\”Mom, he hit me\” your answer is very important

When your child tells you: Someone hit him! Wrong answer; don’t tell your child: It’s okay/it’s okay, it’s normal to hit and make trouble. You have to know: an adult\’s \”it doesn\’t matter\” is equivalent to implying that if you are bullied, you have to endure it. This kind of reply from parents makes the child unable to distinguish the difference between normal playing and being bullied, which is very detrimental to the child\’s growth. Parents should guide their children to protect themselves and avoid developing a timid and cowardly character. If it is a normal conflict between children and the child is not injured, tell the child: Encourage the child to handle the conflict on his own. This is a good opportunity to train the child to deal with interpersonal relationships! If the child cannot handle it and seek your help, you can guide them to find the cause of the conflict. Think about the problem from the child\’s perspective and analyze the reasons. Help children face the causes of conflicts head-on to solve problems and empathize with children. If the other party maliciously attacks and causes injury to the child. Tell your children: 1. The first time the other person attacks you, you have to say loudly: Why are you hitting me? Hitting is wrong, please apologize to me. 2. The other person continues to attack you and fight back bravely. 3. The other person is stronger and taller than you. :Don’t be brave and run away. Ask your teachers or parents for help. You have to remember that you have the support of your parents at all times and we don’t allow anyone to hurt you at will. Tell your children to be measured when fighting back. 1. Do not use dangerous objects: such as rocks, bricks, scissors, etc., which can easily hurt others or yourself. 2. Do not hit sensitive parts: such as eyes, nose, head, neck, etc., which can easily cause serious injuries. 3. Do not fight back excessively: the other party will see your counterattack. It’s okay to stop. Don’t fight back excessively to avoid irreversible consequences! Tell your children in advance the principle of hitting back: protect yourself while not causing more serious consequences. If the child asks, “Didn’t you say that hitting someone is wrong? \”Answer like this: \”Baby, mommy taught you to be polite and respectful to others. But if the other person has hurt you, you can fight back. Mom doesn’t want you to bully others, but if someone maliciously attacks you, you can definitely fight back and let the other person know that you are not someone who can be bullied casually!” Kindness ≠ Weakness A true person A kind child should be a person who is both loving and courageous.