Mother’s mouth is the best feng shui for a home

I once heard an old saying: \”A man is blessed mostly by himself. If a woman is blessed, it must be a blessing for the whole family.\” Having a woman who knows how to speak well is a blessing for the whole family. The best feng shui for a home is the mother\’s mouth. If the mother talks well, her partner will be happier, the children will live more confidently, and the whole family will be more prosperous, harmonious and beautiful. 01 Ang Lee is a well-known director, and his relationship with his wife is even more talked about. Ang Lee was not famous from the beginning. He had a trough period that lasted for six years. For a long time, the daily expenses of the family were all supported by his wife alone. During that time, no one took notice of the scripts he wrote, and he was discouraged by repeated obstacles. He even wanted to give up and switch to learning computers to make money and relieve the pressure on his wife. When his wife saw Li An\’s failure, she never made fun of him. Instead, she saw his frustration and helplessness, and gently comforted him: \”You have to remember your dream. There are so many people learning computers, and you, Li An, are just as good as you.\” She said. His words rekindled the love in Li An\’s heart. With the support of his lover, he worked harder and harder, and his hard work paid off. After years of dormancy, he finally became famous in one fell swoop. Then in an interview, the host asked Ang Lee: \”What is your greatest happiness at this stage?\” He replied: \”When my wife smiles at me, I will relax and feel very happy.\” You see, marriage Women who know how to speak well and are supportive and considerate to their partners will also receive the most sincere and warm love from their partners. As Dong Qing said in \”The Long Reader\”: \”A woman\’s happiness begins with speaking well.\” A woman who knows how to speak well is a man\’s blessing and the foundation of happiness for the family. 02 Dr. Marshall Luxemburg once said: \”Maybe we don\’t think the way we talk is \’violent\’, but our words do often cause pain to ourselves and others.\” A research center once conducted a survey in which more than 1,000 people Among the minors, 25.7% had low self-esteem; 22.1% were cold-hearted; and 56.5% were irritable. The root cause is that these children have been living in a poor language environment for a long time. Mother\’s accusations, demands, complaints, and anger not only fail to make the children better, but instead make them fall into an emotional black hole and be swallowed up bit by bit. And if the mother can speak well and make the child feel respected, understood, tolerated, and loved, then he will definitely feel warm as he grows up. There is a public welfare short film in Thailand that has touched many people. The little boy in the video is practicing football. His performance in football was not satisfactory. Even the coach said: \”Although this child works hard, his foundation is not very good.\” My mother was a little sad after hearing this. After the training was over, she did not show any sadness. Instead, she hugged her child happily and said, \”I talked to your coach today, and he said that you have been working hard. Before this, you didn\’t know how to use it at all.\” You have to hit the ball with your head, but you can do it now and then.\” Then she lightly clasped two fingers and told the child to \”try a little harder.\” After listening to her mother\’s words, the child was so inspired that he even cared about milk. Not allowed to finish drinking, he hurried to practice football. Later, no matter what difficulties we encountered on the training ground,Little boys will warmly recall their mother’s encouraging gesture: “Try a little harder.” He is really making progress little by little. In a football match, he was about to lose to the opponent. As a result, the little boy used his head to head the ball into the goal and save the defeat. The little boy jumped for joy and ran towards his mother as soon as the performance was over, while the mother smiled and hugged the child tenderly. Mothers who know how to speak well use the warmest words to support and encourage their children, so that they can get out of frustration, be brave enough to challenge, and be confident. Such a child has light in his eyes, love in his heart, and a sense of strength. As psychologist Dr. Susan Forward said: \”Children cannot distinguish between facts and jokes. They will believe what adults say about themselves and turn it into their own ideas.\” The mother\’s mouth determines the child life direction. Your language is full of nutrients so that children can thrive; if your language is full of poison, children will only feel hopeless. 03 Master Xuecheng once said: \”What you say is actually how you are in the eyes of others. Everyone wants to change their own destiny, and speaking well is to change their destiny.\” What you say is what your destiny is. After becoming partners and mothers, we need to understand the importance of language even more, because we not only affect ourselves, but also affect a family. As \”The Little Prince\” said: \”The most conquering weapon in the world is language. One word can make a person\’s mood hit rock bottom, and one word can also make a person regain his strength.\” A mother\’s mouth is family Feng shui at its best. I hope we can all learn to speak well so that our children and families can become better and better!