Leave the 6 children to your husband to take care of himself! What does this mother think?

On the bus and outside cram schools, we often see exhausted mothers carrying large and small bags. Taking care of children is always easy in the eyes of others: don’t you just accompany your children to do their homework? , coax the children to sleep, what’s the point of being tired. But Maza, a 36-year-old mother of six children in the United States, was really tired recently, so she decided to go out for a \”girls trip\” with her girlfriends. But the child cannot be left alone, so she wrote a letter to her husband: Husband, I am going out to play, and the child will be left to you! She also explained how her husband and children should be taken care of. \”I am writing this letter because I love you, not because I am afraid that you will not be able to take care of the children, but for this weekend when you are alone with the children, I think I have to explain a few things, every night, day, and breakfast, lunch and dinner time You will feel hell in an instant. Things are fine when you first get off work, but then the children may fight over various things. Deciding what the children will eat for dinner is even a big problem, and the children may burst into tears at the smallest problem. , when you are in a hurry to solve everything, you may forget that you also need to eat.\” Taking care of children is the most troublesome and tiring thing! How troublesome is it to take care of children? 1. Take care of your child’s life. How can a child’s daily life be so simple? Waking up in the morning is a big problem. Nowadays, children go to bed late, and it takes a lot of effort to wake them up in the morning. If you want your children to have a hot breakfast before going to school, a mother has to get up before dawn to prepare, and wait until she finally wakes up. The little devil at home was sent to school and it was time to go to work. Are you tired? tired. 2. When raising children, you must take care of their studies. There is a lot of pressure in today\’s society. Parents hope that their children can live a similar life in the future, so they should not let their children fall behind in studies. But studies are not so easy to manage! There are a few children who can finish their homework quietly, without secretly playing with their mobile phones or secretly reading magazines. After finally finishing the homework, I still have to check it, and some even have to supervise the children\’s practice of musical instruments. Are you tired? tired. 3. Take care of your children. Education of their children\’s character is as important as their grades. No parent wants their children to have no manners at all. But it is not easy to cultivate it from an early age. You must pay attention to every little thing about your children, hold back your temper and be reasonable. When he was sick and uncomfortable, the little ancestor would get angry again, and he felt aggrieved and wanted to go back to his parents\’ house and be a child again. Are you tired? tired. Therefore, the father must not be absent from the things that should be shared. It is not a question of whether he is tired or not, but when it comes to educating children, the father is no less important than the mother! Dads should also share these things. 1. Sharing housework is better. After dad comes home, he just sits on the sofa and doesn\’t help with anything. He even thinks that housework is what the mother should do. But in fact, one reason is that he is tired from taking care of the children. On the other hand, dad is not at home. Doing housework can also have a negative impact on children. Most fathers who do not share housework rarely educate their children, leaving mothers mainly responsible for their children\’s education. But this kind of unequal relationship will make the child subconsciously think that the mother is \”humble\”, and will not take what the mother says to heart. If things go on like this, it will form a vicious circle. The mother who educates the child has no authority, and the father who has authority will Without education, children\’s development can easily get out of control. 2. Educational responsibility lies at homeIn family education, the mother\’s role is indeed important, but the father is equally indispensable. Just scolding your children when they do something wrong is not family education. Activities such as completing homework and checking homework that require long-term communication with children can be called family education. A survey by the China Education Research Institute also showed that compared with children whose fathers are absent from home education, children who often participate in activities with their fathers have higher grades. So if your husband at home is like this: \”Isn\’t taking care of the baby just sleeping with me and doing homework!\” It seems like you are taking a big advantage by taking care of the baby. Why not write him a letter and take a \”girls trip\”!