Low-level parents are always trying to satisfy their children

Blindly raising children in material wealth will only lead to children with mismatched consumption views. Do you still remember the sensational case of \”foreign student airport matricide\”? Wang Jiajing, who has been studying in Japan for five years, is 25 years old. She has never done a work-study program. She asks her mother for 7,000 yuan in tuition and living expenses every month. Her mother borrows money everywhere and cannot come up with the money. He actually stabbed the man who came to pick him up at the airport. Mother’s $9. However, what is even more deplorable is that after the mother’s life was not in danger, she defended her child by claiming that the child was mentally ill, but she ultimately lost to the law. What is it that makes his child become a demon who raises a knife against him? It is the parents’ bottomless pampering and bottomless material satisfaction for their children. There is a saying that only by raising a son in poverty can a boy learn to endure hardship and learn to take responsibility. Only by raising a daughter rich can the girl be confident and knowledgeable, and not be blinded by other people\’s small favors. This sentence certainly makes sense, but now, many parents, regardless of gender, are raising their children richly. Parents are always saying that no matter how hard it is, their children cannot be tortured. What other people\’s children have, your own children should also have. You can\’t let your children be looked down upon by others. It\’s okay if you have to work hard and be tired. As long as it\’s what your children ask for, you have to live frugally and live to satisfy your children. You can\’t wrong your children. As a result, a poor family just raised a rich second generation who spent money lavishly. Children can buy a pair of shoes worth hundreds or even thousands, and they have to hesitate for a long time to buy a piece of clothing that costs tens of dollars. Parents are always giving, giving everything for their children, hoping that their wealth will improve their children\’s future. better. As children grow older, their desires also grow. When they were young, they wanted toys worth tens of dollars. When they grow up, they want electronic products worth thousands of dollars, skin care products worth tens of thousands of dollars, and millions more. house car. Blindly raising children with material wealth and blindly meeting their material requirements will only raise a child who has no concept of money and will only reach out to his parents. The sorrow of parents who give everything but cannot raise grateful children. Chinese parents are always giving selflessly. No matter how hard and tiring they are working outside, they must firmly protect their children under their wings and prevent them from experiencing any wind and rain. But often, such selfless love only breeds ungrateful children. In \”Youth Talk\”, a girl named Ye Xinyu burst into tears as soon as she came on stage and asked her parents: \”I want to ask my parents, do you really care about my feelings?\” \”Ever since you opened the supermarket, you have been single-minded. It’s all about work, is money more important, or me?” Faced with their daughter’s accusations, the parents persisted and forced a smile. The supermarket is the family’s source of income. If they don’t take good care of the supermarket, where will the income come from? At the last moment, the parents finally couldn\’t help it. They both covered their faces and wiped away tears. They could only say: \”Dad, I promise to stay with you more in the future!\” Of course, it is normal for children to expect their parents to accompany them. But if a child can enjoy the material life earned by her parents\’ hard work as a matter of course, and at the same time accuse her parents of working hard to create better material conditions for her, it only shows that the parents\’ love is too much. That’s why children get used to being numb to their parents’ efforts.Indifferent, turning a blind eye, and even asking for more. In the same program, 13-year-old boy Li Renzhi confessed to his parents that he was grateful to his \”delivery delivery mother\”, which triggered a \”collective burst of tears\”. When this chubby, honest-looking boy climbed up the stairs, he said frankly: \”My mother walks through the streets and alleys of the city every day. She is a takeout delivery person…\” \”I hope everyone can be like me.\” People like mothers are more kind, because when you open the door, what you see may be the \’little princess\’ held by my father in his hands.\” \”Mom, I think you are great!\” Li Renzhi, is This is how you evaluate your mother’s career. They are also children. Some children ignore their parents\’ efforts and blindly ask for them. Some children are proud of their mother\’s career and see how hard their mother works. I think such children will definitely be responsible and have some responsibility in the future. Take responsibility and be more kind to others. Parents who dote on their children, your selflessness is not greatness, but stupidity. \”My 280-square-meter house in Pudong was given to me by my 23-year-old son. Will your son buy a house for you to live in? He may still hope You?\” a single mother in Shanghai said proudly! She is not a rich man, she is just a woman who was born as a worker and had three failed marriages, but she is a successful mother. Growing up in China, she treated her children like most Chinese parents, taking care of everything for their children. No matter how hard she worked, she could not let her children suffer. So, when she returned to her homeland of Israel, she ran a spring roll stall to earn money. After her children came back from school, Sara was making wontons and noodles for them. Without those words, she might have been just like an ordinary single mother in China. , working hard to bring up the children. Until one day, a neighbor scolded her son: \”You are already grown children. You should learn to help your mother instead of watching your mother busy here and making yourself like waste.\” Then she turned to scold Shala: \”Don\’t I thought you were the mother after you gave birth to a child…\” From then on, Shala learned a saying, only when you are extremely cruel can you be especially loving! As a result, children at a young age no longer stayed under their mother\’s wings, but began to learn to earn money to support the family early. Later, each of her children became successful in their own fields. Rousseau said, do you know how to make your child a miserable person? That means being obedient to him. The best love for children is to teach them how to be a good person and learn to live, rather than letting them live in a honeypot and not letting them taste any bitterness. If children eat too much sugar, they will no longer feel sweet, but will only feel tired, and naturally they will not cherish it. Only children who have experienced hardship will understand how precious those sweets are. So, stop doting on your child. Your selfless dedication only touches yourself, but it harms your child\’s life. You will always grow old, and your child will one day face the storms of this world. Without your protection, and without the ability to be independent, his life will be difficult.