Li Meijin: Your child is selfish. If you do these 4 things more, he will become more considerate day by day.

In the wonderful journey of parenting, every parent longs for their children to grow into warm and considerate little suns, rather than the legendary \”little emperor\” who is the center of the universe. The words of the famous psychologist Professor Li Meijin are very resonant: \”If your child is selfish, if you do these 4 things more, he will become more considerate day by day.\” Today, we will embark on this journey of transformation of love together and explore how to use A simple but profound method to let the flowers of understanding and care blossom in children\’s hearts. 🌸Introduction: The call of love, from \”I\” to \”we\” In modern families where busyness and pampering are intertwined, children can easily develop self-centered habits. But remember, selfishness is not something you are born with, but is a stumbling block in your growth. How we guide is how our children grow. The next four tips are the keys to open the door to your child’s heart. 🔑Text: Four steps, playing a considerate melody 1. △ Empathy education: Entering the inner world of children – Story at a glance: Xiao Ming was always reluctant to share toys, until one day, his mother made Xiao Ming understand through role-playing games When it comes to how you feel when you are denied sharing. After this experience, Xiao Ming began to understand the \”happiness of sharing\”. – Practical Guide: Through empathy stories, role-playing, etc., let children learn to consider issues from others’ perspectives and develop empathy. 2. ▲ Family Responsibilities of the Little Boss – Life Scene: The little princess of the Li family never cared about housework before. Since the \”housework rotation system\” was implemented in the family, she began to be responsible for watering the plants at home. After a few weeks, not only did she learn responsibility, but she also offered to help her mother wash the dishes. – Take action: Assign age-appropriate housework tasks to children, let them assume family responsibilities, and understand family members’ efforts and hard work. 3. ■ Lead by example and convey love – Warm scene: Whenever dad comes home from get off work, he never forgets to give grandma a hug and say “Thank you for your hard work.” Gradually, Xiaobao also learned to give his mother a glass of water and say \”Mom, thank you\” when she was tired. – The power of role models: Parents are their children’s best teachers. If they show consideration and gratitude with practical actions, their children will learn it subtly. 4. ▲ The art of praise: recognize every bit of progress – a moment of growth: Xiaofang took the initiative to help a classmate pick up a fallen book for the first time, and her mother promptly praised her good deed. From then on, Xiaofang became more and more willing to help others. – Motivational strategies: Pay attention to every considerate act of your child, no matter how small it is, don’t forget to give positive affirmation and encouragement. Conclusion: Watering with love, waiting for the flowers to bloom, the road of parenting is a practice about love and growth. Through these four simple steps of practice, we are not only changing our children, but also improving ourselves. When we turn \”I\” into \”we\”, children will become more considerate and kind day by day, nourished by this love. Let us join hands and use love and wisdom to guide children towards a warmer and broader world. 🌟Written at the end There are no shortcuts to parenting, but there are methods. Every step of the attempt is towards a more harmonious family relationship.A big step. I hope these methods can add a touch of brightness to your parenting journey, and let us look forward to seeing each \”little emperor\” transform into the warmest \”caring little cotton-padded jacket\” in the hearts of your family. 💖Remember, the road to education should be pursued and cherished, and every effort will not be in vain. mutual encouragement! 🌈