Li Meijin: Smart parents must not be deceived again. In fact, the rebellious period of children is really not that scary.

In the long journey of parenting, the words \”rebellious period\” always seem to touch the sensitive nerves of parents. It was like a sudden storm that instantly made the originally warm and harmonious family atmosphere tense. However, the words of the famous psychologist Professor Li Meijin are like a spring breeze, making us re-examine this stage – smart parents must not be deceived again. In fact, the rebellious stage of children is really not that terrible. Today, let us uncover the mystery of the rebellious period together, and from a scientific perspective, let us find a wise way to grow together with our children. 🌟 Rebellion period: a necessity for growth, not an accident. First of all, we need to clarify a concept: rebellion is not a disease, but a normal stage of development. As adolescent children undergo rapid physiological changes, they also begin to seek independence and self-identity psychologically. They try to break away from the protective umbrella of their parents and explore the unknown world. This process is naturally accompanied by challenges to authority and testing of rules. Therefore, rebellion is the only way for children to grow. It marks the awakening of individual consciousness and is the prelude to mental maturity. 🌈 From Confrontation to Dialogue: The Art of Communication In the face of children’s rebellious behavior, effective communication is the key. Many parents are accustomed to using commands or criticism, but ignore the importance of listening. Special symbol mark: 🔑**True communication begins with understanding and ends with resonance**🔑. Try to let go of adult assumptions, think from a child\’s perspective, and start the conversation with an equal attitude. When children feel respected and understood, they are more willing to open up and work together to find solutions to problems. 💡 Set up boundaries and give independent space. While understanding and supporting, reasonable rules and boundaries are also indispensable. Special symbol mark: 🚧**Boundary is one of the expressions of love**🚧. Parents need to clearly define the bottom line that cannot be touched, and at the same time provide children with a moderate amount of free space to explore and trial and error within a safe range. This balance can help children learn self-management and enhance their sense of responsibility. 🌱 The power of role models: Teaching by example is more important than words. Children are a mirror of their parents, and their behaviors are often a reflection of the adult world. Special symbol mark: 🌟**Be the kind of person you want your child to be**🌟. Parents\’ words, deeds, and ways of handling problems are all templates for children to learn. Showing a positive attitude towards life and leading by example are more powerful than any preaching. 💪 Grow together and cherish this journey. Finally, let us remember that accompanying children’s growth is also the process of parents’ self-growth. Special symbol mark: 👣Every conflict and reconciliation is an opportunity to deepen the parent-child relationship**👣. Learn to see the world from a child\’s perspective, and you will find that those so-called \”rebellions\” are actually signals of knowledge and invitations for growth that they send to us in unique ways. In short, the child\’s rebellious period is not a scourge, but an indispensable part of the growth process. Through scientific guidance and understanding, we can not only help children get through this period smoothly, but also deepen each other’s understanding and connection in the process, and jointly write a warm and heartwarming story.A meaningful growth story. Let us go hand in hand and meet every growth challenge in love and wisdom!