Li Meijin: On the road to parenting, children have 5 bad habits, making it difficult for them to be successful when they grow up.

On the road to parenting, family is not only their first classroom, but also the key environment that shapes their character and habits. Some habits formed in childhood, if not properly guided and adjusted, may affect the child\’s future development. The ancients said: \”Wood can be carved, but the disease will get worse; gold can be cast, but the disease will get more stained. The more the wood is cast, the more stained the gold will be. Even if there are good craftsmen and skillful craftsmen to work on it? This is why a gentleman cultivates quality to make a vessel.\” Li Meijin, a well-known parenting expert, mentioned 5 bad habits: taking advantage of others, complaining frequently, being addicted to mobile games, losing temper easily and having low self-esteem, which parents should pay attention to. If these bad habits are not discovered and corrected in time, they may become a stumbling block on the road to success for children, making it difficult for children to be successful when they grow up. 1. Children who love taking advantage may pay too much attention to personal gains and losses in social interactions and ignore the importance of mutual benefit. This behavior may cause them to lose credibility among their peers and make it difficult to establish stable friendships and cooperative relationships. In the long run, this habit may cause children to become isolated in social interactions, affecting their social adaptability and the construction of interpersonal networks. Love the habit of taking advantage. Once a child has this idea, he will give up his bottom line in order to covet some small profits. Only when parents train their children to give up money for good fortune and expand their minds can they stay away from the habit of taking advantage and become winners in life. 2. Children who like to complain often have a negative attitude towards life. They may be more likely to focus on negative information and ignore positive ways to solve problems. This habit may cause children to lack enthusiasm and initiative when facing challenges, always expecting changes in the external environment to adapt to themselves, instead of changing themselves to adapt to the environment. Such children may lack competitiveness in the workplace and find it difficult to succeed when they grow up. A passage in \”People\’s Daily\” is very heart-warming. Complaining is a negative psychological suggestion. Complaining cannot solve any problems. What we really need to do is to open roads when encountering mountains and build bridges when encountering waters. Parents set an example for their children, do not complain, and strive to become a better version of themselves. Only then will their children believe in the power of change, which can make life better than complaining. 3. Children who are addicted to mobile games may ignore the importance of real life. Their attention and time may be occupied by the virtual world, thereby neglecting learning, sports and interpersonal communication, which are important for growth. aspect. Long-term addiction can cause children to develop attention deficits, social skills deficiencies, and physical health problems that can become obstacles to their future success. When fun in real life is lacking, children may seek solace in the virtual world. Reflects the child\’s lack of emotion. It’s not that the child really can’t put down the mobile phone, but it is sending a signal that he needs companionship. Have you received it? Parents teach their children to use mobile phones correctly and make mobile phones a tool for work and study rather than a slave to their mobile phones. Spend more time with your children and increase parent-child time, so that your children can play with their mobile phones less. 4. I like to lose my temper and throw things, break things, or even hit my mother when something doesn’t go my way. Losing your temper is a brief moment of catharsis;But it may become a long-term haze on the road of children\’s growth. Understanding and communication are the way to shine. Children who frequently lose their temper may have problems managing their emotions. They may lack effective communication skills and find it difficult to express their needs and dissatisfaction in a peaceful way. This behavior may affect their relationships and cause them to encounter obstacles when interacting with others. In study and work, this habit may also be regarded as a manifestation of lack of self-control and maturity, affecting their social evaluation and career development. 5. Inner low self-esteem Children with inner low self-esteem may have doubts about their own abilities and worth. They may lack self-confidence when facing challenges and be afraid of failure and criticism. This mentality may cause children to be hesitant before opportunities and afraid to try new things, thereby missing opportunities for growth and development. Long-term low self-esteem can also lead to mental health problems such as depression and anxiety, which can seriously affect a child\’s quality of life and happiness. Parents should encourage and recognize their children more. Don\’t always compare their children with other people\’s children, and focus more on their children\’s strengths. Only by letting go of the comparison mentality and looking at the children with appreciation can we grow and make progress together. Conclusion: The above five bad habits may affect children\’s personal development and social adaptation to varying degrees. Parents learn and practice the parenting experience shared by Professor Li Meijin, and provide positive guidance and support to help their children overcome these habits. Children\’s future is full of endless possibilities, but bad habits may limit their potential and growth. Parents play a vital role in their children\’s growth. Through careful observation and patient guidance, they can help their children recognize and correct these bad habits. Let us work together to create an environment full of love and support for our children and guide them towards a brighter and more successful life.