other children alone? Tips: Frequently picking up children too early will also affect the mood of other children and make them anxious. Why has he been picked up and we haven\’t? The second way is to pick up the child and leave without saying hello. Just like the parent mentioned at the beginning of the article, the child was picked up \”in obscurity\” for three years without any notice from the teacher or other parents. Say hello and don\’t communicate. To be honest, if there is nothing urgent, it is highly recommended that parents go early, chat with other parents, and learn about their children\’s situation in kindergarten. If the teacher has anything to explain, he can also tell the parents. After all, there are so many children and so many parents. If you don\’t take the initiative, it is unrealistic to just wait for the teacher to call you or send you a message. Also, the way parents pick up their children will also affect the child\’s personality. How cheerful can your child be if you don\’t say a word? If you are indifferent, how enthusiastic can your children be? Of course, this does not mean that you must get along with teachers and other parents, but it does mean that you can maintain a certain level of communication. After all, it will be necessary to do this frequently within three yearsWhen meeting, it is human nature to nod, smile, and say hello. If we can get along better, our kids can still hang out together during holidays and weekends! Tips: Teachers prefer parents who are enthusiastic and proactive, and it is easier to communicate with them. Moreover, you will be considered a parent who cares very much about your children and is willing to cooperate with the teachers. The third way is to frequently change the personnel who pick up and drop off the children. I have a deep understanding of this. I basically know all the parents of my classmates in Erbao Kindergarten. But as a parent of a child, I always can’t tell the difference. Because their family always changes who picks up and drops off the children, sometimes they don’t bring the same person for a week. Grandparents, grandma, grandpa, mom and dad, aunts and uncles all seem to be here. One time, the teacher brought a form to the child\’s father and asked him to fill out the form for who would pick up and drop off the child. He also said that if the pick-up person changed frequently in the future, the father or mother must call the teacher every time. There are so many people, and the teacher is also worried that sometimes he can\’t tell the difference at all. Indeed, there are more than 30 or 40 children in a class, including their parents, there are 70 or 80 of them, plus other elders, the teacher cannot recognize them at all! This is a headache for many kindergarten teachers. I have already come to pick up the child, let it go, but I am worried, so don’t let it go, and I have to call the parents of the child. I don’t know, will it be convenient for them to answer the phone? Our kindergarten here simply implements the principle of \”No entry unless parents are parents\”, that is, if you are not the child\’s parents, you cannot enter the kindergarten to pick up your child. If you are a grandparent, you can pick them up at the entrance of the kindergarten, but you have to fill in your personal information and call your parents to verify it (if you pick up a long-term elderly person, you need to sign in on the fixed app every time). The principal said that this was indeed a bit troublesome, but it was also for the safety of the children and there was really no other way. On this point, I agree. After all, your child’s safety is paramount! So, what should you do when picking up your children to make it easier to gain recognition from the principal, teachers and other parents and set an example for your children? I think the following points are very crucial! Pick up and drop off your children on time and try not to be late and leave early; abide by school regulations and pick up your children at designated places; try to fix the person who picks up your children; say hello to teachers and parents you know, and do not panic. You see, there are actually not many things that parents need to pay attention to. They just need to reasonably avoid those methods that may be offensive. I have always felt that children grow up by observing their parents’ behavior. Don\’t underestimate a small thing like picking up your child, but it can teach your child some good and bad behaviors. Therefore, parenting is no small matter, and parents come first. I wish every child will grow up healthily and happily, and I also hope that parents will not fall into any of the wrong ways of picking up babies mentioned in the article!