Dear sisters, I am Xiaoyue’s mother. Last night, my daughter suddenly asked: \”Mom, how many days do I have left to go to elementary school?\” I calculated carefully and found that there were only 10 days left, excluding Saturdays and Sundays, which was only about 7 days. Time flies by like a flash, as if yesterday she was the little one who just entered kindergarten, lying on the door crying for her mother, and in the blink of an eye she will become a first-grade primary school student. Looking back on these three years, I can’t help but feel a sense of regret. I used to devote all my energy to my daughter’s studies. Chinese literacy, English listening and speaking, recitation of ancient poems, mathematical operations, etc. took up most of her time, but I neglected to cultivate her sports and other necessary habits. . It was not until recently that I deeply realized that in kindergarten, the excellence of children cannot be measured by how many ancient poems they can recite, how many English words they know, or even how many additions and subtractions they can calculate. Starting from the general environment in which the country vigorously promotes burden reduction, we should pay more attention to cultivating children\’s good exercise habits, eye protection habits, reading habits and self-care abilities. 1. Vibrant exercise to thrive. In the past, I didn’t take her to feel the wind when running, or teach her the rhythm of skipping rope. Today, she is the shortest in the class. She lost in the first round of the last rope skipping competition in kindergarten, and her body\’s resistance is also weak. Rhinitis has been bothering her for more than a year. It was not until recently that we started exercising more and her laughter became clear and sweet again. As her sweat fell, not only did her rhinitis improve, but her eyes also began to have unprecedented happiness and pride. It turns out that exercise can not only strengthen the body, but also exercise the will and make the mind stronger. Every time she jumps and runs, I can see the changes in her body, which is the glow of health and confidence. 2. Love your eyes and protect your eyes, and have a bright future. With the rise of online learning apps such as Hong En Literacy, Dudu Mathematics, and Number Sense Planet, my daughter’s time using electronic products is also increasing day by day. During the vision test in the last year of kindergarten, the left The visual acuity of the eye is 5.0, and the visual acuity of the right eye is 4.9. Only then did he start to pay attention to protecting his daughter\’s eyesight, and began to limit the time she spent using electronic devices, and encouraged her to participate in more outdoor activities to give her eyes a rest. Whenever she reads or draws, she will be reminded to maintain a correct sitting posture, look far away at the right time, or do eyeball exercises to protect her big, bright eyes. 3. Reading enlightens the mind and accompanies knowledge. The bookshelves in our home are filled with all kinds of books, from fairy tales to popular science knowledge, from simple picture books to interesting comics. In the past three years, if there is one thing I do not regret, it is that I often accompany my daughter to read together and let her swim in the ocean of knowledge. Now when she gets up in the morning, if she gets up too early and it\’s not time for breakfast, she will take a book and sit at the desk to read. Whenever she is immersed in the world of books, with curiosity and desire shining in her eyes, I know that reading has become an indispensable part of her life, and I believe that books will help her get through her own low points in life in the future. time. 4. Living an independent life and improving abilities. I have not paid attention to this point before, but the kindergarten transition books I read recently mentioned many times that \”cultivating children\’s self-care ability can make children more independent.\”They can better adapt to primary school life.\” You can start with small things in daily life, such as letting children dress, eat, organize pencil cases, organize school bags, etc. Gradually improve children\’s self-care ability, let them learn to live independently, and prepare for the future. Be fully prepared for growth. Those who have the ability to take care of themselves since childhood tend to be more confident and independent as they grow up. Encouraging them to complete homework independently, solve problems by themselves, and cultivate their self-care ability and independent thinking habits are also my next steps. A direction for our efforts. Written at the end: The end of three years in kindergarten is the beginning of a new stage of life for Xiaoyue and me. Educating children is a long-term task, and we must not only focus on performance, but also pay attention to the cultivation of comprehensive quality. Continue to accompany Xiaoyue to grow up, and believe that with careful cultivation and loving care, every child can shine. \”My dear, no matter where you go, your mother will accompany you and support you.\” \”We also hope that all children can grow up healthy and happy and have a bright future that belongs to them.
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