My child, I heard that you have blocked your parents’ circle of friends?

During the recent period, the third brother\’s circle of friends has been frequently flooded with all kinds of love chicken soup. \”What characteristics does a girl have that make her worthy of affection?\” \”A perfect life is when you can afford to take it up and let it go.\” \”Love is not everything in life. Don\’t ignore the scenery along the way because of it.\” The third brother is already in his fifties and is very simple. A traditional person has applied for WeChat for more than a year and has been silent all the time. Now he is suddenly full of enthusiasm. Could there be some \”situation\”? While the third sister-in-law was not here, I \”knocked\” him: \”Third brother, did you score twice?\” The third brother looked at me confused: \”What?\” I pulled out the circle of friends and showed him: \”How can you be like this?\” How emotional?\” The third brother laughed out loud: \”Old girl, what are you thinking? These things are all passed on to your eldest nephew.\” Only then did I know that my eldest nephew was in love. I met a girl from out of town on WeChat and fell in love with her passionately without even meeting her in person. The third brother and the third sister-in-law do not object to their son\’s love, but they are a little unsure about a foreign girl who does not know her background. For the sake of their children\’s marriage, the third brother deliberately took his son to the girl\’s home. Only after arriving there did he find out that the girl\’s parents did not agree to the marriage at all. As for the girl, she was not as enthusiastic as the son had imagined. When the third brother saw this situation, he advised his son to give up as soon as possible, but the son refused to listen and remained devoted to her. The father and son choked several times over this matter. After that, the eldest nephew never told his parents anything about his situation with the girl. Seeing his son silent every day, the third brother was anxious and distressed. You want to communicate, but the child doesn\’t respond. If you don\’t communicate, you are worried that the stupid boy will fall too deep and suffer greater harm in the future. \”He is glued to his mobile phone every day, so I thought about posting some articles in Moments to alert him.\” The third brother said, frowning unconsciously, and sighed softly: \”The child is older, and it seems that he suddenly We are far away, we talk too much but don\’t listen, and we don\’t feel reassured when we talk too little, why do you think they don\’t understand my parents\’ feelings so much.\” Looking at the gloomy expression on the third brother\’s face, he felt a little filled with emotion. The son fell in love, and the father\’s circle of friends began to flood the screen with love. This is such a twisted father\’s love. Those chicken soups that dominate the screen may not be nutritious, but the anxious fatherly love behind serving a bowl of chicken soup is moving. The children don\’t listen to the parents\’ advice and suggestions, and find it annoying. Young people thought that they could completely control their lives when they grew up. However, their fathers, who have experienced so many years of ups and downs, knew that although their children were about to talk about marriage, they were still children after all. If they made a wrong move, they might have to pay a heavy price in the future. cost. No father wants his children to encounter such ups and downs, so even if he is hated, he still has to try his best to persuade his children. Just like the third brother who suddenly flooded the screen with love chicken soup, and his son ignored him, he thought that maybe his cultural level was too low to reach his son\’s heart, so he, who never drank chicken soup, fumbled through those love articles and hoped. Use the words of intellectuals to make subtle remarks and give advice. But, will my son read such advice? I particularly wanted to know my nephew’s reaction, so I typed him on WeChat: “Your dad’s circle of friends has been quite busy recently.” “Hey, you don’t know how crazy he is.” The eldest nephew sent a look of disdain: “I He has been blocked, AuntieIf it bothers you, just block him. \”My nephew actually blocked the third brother a long time ago! In shock, the third brother posted another post on WeChat Moments \”Child, who is the person who loves you the most in the world?\” Looking at the sensational article, I suddenly felt like saying no I felt so sad that my father used other people\’s words to express his feelings to his son, but the son didn\’t give his father this chance at all. A writer sister recently wrote a series of love stories, which was very different from her previous writing style. I thought the writer sister wanted to After transformation, she told me that these love sketches were all written for her son. His son was in love, and he was addicted to love. In order to stay with the girl, he even gave up the opportunity to study abroad that he had planned long ago. Mom and him After repeated communication N times, the son couldn\’t listen to anything. The desperate mother had no choice but to put words of advice in the article. But can the son understand it? Even if he does, can he accept it? ? \”It should be possible, even considering my hard work. \”Mom\’s hopes are good, but some young and reckless children can appreciate the painstaking efforts of their parents. Some time ago, a child chatted with me and mentioned that his father sent her some health-preserving articles every day: \” I