Letter from dad to daughter: Don’t do it for men

Dear Baby, Recently, your mother and I wanted to Google a question. But before the question was finished, Google listed the most popular searches around the world. Number one on the list is \”How to keep him attracted to me.\” I was shocked. I have read many articles on this issue. Many of them teach girls how to stay sexy, when to bring a beer and a sandwich to their boyfriend or husband, or what to do to make a man feel smart and superior. I get so angry after reading these articles. Baby, \”How to keep him fascinated by me\” is not your job at all! It wasn\’t then, it isn\’t now, and it never will be! Your only task is to understand your heart deeply – no matter what rejection or failure you encounter, you have your value and you are worthy of love. As a man, I can tell you: when a woman believes in her own worth, she will attract a man who has the ability to love her. You don\’t have to do anything to \”make him attracted to you.\” If you are a confident person, your charm will attract him. I don\’t care if the man you choose pays attention to table manners. He doesn\’t need to pay attention to too many etiquettes, as long as he has you in his eyes. Even if you make weird noises when you laugh, he will still look at you affectionately; I don’t mind if he plays golf with me, as long as he can play with the children; I don’t mind if he is strong , but he must have enough tolerance and structure in his heart to allow his wife to grow; I don\’t mind his religion or his skin color, as long as he can be patient and considerate to his wife. He may not love me, but in his heart, you will always be one of the most important people. My dear baby, if you want him to be fascinated by you forever, the most important thing you should do is to be yourself. love you forever daddy