Mom, please go away, dad must do these 5 things

When a child is growing up, the following 5 things must be done by fathers. From their father, children observe what a man is, what a husband is, and what a father is, and at the same time they will think about what independence and bravery are. The father is the child\’s declaration of independence, the father is the child\’s brave textbook, and the father is the child\’s guide to the world. The attitude of a father who loves his wife towards his wife is actually the attitude of a boy towards his future wife. When his father beat and scolded his wife, the little boy saw it and was influenced by it. When he grew up and had conflicts with his wife, when he didn\’t know what to do, he would subconsciously raise his fist. Because in his subconscious mind, he thinks this is a way to resolve conflicts between husband and wife. When a little girl sees this, she will doubt her own value as a woman and that she is not worthy of love. If she encounters or is abused by a scumbag in the future, she will not take the initiative to avoid it, and may even think it is normal. On the contrary, if the father loves, respects and cherishes the mother, the daughter will recognize her female role from the bottom of her heart and believe that she is worthy of love. In the future, she will stay away from men who do not respect and cherish her. Accompany your child to do sports. From the age of 5 months, the baby will feel the different love from his parents. When his father picked him up, he had begun to marvel at his father\’s strength, because he lifted him high and stretched out his limbs. Therefore, the father is the best coach for his children. Starting from lifting high, the father will accompany his child to do exercises. Dad and mom are different. The nature of a woman determines that she rarely takes her children to participate in adventurous activities, while dad can teach his children a brave and cheerful spirit of exploration through sports. Moreover, with a father playing sports and games with his children, the father\’s strong arms will give the children a sense of security, and the children will be mentally healthier. No matter when you are a child or when you grow up, you will feel more secure, positive and brave when facing setbacks or challenges. Let your child win once. Whether it’s a board game, running, or anything else, dad must let his child win once. Even let your children win once in a while. In every child\’s heart, dad is a hero and a very powerful person. If they beat their father once in a game, they will be particularly proud and build up their self-confidence that as long as they work hard, they will be great and defeat everything. With such self-confidence, children are willing to try anything they encounter. Compared with children who don\’t even dare to try, they are of course more likely to succeed. If positive feedback is formed, the children will become better and better. Give your child a hug. Psychology once conducted an experiment and counted the feelings of thousands of students at Harvard University. The conclusion is: a hug from dad brings more affirmation and shock than a hug from mom. Both adults and children are hungry for skin. This has long been a consensus in psychology. Chinese fathers don\’t like to talk about love, so give them a hug. Your hug is more useful than a hug from your mother. Don\’t be afraid that your children will look down on you if you share your experience of failure. Children will love their father even more when they know that their father has failed before, and they will be braver and stronger when facing setbacks and challenges. Through such sharing, the relationship between the child and the father will be closer, and your hearts will be closer. Children will grow up to be honest with themselves, accept setbacks, and work hard for success. will become unconsciouslyBe sunny and cheerful, willing to share secrets with you, instead of becoming a child who reports good things but not bad things after school, pretends to be strong, but is actually weak, and drifts away from you. \”A father is the one who educates his children and shows them the way to the world.\” The growth of a child requires the warm embrace of the mother, and the strong arms and guidance of the father. On the road to parenting, fathers should take on the responsibilities of a father and leave a clear and beautiful figure in their children\’s childhood memories, not just a shadow. In the process of accompanying his children, fathers should also remember to pamper their mothers. The best education is for fathers to love their mothers. Children who grow up in the infiltration of love will know how to love others only after they have seen what love looks like. They will radiate the light of love like a little sun and give the people they love full of love and warmth.