Li Meijin: Say goodbye to yelling and raise excellent children easily

In this fast-paced era, as parents, are we often so busy and stressed that we can’t help but raise our voices to our children, turning into “yelling parents”? As everyone knows, this approach not only damages the parent-child relationship, but may also inhibit the child\’s potential development. But don’t worry, today, as a member of your parenting think tank, I will take you into Professor Li Meijin’s world of parenting wisdom and reveal how to say goodbye to yelling and raise excellent children easily! 👶💕[Story Time]: Xiao Ming’s “Voice” Changes🎵** Let’s start with a heartwarming story. Xiao Ming\’s home was once a battlefield where \”yelling\” occurred frequently. Whenever the homework was wrong or toys were scattered on the floor, his mother\’s voice was like thunder. Gradually, Xiao Ming became taciturn, and his eyes lost the brightness of childhood. Until one day, my mother accidentally read Professor Li Meijin\’s parenting philosophy: \”Patience is more powerful than yelling.\” She decided to try to change. [Action Guide]: Professor Li’s “three-step” strategy 👣**1. Listening and understanding [👂] First, the mother begins to listen to Xiao Ming’s ideas with an equal attitude. When Xiao Ming forgot his homework at home again, she did not immediately blame him, but asked softly: \”How was your day? Is there anything special?\” This question opened up Xiao Ming\’s chat box. It turned out that he was because of his help. A classmate who fell down forgot his homework in a hurry. At this moment, the mother realized that before yelling, she should listen to her child\’s world. 2. Positive affirmation【👍】Professor Li emphasized that praise can stimulate children\’s inner motivation more than criticism. As a result, my mother began to look for bright spots in Xiao Ming\’s life. Even if it was a little progress, she would give her affirmation without hesitation. \”Baby, you took the initiative to tidy up your room today. Mom saw your efforts!\” This kind of positive feedback warmed Xiao Ming\’s heart like sunshine, and his self-confidence also grew. 3. Set rules, be gentle but firm【⚖️】Nothing can be accomplished without rules, but setting rules requires wisdom. Mom and Xiao Ming set family rules together, such as completing homework before eight o\’clock every night, and then being free to play for half an hour. The important thing is that everyone is equal before the rules, including parents themselves. When the rules are enforced gently but firmly, Xiao Ming becomes more self-disciplined. [Remarkable results]: Change happened quietly🌿 A few months later, the atmosphere in Xiao Ming’s family completely changed. His mother\’s patience and understanding made Xiao Ming feel an unprecedented sense of security and trust. He began to take the initiative to share his school stories, and the quality of his homework also improved significantly. More importantly, a deeper emotional connection has been established between mother and son, and the barriers that were once caused by yelling are slowly dissolving. [Conclusion]: Besides yelling, love is the best language💖Professor Li Meijin’s parenting philosophy tells us that education is not simple instructions and punishment, but communication and guidance of the soul. Say goodbye to yelling and nourish your children\’s growth soil with love and wisdom. You will find that those excellent qualities have actually been hidden in their little bodies, waiting to be awakened by gentleness. Dear parents, let us start from today and doA patient listener, a positive encourager, a gentle but firm guide. You will find that the journey of parenting can actually be a beautiful one. 🌈📚Remember, every patient communication is sowing hope for the child\’s future. Let us join hands to create more moments of warmth and growth in the journey of parenting! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦💕