Mother Bao had a conflict while tutoring her son on his homework. He jumped into a river in the middle of the night and kept saying one thing after being rescued.

As long as the topic of \”helping children with homework\” is brought up, people\’s defenses will always be broken. Parents\’ complaints can\’t be accommodated in a train: \”Children do not take their homework seriously, procrastinate, and dawdle. I have said this several times. He doesn’t even understand.” The next second is the moment when countless parents collapse emotionally. The bitterness of many mothers when helping their children with their homework cannot be easily described in words. A very famous incident on the Internet about parents tutoring their children in homework impressed me deeply: Ms. Liu from Shanghai was tutoring her son in homework at night. The mother and son had a conflict, which triggered the emotions that the mother had been harboring for a long time: the child has a long road to school. She didn\’t know when such days would come to an end. In the middle of the night, Ms. Liu became more and more angry as she thought about it. She walked out of the house, went to the river and jumped down, wanting to die. Fortunately, a passerby called the police. The mother, wearing a heavy cotton coat, jumped into the river and floated on the water. In the end, she was saved. After the disaster, when Ms. Liu was rescued, what she kept saying was: \”I am really too tired… so tired.\” Many netizens expressed their incomprehension about this matter. They thought that their mother was a As adults, why should we be as serious as our children? Some people also think that it is very irresponsible for a mother to abandon her child and jump into the river. It is estimated that these netizens have not yet given birth to children, and may not have helped their children with homework. Parents who have been mothers and help their children with homework every day express their feelings the same way! Some netizens said that they were so angry that they tutored their children with homework every day. As a result, it was my father who came out. He came out of the study in three minutes and said that if he asked me to help him with homework, he would divorce me. Some netizens said that their child was in the first grade and the child wrote a 24-word ancient poem for more than an hour and had not finished it. Then the mother gave up and said that if she continued to tutor, she would go crazy. Because children do homework, many families have caused a series of problems. For example, mothers are depressed and become depressed, and some couples quarrel because of their children, leading to divorce. In most families, the parent-child relationship is very tense, the children are severely rebellious, and their academic performance is very poor, etc. Why has children\’s homework become such a serious problem now? On the one hand, it is because parents attach great importance to their children\’s education, and the current situation of education is really complicated. Another reason is that parents are under a lot of physical and mental pressure. Nowadays, young parents are under a lot of work pressure. Staying up late and eating irregularly are commonplace, and poor physical and mental energy are normal. It is not difficult to help children with their homework. After all, most parents nowadays have relatively sufficient academic qualifications. It may be that they have some problems in managing and communicating with their children. To help your children with their homework, parents may wish to try the following methods to see if they work for your children! First, cultivate children\’s sense of responsibility and do their own things. The biggest problem for children in learning is to correct their learning attitude and treat learning as their own responsibility. For example, we have communicated with our children that we must bear the consequences of failing to finish homework, such as being criticized by the teacher, being left behind after school, etc. In daily life, parentsWe should also guide the child to become an independent child. For example, you should do your own things and let your children understand that doing homework is just like parents working to make money. In the family, everyone has their own responsibilities and cannot shirk them. Second, cultivate children\’s good study habits and concentrate on homework. When a child is doing homework, the most frustrating thing is that he dawdles for a long time and cannot write a few words. Cultivating your child\’s good study habits is more useful than staring at him every day, and is also more conducive to your child\’s academic development. First of all, when children are doing homework, parents should create a quiet, clean and dedicated space for their children to study. For example, set up a separate study room, and keep the child\’s desk clean and free of clutter. We try to minimize external interference so that children can devote themselves to their homework. When children are ready to do homework, we encourage children to make preparations before doing homework, such as preparing necessary stationery, textbooks, etc., to avoid being distracted by looking for items. Secondly, parents should guide and help their children to formulate reasonable homework plans from the time their children are in first grade. For a day\’s homework, the order and time arrangement of the homework should be clearly defined by subject. This can give children a sense of purpose and gradually develop good time management skills. Finally, parents should try to avoid disturbing their children when they are doing homework and give their children some space to think independently and complete their homework. Parents can concentrate on doing their own things. Parents should set an example by showing their attitude and habits of focusing on doing things and setting a good example for their children. Third, set up a certain reward and punishment system to guide children to persist. When children can concentrate on homework, parents should give timely affirmation and encouragement to enhance their self-confidence and enthusiasm. We can agree with the child on a time for homework. If he can finish the homework within the specified time, we can give the child some appropriate rewards, and conversely, we can give them some punishment. We need more patient guidance and long-term persistence to cultivate children\’s habit of concentrating on homework, and gradually help children develop a good habit of completing homework independently. Of course, the most important thing is for parents to cultivate their minds, especially mothers, to learn how to manage their emotions, how to make their children less angry, have a good attitude towards their children\’s studies, and be calm and not anxious, which is good for themselves and their children!