Mom, please give in. Dad must do these things!

In the eyes of many people, fathers are not only clumsy when raising their children, but they are also simple and impatient in communicating with their children. They even sometimes take their children to do some risky things… Therefore, many mothers are directly between \”dad\” and \”pig teammates\” Having drawn an equal sign, I never expected my father to play any role in raising children. As long as he didn\’t cause any trouble, he would be considered a contributor. However, all this is probably because we don\’t know how to play the role of \”dad\” well. Fathers are different from mothers in their delicate and gentle thinking. Their brave and persevering character and indomitable spirit of adventure leave a large space for their children to be independent. Their \”laziness\” just stimulates children\’s subjective initiative and reduces children\’s unnecessary dependence. Precisely because of the father\’s \”laziness\”, the child can only use his own wisdom and ability when encountering difficulties, so his will, quality and problem-solving ability are fully exercised; when he encounters obstacles and setbacks, the child has to learn to accept them. Limitations, constraints, and even punishments by social norms. All experiences give children greater passion for life and persistent pursuit of the unknown world. In fact, in many things, no matter how hard we mothers try, we cannot do as well as our fathers. Sports psychologist Ross Parker followed 390 families in California, USA, and found that mothers played with their children in a more stereotyped way, and the children were less excited, while fathers were more inclined to take their children to play intense sports, such as wrestling, Hide and seek, etc., and thereby teach them how to coordinate their bodies and control their emotions. As the child\’s first physical education teacher, the father takes the child to play ball, ride a bicycle, swim, and climb mountains… which not only exercises the child\’s body, but also cultivates the child\’s passion for sports. If we observe carefully, we will find that most children who love sports are enthusiastic and cheerful, and have healthier physical and mental health. And behind most of these children, there is a father who loves sports. Whether a child loves sports or not has a lot to do with his father\’s encouragement and companionship. Teaching children to be independent When it comes to cultivating children\’s \”independence\”, fathers and mothers usually behave completely differently: it is the mother who is often the one who has everything to offer, and it is the father who is self-reliant. Many mothers often bring tea and water to their children while nagging them that they are not independent enough. Dads are usually very simple. \”Do it yourself\” becomes an effective instruction, letting the children try, so that the children have more opportunities to learn and grow. Let children know what \”courage\” means. Many of the behaviors of children are imitating their parents. If the mother is very afraid of something, such as being afraid of bugs, dogs, the dark, etc., the child will usually be afraid of these things too. Dad is synonymous with strength and courage. If a father tells his child: \”Look, dad will always protect you, and you are so brave, bad things will not dare to bully you.\” This statement can inspire the child and give him the courage to face the situation. What you are afraid of. Teach children how to love their families. In many families, only the mother often expresses care and love to her children and family members, but this does not have a profound impact on the children. Sometimes children who grow up in this family model will only ask for, not Understand rewards. If the father takes the initiative to teach how to love his family, the childSoon you will realize its importance and put it into practice. Fathers often have a more profound influence on their children than mothers. This not only enables children to learn how to love their families, but also enables their families to gain continuous happiness and make their families get along more harmoniously, harmoniously and warmly. Liu Yong once said that many fathers have no hands in their children\’s pictures. Because dads are too busy at work and rarely spend time with their children, they can\’t remember the things they did with their dads. If you happen to be a very busy dad, take some time to do these things with your children, and let them know that you love them no less than your mother.