Mom cheated on her, what should she do?

A girl asked everyone for help in the WeChat group: The thing is like this, my mother cheated on her with the master in my store. The man was very smooth-talking. My mother felt that she had met true love. I stopped studying a long time ago and was working in my own store. The man wanted to molest me. After I told my parents, my mother just smiled. My father offered to let him go, but my mother did not agree. At that time, I was terrified every day, afraid of that man. Later, because this master did not work well and the store\’s business was greatly affected, he was fired, but when he was too busy during the New Year and holidays, he was still asked to come over and help. My mother indulged him very much and always said that this store would not work without him. She also wanted to divorce my dad and live with him, but he didn\’t want to divorce her and marry her at all. My mother often brainwashes me, saying that one of her friends is cheating on her, and both her husband and children know about it, but her husband doesn\’t care at all and lives a good life. I want to ask, do my parents love me? I\’m very troubled, what should I do? The girl seeking help is in her 20s, married, and her husband is a step-in-law. Her mother is very strong and has the final say in the family. After listening to her story, the group exploded: Is your dad so tolerant? Without that man, would the store not be able to operate? If it were me, I couldn\’t bear it! The person your mother cheated on still wants to molest you? Who is it? There is something wrong with your character, you are a scumbag! If you think of a stepfather who sexually assaulted his daughter, but the mother turned a blind eye, she is probably someone like your mother. Your family style is so weird! What I\’m struggling with is, how can your parents tolerate that person still having thoughts about you? ! Let me go, the world is huge and full of wonders. The fate between your parents is over! Faced with the public outrage, the girl said: But they are doing well now, and I always feel resentful in my heart. They also said that I was ignorant, unsatisfied, and ungrateful. I couldn\’t understand them. Someone asked her parents why she said she was ungrateful. She replied: I have to work in the store to get paid! My mother was very angry that she still had to pay to raise me as a child. I have always felt guilty. Later, when I worked in the store, I didn’t need any wages. I spend less money in the store every day. Now that I think about it, I am really a fool. After I got married, my husband and I worked for the family together, and my parents only gave us some money during the Chinese New Year. What kind of parents are these? No matter how you look at it, it is incredible and difficult to understand. Everything has a cause and effect. With further communication and understanding, it will not be difficult to understand the formation of today\’s strange situation. Their family is in the cooked food business, and the man does his work very neatly and puts away the ingredients very cleanly. Business is very busy during the Chinese New Year and holidays. He has a bright mind and can analyze what to do first and what to do later, and arranges it in an orderly manner. The man was a good talker. Her mother felt that she had met true love and thought that the store could not do without him, so the two hooked up. His father was cowardly, had no status at home, and was very miserable. The girl was very angry and could not change her mother. She wanted to leave, but she stayed for her father. Later, she looked for her husband to get rid of the man, but it didn\’t work. Her mother and the man were a little restrained in front of her husband. But she felt that her husband had noticed it. After analysis, we found that her family situation is probably like this: her mother is the head of the family, very strong, and manages the whole family.Things big and small. The business in the store is good and the chef\’s skills are very good. Her mother and her master were getting along well, but her father was cowardly and cowardly because of business problems, so he could only tolerate it and let this abnormal situation continue. Shockingly, this strange look has existed for ten years, starting when she was a little girl. You can imagine how much pain she has endured in these ten years! She also said: My parents often say that I don’t know how lucky I am despite being blessed. I have a house to live in and money to spend. What else is there to be dissatisfied about? But I have nothing, so what am I satisfied with? I never figured it out. My mother and that man wanted to join forces to piss off my father at first, but I happened to hear them talking, and I told my father, but…hey! Sometimes I really want to jump off a building, and I often think about it, but I think that if I jump off a building, it will affect my parents\’ business, how will they live? This is such a kind girl, she is almost going crazy and wants to die, and she is still thinking about her parents. However, if this continues, even if her father can endure it, how can the girl endure it? In fact, she was already severely depressed. Friends in the group began to analyze and provide suggestions for her future: There is a limit to human patience. If you continue like this, your depression will become more serious, your husband will not be able to bear it, and your father may go to extremes…unless your mother changes her ways. Come on, get rid of that scumbag. But judging from the current situation, this is difficult. There are only a few decades in your life, don\’t you and your husband think about the future? Don’t you save money to raise your children? Weird parents, since you can\’t change, just let them go. You should separate as soon as possible and find a job or start a business on your own instead of getting involved together. They have ideological problems and it is too difficult to change them. You can only change yourself. It would be best to let them hand over management rights, but this is unlikely. The only option is to go out and do it alone. The only thing you can do now is to get to know this store thoroughly. You can control all the craftsmanship yourself, know every step clearly, and you can also train your own people. After a year or two of this, you can fully take over the store on the grounds that your parents can enjoy a comfortable life in retirement. Anyway, I have already said the method. Whether you do it or not is up to you. If you don\’t take action yourself, the gods won\’t be able to help you. If you still can\’t listen to everyone\’s analysis and advice, you will be letting everyone down. It is possible that if you turn around, you will still live your old life day after day, becoming depressed and ill. If you make up your mind, it will be a new world, and it is possible that your parents\’ situation will improve. You want to change but don\’t dare to change, and you still think that it will be over once and for all. In fact, you also have a big problem yourself. … Yes, many problems, in fact, we also have problems ourselves. We dare not face them, dare not change them, let fate lead us, and are stuck in the quagmire of pain and cannot extricate ourselves. Once you make up your mind, go out and face it bravely, not only will you be freed, but other problems may also change accordingly. Problems that have been entangled in pain for a long time may also be solved and usher in a bright future. There are thousands of kinds of people in this world, and there is no shortage of weird things. No one is particularly lucky, being born in a greenhouse and growing up in the fairy tale kingdom forever. Don\’t count on anyone, not even your closest relatives, only you can rely on yourself. This is an eternal truth. We rely on mountains and landslides, we rely on water and water flow, we rely on everyone walking, we rely on our own cattle.Always remember: If you can’t change the world, change yourself. Just do one thing to make yourself strong, strong, and stronger.