Love your daughter well, otherwise she will have a rough life.

A friend gave birth to a daughter. She is growing up day by day. She has an angelic smile and a face like rose petals. Wherever she goes, she attracts the attention and praise of people around her, saying, \”This little girl is so beautiful!\” If a girl is not good-looking, her parents will Worried about being rejected by others in the future, parents will be even more worried if they are too beautiful. Another kind of worry. The child\’s father said, \”Beautiful girls can easily cause trouble and must be strictly controlled.\” He hopes to cultivate a strong personality in his daughter. He always speaks with a straight face, deliberately not being gentle to the child, and does not help her when she falls. Get up on your own. Once a child regresses in learning, the father\’s various cynicisms are euphemistically called \”reverse stimulation of her.\” The child\’s mother is very gentle towards her daughter, but rarely praises her child, especially not her beauty. She always praises other children in front of her children, \”Look at so-and-so in your class, they are so simple and focus on studying.\” She is worried that if her children understand beauty, it will distract them from studying, or provoke boys, which is rarely the case. Buy nice clothes for your children and dress them up however you want. As a result, they chased and intercepted her day and night, and the children began to fall in love when they were still in junior high school. They saved their food money to buy clothes and cosmetics for themselves. My friend lamented his failure in education and was discouraged and disappointed with his daughter, but I felt very sad for my child. At a young age, she went out to look for love because her parents did not give her enough appreciation, care, praise, encouragement and support. She was not confident, she devalued herself, she felt that she was worthless, and she had to try to find it in the opposite sex. A little comfort and recognition can let her know that she is loved too. Her parents were afraid of love and calculated their love for their children like the stingy Grandet, fearing that this love would be wasted and misused. As a result, their children were hungry for love. The consequences of not loving your daughter properly will be tragic. For example, Romy Schneider, known as the actress of the century, was brilliant in the movie and will forever go down in film history for her perfect role as the Austrian Empress \”Sissi\”. But her love life was bumpy, and beneath her sweet appearance, she had a broken heart. All this stems from her unhappy childhood and her incompetent parents. Romy\’s parents were both well-known German film actors, and his mother, Magda Schneider, had also been famous for a while, but she never became famous. Romy had been born, and Magda didn\’t have many surprises as a mother. She was just glad that her parents could afford to raise their children. Romy\’s father was very philandering and had many mistresses, while his mother Magda always focused on her career and her struggle with her promiscuous husband. When he was 7 years old, his parents divorced, and Romy lived with his mother. At the age of 11, he entered a Catholic boarding school. In four years, Magda came to visit her daughter only two or three times. The indifferent father never even wrote a letter. In the movie \”Sissi\”, Romy\’s mother plays Sissi\’s mother, but Magda is not as kind and gentle as in the movie. She dislikes Romy and thinks her daughter is a difficult girl. Son, withdrawn and aggressive. \”She couldn\’t stand anyone and didn\’t even know how to take care of herself.\” Romy\’s parents\’ divorce and neglect made herFeeling deeply inferior. She was sent to a rigid boarding school without any family warmth. Like all children who are more neglected by their parents and eager to win attention, Romy has always worshiped his actress mother and is eager to please her mother. \”Who do I admire most in the world? My mother.\” Many people regard When Romy was 16 years old, her image in \”Sissi\” was regarded as her true character, but in fact she was not, \”I know, I am not Sissi, I am an unfortunate person.\” She is very timid, but she can actually act. If you have stage fright, be sure to take some sedative pills before the performance and bring some with you just in case. Alain Delon said that she was a stubborn and irritable child, \”a child who didn\’t quite understand what she was playing, who she was playing with, and why she was playing.\” Romy often felt that she was unhappy, \”This tragic actor on the screen is living She also played a tragic role and paid a huge price for it.\” She didn\’t like the role of Princess Sissi, but she played three movies in a row because it could earn her mother a lot of money. Romy didn\’t want to offend her mother and stepfather. She was used to pleasing them. She earned a lot of money, but only had a monthly \”allowance\” of 6,000 francs. \”When I wanted to cry to relieve my depression, Sissi would show a lovely smile.\” She longed for love and was extremely persistent in love, but she could never have a stable and healthy love. When her career was at its peak due to her role in \”Sissi\”, she devoted herself to her first love. Regardless of her mother\’s dissuasion and the angry condemnation of the domestic media, she left her hometown and followed Alain Delon to a strange place. France. But what makes Romy heartbroken is that five years later, the couple still failed because of Alain Delon\’s flirtatious betrayal. Romy returned to his motherland with many scars. She had two marriages, both of which failed. Romi’s friends and colleagues described her attitude towards love this way: “As long as she falls in love with someone, she will love truly, unreservedly and vigorously. For love, she can give up everything, house, money, everything. Everything.\” In the end, the failed relationship consumed her life, and she drove the proof train into her last dark tunnel. In China, the same is true. Old-style women are most likely to have emotional tragedies, which is related to the social environment and the contempt and oppression of girls in too many families at that time. For example, Xiao Hong\’s relationship throughout her life has been a pattern of seeking refuge, running around, and searching. She always leaves one man for another man, and takes one man\’s child with another man. Her childhood was still broken. The big family began to decline when she was born. The only warmth came from her kind grandfather. She and her grandfather would pull weeds, pick flowers, and chase dragonflies in the back garden. Grandpa was also her enlightenment, teaching her Read \”Poetry of Thousands of Families\”. When Xiao Hong was 7 years old, her grandmother passed away, and when she was 9 years old, her mother passed away. Her father soon married her stepmother. The stepmother is not that bad, at least she is polite to her face, \”If she doesn\’t hit me, she just scolds me and points at the table and chairs to scold me. Being polite is getting more polite, but it\’s also cold.\” It\’s just this kind of alienation, for a child who needs maternal love. In other words, it is also a kind of invisible delay and harm. fatherThe father has a bad temper and is very rude. Once he hears the stepmother\’s accusations against the children, he will get angry. \”If he accidentally breaks a cup, he will scold him to the point of making people tremble.\” The old family is repressed and obsolete, and the warmth of the family is Lack and deprivation created Xiao Hong\’s introverted and withdrawn character. She looked at the world silently and fantasized about the beauty. This gave her inspiration for literary creation and also gave her a wandering destiny throughout her life. Looking through the emotional tragedies of famous and unknown women, we can always find that they can\’t help but roll, rise and fall in the sea of ​​love, and regard men in the mortal world as their saviors, often because of that little lack in their childhood. If a girl doesn\’t get enough love, she will do herself and her future family a disservice. Women in the world are like flowers, they need to be loved more, they need to be wrapped in tenderness, and they need to be treated affectionately and kindly. What\’s wrong is never love, what\’s wrong is doting, neglect, and indulgence. Parents with daughters should love their little daughter well, let her be surrounded by enough respect and confidence, let her grow up healthily both physically and mentally, make her proud of herself, and give her the courage to take charge of her own life. Otherwise, she will have a bumpy love life, and men will be a sweet poison to her, a salvation from sinking. She loved so desperately and hard, but men always failed her because of it.