Must-read for parents: 15 classic quotes from famous parenting experts

1. Being an emotionally stable mother is the best gift you can give your children. 2. When a child feels that his parents don\’t love him, it\’s actually because his parents don\’t know how to love him. 3. In the family, the child\’s sense of security mainly comes from the mother, while the self-concept of \”who I am and what I am like\” comes from the father. As a parent, do you give your children enough psychological nutrition? 4. Letting go means that when a child already has such autonomy, he must let it go. 5. Encouragement has no purpose and comes from the heart. When a father does something that the child cannot understand, there is no need to speak for the father, but just to show the child: How do I get along with such a father? , how I accepted him. 6. If I can help myself, make me happy and harmonious, then this is also the greatest gift to my children. 7. To believe in a child is to believe that he must be the best he can be at the moment, to believe that he is as pure and beautiful as himself, and to believe that his life will allow him to develop what is most in line with the essence of his life. Rather than believing that he can meet his parents\’ requirements without their guidance and reminders. 8. The relationship between parents is their own business, and children being good themselves is the greatest help to their parents. 9. Deviant behavior is a signal for help, because there is an unsatisfied desire in the heart: safety and love. 10. When a child lies, he/she needs to lie. If a child feels safe enough in the presence of adults, he/she will be willing to tell the truth. Are you a parent who makes your children feel safe enough? 11. The relationship between husband and wife has a great impact on children: (1) It affects the child\’s sense of intimacy, and even brings it to the child\’s new family; (2) It affects the child\’s sense of responsibility, making the child the savior, incompetent or indifferent of the family; (3) Affect children’s sense of security. 12. Emotion is a kind of energy. If there is a lot of emotional garbage inside that has not been processed, it will accumulate and then keep looking for an outlet. Children\’s deviant behavior is one of the manifestations. Learn to be the master of your own emotions and become a consistent person of mind and body, and then you can teach your children to do the same. 13. If the relationship between parents or other family members is tense and the child has accumulated a lot of emotions, anxiety and pain will cause the child to harm himself, such as grabbing his hair or hitting sharp objects, and use the \”physiological feedback method\”, that is, self-injury, to relieve the inner pain. Anxiety and pain. Parents should pay more attention to children who are prone to accidents or injuries and help them express their emotions in better ways. 14. Whether a child is optimistic and confident has a lot to do with the mother\’s mood. An optimistic, peaceful, and emotionally stable mother usually makes her children feel safe, comfortable, and willing to explore the outside world. Are you the emotionally stable mom? 15. \”Do I like myself? I don\’t know whether my career will be successful tomorrow, but even if it is not successful, can I still appreciate and respect myself?\” After the age of 25, let us learn to be like a plant, with sunshine and air That’s it. Learn to be a nurturing person, accepting and nurturing yourself unconditionally, while also nurturing others.