Mom peeked into her son\’s diary and was shocked!

Over the past few years, in the painful process of learning, growing, and fighting with my children, I have transformed from confusion and anxiety to a calm outlook. \”No gold is pure, and no one is perfect.\” I am not a perfect mother, and I do not demand perfection from my children. \”One person has one nature, and a hundred birds have a hundred voices.\” Yes, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages. Parents are their children\’s best teachers. We can discover his shining points, provide guidance and help, and teach him to have a normal mentality and be optimistic and confident. My son is not good at verbal expression, and his introverted son makes me very uneasy. After thinking about it, I finally thought of a good way. Why not let your son write his own diary, and write down what he sees, hears, thinks, and what he doesn’t want to say to others? In this way, the son will have someone to talk to, and he will not be too entangled in his heart. So I took my son with me on the weekend and asked him to choose a book he liked as his personal diary. My son couldn\’t put it down for this book that cost only five yuan. I was happy from the bottom of my heart. We, mother and son, made a verbal agreement that no one could read his diary, but his diary must record his true experiences and must not falsify. So, whenever my son had nothing to do, he would write and draw in his precious diary. I saw it and was very happy in my heart. Once, I accidentally saw my son\’s diary. Driven by curiosity, I broke the appointment, violated the promise we made, and took a peek at my son\’s diary. Who knows, you won’t know until you see it, but you will be shocked when you see it. In his son’s diary, he wrote about this question many times: “I am a child from a small place, and I always feel that I am not as good as other people’s children. All other people’s children speak fluent Mandarin, and other people’s children Everyone… I\’m very confused and feel like I can\’t go anywhere.\” After reading this, I was speechless. The top priority is that I must build up self-confidence in my child. Otherwise, my son will always live in the shadow of low self-esteem and everything will be over. Tossing and turning, I couldn\’t help but pick up the pen and wrote this paragraph in my son\’s diary: \”Liang, my dear son, first of all, please forgive my mother for breaking the promise and peeking at your diary. In fact, my mother did not use you and me at all. Compare other people\’s children. Of course, I don\’t want you to compare with other people\’s children. You have to live in your own world, live out your true colors, and let others envy you and envy you. No matter what happens, you must have Confidence, think \’I can do it, I am the best\’, and you will definitely succeed. If you give up at the beginning, do you still have the courage to complete this thing? I believe you can do it. . Of course, mom can help you when you need help…\” I was very excited at the time and wrote a lot. I missed my appointment and waited for my son\’s questioning with an uneasy heart. Unexpectedly, my son didn\’t mind that I peeked at his diary, but wrote below, \”Reply to mom: I know what to do, thank you mom.\” A hanging heart finally fell, and from then on The diary has become a platform for communication between my son and me. The mid-term exam in the first semester of fifth grade has always been excellentXiu\’s son scored 83 points in Chinese, which was unexpected. The son wrote in his diary: \”I don\’t know why, but when I took the Chinese language test, my mind went blank, and I couldn\’t do anything I knew. My essays were messy, and my heart was full of fear. I felt sorry for the teacher and my parents… ..\” After reading it, I had a lot of thoughts and wrote at the bottom of the diary: \”Son, you have not sorry to anyone. No matter how strong or excellent people are, they will be confused. \’No one is a sage, and you can only make mistakes with practice.\’ The reason you failed to do well in the exam is that your basic knowledge is not solid and ambiguous. Don\’t be discouraged by one failure. We must face it bravely, persist, and find ways without excuses. The gains and losses now are not important, the important thing is The most important thing is your attitude towards things. Wherever you are deficient, make up for it. Don’t complain. Only by practicing solid basic skills can you be invincible.\” Later, the son replied: \”Thank you, Mom, I will definitely make up my mind. Check for deficiencies and catch up.\” Only hard work will pay off, and action will pay off. Even I feel that my son takes one small step a day and one big step a week. Finally, the hard work paid off, and my son ranked first in the class in the final exam. . In the diary of that day, the son expressed his great joy and sincere gratitude to the teacher and mother. I smiled and wrote: \”Arrogant soldiers will be defeated.\” In this way, the diary became a communication platform for my son and I, allowing us to talk to each other. It not only allowed me to understand my son\’s inner dynamics, enhance our mother-son relationship, and enrich our lives, but my son\’s introverted personality has also changed, and he is willing to communicate with me about anything. The unexpected joy is that my son\’s composition level has been continuously improved. No, a few days ago my son won the third prize in the primary school group in \”My Childhood with Gorky\” – the 4th Reading and Essay Competition for Primary and Secondary School Students in Lishicheng District! All this is thanks to the communication platform of diary. May our family boat move forward steadily and wait for the flowers to bloom.