Li Meijin: A person’s achievements depend 20% on his hard work and 80% on his parents’ teachings.

In this fast-paced era, every parent has infinite longing for their children\’s future, hoping that they can shine on the stage of life. On the road of children\’s growth, we often emphasize that \”effort determines everything\”, but there is a view worth pondering – 20% of a child\’s achievements lies in his or her own unremitting efforts, and surprisingly, 80% Depends on father’s teaching and influence! 🤔🏡The harbor of the family, the father is the lighthouse father. This role not only means the financial backbone of the family, but also the first mentor in the life of the child. Different from a mother\’s delicate and gentle care, a father\’s love is often deep and powerful, like a lighthouse on the sea, guiding the boat to return safely. In the process of a child\’s growth, the father\’s words and deeds are a crucial part of shaping the child\’s character and values. The role of father\’s role model cannot be underestimated. A father who is always optimistic about challenges and has the courage to take responsibility will teach his children to be perseverant; and a father who is willing to learn and make continuous progress will inspire his children\’s desire for knowledge and the courage to explore the unknown. 📚Inheriting knowledge, father is the guide. Education is not just a matter of school. Family education is equally important, especially the guidance of father. Fathers can profoundly influence their children\’s learning attitudes and methods by sharing their life experiences, teaching practical skills, or even reading a book together. This invisible transfer of knowledge makes children more confident and calm when facing the complex world. *Reading time with children is not only the transfer of knowledge, but also the exchange of emotions. Setting up a \”parent-child reading day\” every week can not only enhance the relationship between father and son/father and daughter, but also stimulate children\’s imagination and creativity. 🎯Goal setting, my father is a planner. Only when goals are clear can actions have direction. When fathers help their children set goals, they should not only encourage them to dream big, but also teach them how to stay grounded. From small goals to big dreams, every success or failure is a valuable asset for growth. A father\’s rational analysis and long-term planning can help his children avoid detours on the road to pursuing their dreams. Regular family meetings to discuss children\’s short-term goals and long-term plans, and encourage children to participate in decision-making, will not only enhance their sense of responsibility, but also make them feel respected and valued. 🌱Cultivation of character, the father is the strength of the gardener’s character and the most precious asset for his children. Honesty, bravery, respect, sense of responsibility…the cultivation of these beautiful qualities is inseparable from the patient cultivation of my father. Through small daily things, such as doing housework together, participating in charity activities, etc., fathers can subtly educate their children and let them understand the principle of \”doing things first\”. Practice is more powerful than preaching. Fathers should set an example for their children to imitate. For example, taking the initiative to say hello to others and helping those in need will plant the seeds of kindness and integrity in children\’s hearts. 🤝Walk hand in hand and grow together. Finally, remember that the relationship between father and child is not a one-way teaching, but a process of mutual learning and common growth. During this journey, a father will also learn from his children innocence, fearlessness and a love of life. Let\’s put down our phones and have one moreMore companionship and less absence, because the best education is the companionship of love. Only by not forgetting your original intention can you achieve success. As a father, always remind yourself that every minute and second spent with your children is precious, and don’t let busyness become an excuse for absence. In the journey of a child\’s growth, the role of a father is irreplaceable. Let us work together to become the most solid backing for children\’s growth and lead them to a more brilliant tomorrow. Come on, every amazing father!