Parents always feel that \”my child is the most special\” and accidentally becomes a \”difficult player\” in the eyes of teachers! Have you ever lied about the type of parent that kindergarten teachers dislike the most? 1. The hard-to-leave type: Letting go is like bleeding, and the operation is as fierce as a tiger. Some parents send their children to kindergarten as if they are acting in an emotional drama. The instruction at the door: \”Baby, you have to be good, eat well, and listen to the teacher\”; the little hand held it and lingered, as if once let go, the child would \”go to the end of life.\” As a result, the child was fine, but when he saw his parents like this, he cried instead. Dear parents, letting go is really a kind of practice! If you don\’t let go, the child won\’t be able to let go, and the teacher can only stare from the side. Just leave after sending the child away and let the child face the new environment independently. This is how to help the child grow. 2. WeChat bomber type: A master at flooding the screen with messages, and the teacher’s “24-hour customer service”. Some parents start typing on the keyboard as soon as their phone rings, talking about a variety of topics. \”Teacher, is it normal for my Xiao Ming to have diarrhea today?\” \”Teacher, is Xiao Hong snoring during lunch break sick?\” This type of parent\’s \”parenting questions\” never ends, and the teacher will reply more slowly and immediately add \”???\”. The teacher has to take care of a group of children during the day, and if WeChat is bombarded again, he is afraid that it will collapse in any minute. Remember, WeChat contact is not a doctor’s consultation desk. Observe more and scroll less. The teacher is not “24 hours online to answer questions”! 3. Rushing to pick up children: Like a tide coming in, the gates are crowded with college students and students. Every time after school, the entrance to the kindergarten is simply a \”Spring Festival Transport scene.\” Some parents move forward bravely, as if their children are \”missing\” a second later. The child was picked up from the front, and the child was swarmed from the back, and was stuffed instantly. The teachers were really full of pressure as they stabilized the children and maintained order. This kind of parents not only affects order, but also makes children feel like they have to run for their lives after class. Dear parents, be patient and wait until the teacher releases them in an orderly manner. The safety and order of the children will be more guaranteed. 4. Suspicious type: Rain or shine, the teacher’s behavior is examined with a “magnifying glass”. There is also a type of parents who send their children to kindergarten and perform “detective dramas” every day. After repeatedly pondering the teacher\’s words, as soon as the child said, \”The teacher didn\’t praise me today,\” the parents began to worry, wondering, \”Is the teacher partial?\” The teacher was a little moody, and the parents were worried about whether their children were being \”bullied.\” Please, relax! Teachers are people, not machines, and they sometimes get tired. Believe in the teacher\’s professionalism and believe in your children, let them feel it with their hearts instead of doubting it at any time. 5. Aloof type: Parents who have their own aura of leadership, and whose teachers are \”coached\” to the point where they can\’t help but laugh and cry. They have an aura of being a \”manager\” when sending their children away. \”Teacher, please take more care of Xiaobao today. Don\’t let him sit with other children.\” \”My child is smarter. Give him more opportunities to exercise.\” They think their children are \”different\” in everything, and even tell their teachers, \”Your courses should be more scientific.\” The teacher felt miserable because she had to take care of the children and \”respect\” the parents\’ instructions. Dear parents, teachers know better than us how to take care of our children. Less “pointing out” and more respect and trust! Summary: Teachers are not opponents, is you and your child’s best ally! These \”difficult operations\” not only cause trouble for teachers, but also affect children\’s kindergarten life. Only by respecting the professionalism of teachers and cooperating with their work can children grow up happily in kindergarten. When parents learn to let go, trust, and communicate, teachers can focus on taking care of each child. Home-school cooperation is the best way to help children grow, not \”unilateral supervision\” or \”pointing fingers.\” Learn to step back appropriately and trust the teacher, and you will find that the children are more independent and happier!
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