Letting babies learn these things too early can lead to such terrible consequences…

\”Our baby will stand up at 8 months and walk at 10 months!\” \”My child can read at the age of one and can recite more than 100 Tang poems at the age of two!\” Do you often hear this? Is this how people show off to you? Our Greater China tradition teaches us to compare everything. When we become parents, if our children\’s IQ can \”disdain\” their peers and their learning ability is superior, then we will have a halo when we walk, not to mention how energetic we are. Errao~Range, don\’t be too happy too early. Just like the idea of ​​being \”extremely smart\”, taking too much of anything will inevitably have negative consequences. When a child is growing up, there are some things that are not always better as early as possible! Learning to sit and stand too early affects the baby\’s development, isn\’t there a saying, what age should you do? Generally speaking, babies can naturally sit when they are 6-7 months old, can walk with support when they are 12 months old, and can walk independently when they are about 18 months old. So, the baby\’s movement development should not be guided in advance. Don\’t be too hasty. Affects development: When a baby is just born, it is a leap from lying down all day to being able to stand up on his own. However, many people like to let their children learn early and teach them to sit and stand when they are 3 or 4 months old. This is very detrimental to the baby’s development! Causes spinal deformation: Baby\’s bones contain more organic matter and relatively less inorganic salts, so they have low hardness, high elasticity, and are easily deformed. The cartilage disk between the baby\’s vertebrae is relatively thick, and the outer ligaments are relatively loose, so forcing the baby to sit up and stand for a long time can easily lead to deformation of the baby\’s spine. Learning to walk too early will ruin your appearance. For a normal person, leg shape, height, eyes and temperament are simply the standards for measuring whether a person is good-looking or not, okay? Letting your baby learn to walk too early can be said to be \”destroying your appearance\”! Affects leg shape and gait: The baby learns to stand and walk too early, and the bones of the lower limbs and spine are soft and fragile, making it difficult to bear the overloaded weight. This can cause the bones to bend and deform, resulting in \”O\”-shaped legs or \”X\”-shaped legs. Anyone who knows how to wear clothes knows how ugly it is to wear clothes with these two types of legs! Walking \”bow-legged\” makes you even less elegant. Leading to flat feet: If you practice walking before the arch of the foot is well formed, the baby\’s whole body weight will press on the foot, which can easily make the arch of the foot overweight and gradually lead to flat feet. It is said that flat feet will not lead to a \”long road\” in the future! Influence on the baby\’s crawling: Don\’t think that walking can see farther than crawling. There are many benefits for babies to crawl more. It can help babies understand the world, exercise their sensory abilities, etc. If you let your baby learn to walk too early, you will miss the golden period of your baby\’s crawling practice. Effect on height: If you learn to sit, stand, and walk before reaching the corresponding month age, it may cause excessive flexion of the spine and affect your future height growth. Height is the standard for who you can \”play\” with in the future, okay? ! Damage to vision development: After the baby is born, the vision development is not perfect. If the baby learns to walk too early, the baby will not be able to see the distant scenery clearly, and will try to adjust the diopter and focal length of the eyes to focus on the scenery, causing eye fatigue. Repeatedly, it can damage the vision. The little \”four eyes\” hurt the body and the \”heart\”. Premature literacy kills children’s imagination.Many people, especially the elderly, always teach their babies to read too early. Then be proud of it. Doing this is simply murdering your baby’s imagination! No matter from the perspective of physical or psychological development, this is very detrimental to the growth of the baby! Affects perception: Baby\’s physical and mental development is a development process from perceptual to rational, from concrete to abstract. Text is an abstract thing, and babies should be allowed to reserve a large amount of concrete (pictures and the like) perceptual experience before coming into contact with it. If you learn words too early, your baby will pay special attention to the words when reading, and the feeling of the pictures will be greatly weakened, which will affect the child\’s interest in specific things and pictures, thereby neglecting the observation and recognition of other things. Generally speaking. 3 to 6 years old is the best period for babies to learn to read. For children, words are not as interesting as pictures. Those who think words are more beautiful than pictures are those \”weird uncles\”. If you let your baby learn to read too early, he will only pay attention to those cold words, and he will miss a lot of beautiful things! Learning to write too early affects your physical and mental health. Writing is an extremely delicate skill. For young children under 6 years old, it is difficult to complete this complicated process correctly! However, many parents do not believe in evil, and even use whether teaching writing is the criterion for choosing a kindergarten. Many kindergartens have also agreed. This is simply destroying the flowers of the motherland! May cause phalangeal deformities: The small muscles in the baby\’s hands develop later. So babies are not yet able to use their hands to complete fine movements, and coupled with poor hand muscle strength, writing too much will not only easily cause muscle fatigue, but may also cause finger bone deformity. Easy to cause myopia: Because the baby\’s optic nerve cannot focus yet, books often have to be placed very close to the eyes to see clearly. When writing, the eyes are generally concentrated on the pen tip and a small area around it. In addition, the coordination between the eyes and hands is low. The baby must stare closely at the pen tip to write a word, so the eyes will soon become astringent and tired. Over time, Causes a decrease in the eye\’s ability to adjust focus and causes myopia. Hindering the normal development of the spine: The physiological curvature of the baby\’s spine has not yet formed, the ossification process has not yet been completed, and the bones are extremely easy to deform. So it is very important at this stage to cultivate the baby\’s correct postures such as standing and walking! If the baby writes for a long time, it is difficult to maintain a correct sitting posture, and it is easy to form bad sitting postures such as hunched waist, hunched sitting, and twisted sitting, which may lead to spinal deformation. Nature has its own laws, and the development of all things is also a gradual process. I can’t eat hot tofu if I’m in a hurry! The same goes for baby\’s growth and education. There are not many \”prodigies\” in the world, and prodigies often have no good results. Do you still remember \”Zhong Yong\” in Chinese textbooks? People can write good poems at the age of five, but because they are not properly cultivated, their talents disappear. Then, there is no more… In fact, learning something ahead of time may be harmful but not beneficial, and those things learned in early childhood will not have much beneficial impact on the entire life. And when you teach your children to read, write, memorize poems, etc., the negative emotions you show in the process silently take root in the child\’s psychology. The child may be lost while echoing youMyself, I will live more and more without myself in the future! This is what parents should worry about, right? !