almost collapsed. How could my father use the standards of a retired cadre to supervise me? \”Looking at this sentence, I especially want to tell this child that these health-preserving articles may be inappropriate, but hidden in them is a father\’s deep love for his daughter. You may not like the articles, but please accept this love. In fact, There are too few children who can accurately receive this message of love. Seeing that their hard work has been ignored or even laughed at, their parents are innocent and helpless: I obviously do it for his own good, but why does he not appreciate it? My cousin is A poor boy who succeeded in counterattacking from the bottom, he has traveled all over the world over the years and has gained a lot of knowledge. He is definitely considered a capable person among his relatives. Whenever someone has something to do with his family, he will come to him for advice. Everyone is convinced by him. But there is nothing we can do about our children. Recently, my cousin\’s eldest son fell in love, and the parents of the person he chose did not agree. The relationship between father and son is very tense. \”Usually he will leave as soon as I tell him at home. Today, while we are having dinner together, you can help me beat the drum. Let\’s have a good time. Educate. \”In order to persuade his son, my cousin specially organized a dinner party, hoping that I could help persuade him. It was easy to find an opportunity. My cousin didn\’t take a few bites of food throughout the meal, and kept talking about various truths and examples. Those truths As an example, as a person of the same age, I agree very much, but my cousin’s son, a young man in his twenties and thirties, cannot agree at all: “Why do you always do this? \”What kind of thing am I doing? It\’s all for your own good. Can your parents harm you?\” \”\”cut. \”My son rolled his eyes and turned away disdainfully. My cousin spread his hands to me and said, \”See, he doesn\’t even understand this kind of truth. You think you can hurt him by kissing me. \”Looking at this father and son talking about each other, I suddenly thought of the communication between me and my daughter. During my senior year of high school, I wrote N heartfelt letters to my daughter, and almost every letter became a hit among parents. , but my daughter herself was not very touched. Before the college entrance examination, she was emotionally unstable, so I wrote another letter to her. My daughter’s deskmate read that letter., the little girl cried when she saw it, but my daughter felt baffled: \”As for it, how can it be so touching.\” When she told me about this after the college entrance examination, she seemed to be happy, and felt that her deskmate was too sentimental. Seeing how careless this young lady is, it really drives me crazy as a mother. Mom couldn\’t eat well and couldn\’t sleep here, so she tried every possible means to give her chicken blood. This chicken blood touched countless people, but the one we wanted to touch the most didn\’t feel anything at all, which was really embarrassing. Children cannot understand the hearts of their parents. If they cannot understand, they simply ignore them and love them as they please. The child is confused and confused, and the parents cannot understand it. They cannot understand but cannot give up. So there are strange scenes such as the friends circle of parents whose children are in love and love, the circle of friends of parents whose children are in school and inspirational chicken soup, and the circle of friends of parents whose children are working are filled with workplace guides and other strange scenes. While parents rack their brains about their pervasiveness, children find their parents weird and unreasonable. The hearts of parents are like candles flickering behind a heavy door. They are filled with the urgency of bringing light to their children. However, the door of the children\’s hearts is tightly closed. The tearful candle is unable to push open the door. It can only emit light by burning harder, hoping that even a small space inside the door will be illuminated through the crack of the door. The locked door will eventually open, and that day will be when the children become parents. When they personally experienced the overwhelming love of being a candle, they suddenly understood how stupid and confused they were back then. They understand now, but life is almost a foregone conclusion. Those who made the wrong move and took the wrong path cannot start over again. Their regrets cannot be compensated, so they want to share their experiences with their children. The candles are lit. Only then did he realize that there was also an important door in front of him. Generations of parents and children are reincarnated in this way. Perhaps, this is the fate of life: some detours are inevitable; for some growth, a price must be paid. However, there are also some really smart children who will start to reflect because of a little touch. For example, you now, after reading this article, if you suddenly think of your parents\’ circle of friends and the articles recommended to you by your parents, will you suddenly feel a sense of touch? Will it be vague? Have you ever seen your parents’ anxious and tortuous expressions of love? If so, please give your parents a thumbs up. As children, you can never imagine how ecstatic and exciting your little effort is to your parents. Loving your parents does not actually require too grand an expression. It is enough to let your parents know that you understand their love and their heart.