My child has been in kindergarten for almost a year, and he still gets sick every once in a while. It’s all because he didn’t take it seriously when he entered kindergarten.

I was recently chatting with Fa Xiao, and she told me something that was really heartbreaking and helpless. Publish novels; Her son will be promoted to kindergarten in just over a month, but this year has been really hard. Fa Xiao lamented that it was only after her son had been in kindergarten for a year that he realized how harmful it was to him if separation anxiety was not taken seriously when he entered kindergarten. What has the child experienced? It turned out that Fa Xiao\’s son had just entered kindergarten at that time, and there were no elderly people at home to help. Fa Xiao and her husband had opened a new store and were so busy that they had no time to do psychological development for the child in advance. They thought at the time, if they sent their children to kindergarten, wouldn’t they just let them play? Who knew there were so many ways in here. In this way, they hurriedly sent their children to a private kindergarten near their home. At first, the child was extremely uncomfortable. I cried every morning and didn\’t want to go, but because of things in the store, my husband and I didn\’t bother to do ideological work with the child. They hurriedly sent the child to the kindergarten every day and left. After finally getting through 2 months, the child slowly accepted the kindergarten life and thought everything would be fine. However, during this year, the child fell ill every now and then, and it became commonplace for him to go to the hospital. The doctor said he couldn\’t find any major problems and could only rest at home. Posting novels Looking at the child\’s frail little body is really heartbreaking. What worries Faxiao even more is that the originally lively and cheerful child has become timid and clingy. When I\’m with my parents, I don\’t want to leave the adults\’ sight for a moment, and I feel extremely insecure. Seeing the child like this makes me extremely uncomfortable. When children first go to kindergarten, they are suddenly separated from their parents and face a completely unfamiliar environment, unfamiliar people and things. Every baby will have more or less nervousness, restlessness, helplessness, fear, and anxiety. It’s just that The severity varies. However, if the guidance is not good or is too serious, it will have a greater impact on the physical and mental health of the child. Just like my young son, he either gets sick every now and then or suffers from a severe lack of sense of security. It can be said that the biggest separation anxiety in a person\’s life occurs in kindergarten. Therefore, how to make the baby enter the kindergarten happily and joyfully is a big deal for every family. It is a difficult and necessary task for every baby’s parents to face. topic. For children who are about to enter kindergarten, anxiety about entering kindergarten is a problem that many children and parents face. How to effectively help children overcome this anxiety and help them adapt to the new environment smoothly? As a mother of two children and a nanny, I would like to give you some suggestions based on my experience and professional knowledge. 1. Don’t scare your child by sending him to kindergarten when he is misbehaving or something goes wrong. Some parents will casually say, “See if you are disobedient, I will send you to kindergarten” or “I am in charge” when your child is misbehaving. I can’t help you anymore, I’ll let the teacher take care of it and see if you’re afraid or not” and the like. In fact, we may not mean what we say when we say this. We may think that the baby will forget it in the blink of an eye. But over time, the kindergarten becomes a place where the baby will be punished and controlled, which will make the baby have a negative attitude toward the kindergarten. Fear and resistance. 2. Let the babyMake more new friends and play more with children. When we usually take our babies out to play, we should consciously let our children know more new friends, encourage them to take the initiative to communicate with children, and actively participate in common games. We can also chat with the new parents of other children, and maybe we can have friends who go to kindergarten together. Seeing familiar friends in the kindergarten is also very beneficial for the baby to eliminate uneasiness and adapt to the new environment when he first enters the kindergarten. 3. Mentally prepare your children in advance. Many well-prepared parents around me will read picture books about kindergarten with their children when their babies are about to enter kindergarten or after they enter kindergarten. For example, a set of functional picture books like \”I Love Kindergarten\” will help them Children understand the life in kindergarten, so that children know how to deal with problems in kindergarten…etc. Before my daughter entered kindergarten, my sister-in-law also bought this set of functional picture books. I remember when my daughter entered kindergarten, the teachers in her class said that she didn’t look like a child who just went to kindergarten, and she started playing with the children on the first day. . Both the head teacher and the life teacher like her very much and let her do any good things. The reason why my daughter doesn’t fuss or cry is because she adapts quickly. It can be said that this set of functional picture books is \”indispensable\”. It perfectly solves the key kindergarten entry problem for children. What’s so special about this set of functional picture books? 1. It closely follows the real scene of kindergarten, allowing children to \”bring in the scene\” in this set of books. Through the form of stories, the scenes of kindergarten life are restored and demonstrated, allowing children to eliminate their unfamiliarity with kindergarten during the reading process. sense and master a series of issues after entering the kindergarten. The baby has a concept in his mind, and just like my child, he is not afraid at all in kindergarten. 2. Each book corresponds to a question that a child will have after entering kindergarten. The biggest highlight of this set of books is that each picture book can teach children to master some skills. Like this book \”You Are My Good Friend\”, we all know that kindergarten is a child\’s first \”social\” collective life, where social interaction is very important. But how to socialize? How to make friends? This book can help children. Also, after your children go to kindergarten, are you, like me, worried that your children will eat slowly and not have enough to eat in kindergarten? This book \”Eat More, Grow Up\” will help you solve such problems. Are you like me? When your child first entered kindergarten, you were always worried that the child would face an unfamiliar environment, would not dare to talk to the teacher when he wanted to go to the toilet, would pee his pants, increase the teacher\’s workload, and worry that the teacher would dislike the child. However, this book \”Teacher, I Want to Go to the Bathroom\” will focus on this issue and teach children to solve such problems.