My child, if you work hard, you will definitely get good results.

The midterm exam results came out, and a parent complained to me: His son ranked 9th in the class during the monthly exam. He worked very hard this month and felt very good about himself before the exam. Unexpectedly, he was still ranked 9th in the midterm exam. Name, still standing still. \”Now, the child feels very aggrieved. I don\’t know why my grades always fail to improve even though I work so hard.\” I can also see from the parent\’s circle of friends that she is actually working hard with her child. As written in many articles, I have been accompanying my children as they grow. \”I\’m really tired,\” the parent said. It seems that everyone from parents to children have placed too much expectations on this midterm exam. Failure to achieve the goal turned into deep disappointment. It is a very common phenomenon to work hard but not get the expected results, and it is also very easy to dampen the enthusiasm of children and parents. But we have to admit that when everyone works hard at the same time, you may not be able to surpass others even if you work hard. You watch the lights at three times and the chickens at five every day, but others also wake up early and work hard at night. Since everyone is working hard, it is normal for who does better in the test and who does worse. In fact, the fact that the child can remain in 9th place instead of falling to 29th or 39th place is the result of hard work. Moreover, compared with the 8th and 7th places in the class, the ninth place in the class may have failed to answer a multiple-choice question or made a mistake in calculating the score. There is no essential difference in everyone\’s actual level. We don’t have to struggle with this. I have said many times in previous articles that except for high school entrance examinations and college entrance examinations, discussing rankings is the most meaningless thing in ordinary examinations. We have had so many exams and so many rankings, but they have all been lost in time and have not had the slightest impact on our lives. A student has experienced hundreds of exams from childhood to college, and no student will improve his ranking in every exam. If the lack of progress in ranking affects our mood, I\’m afraid we will often be troubled by bad emotions. If you do not do well in the exam, you must first ask yourself whether you have mastered all the knowledge. If you have not mastered many knowledge points and want to get good grades in the exam, you are just trying your luck. Occasionally, if you do well in the exam and rank higher, it is just good luck. There are no knowledge points that you do not know on the test paper. To be honest, if you really knew every knowledge point and could do every question, it would be impossible to fail the exam. Therefore, if you do not do well in the exam, you should still look for your own reasons. Examinations are used to identify deficiencies, not to compare rankings. The biggest significance of normal exams is not to rank you so that you can compare who is higher and who is lower, but to allow you to discover gaps in your knowledge and quickly fill them up. From this point of view, failing in the exam is also a good thing. As long as problems are discovered and solved in time, excellent results will come naturally. It would be sad if you only find out that you don\’t know a certain knowledge point when you take the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination. Essentially, there are only two reasons for poor grades. One is that your efforts are not as good as others, and the other is that the content of the exam is a shortcoming in your knowledge. The former requires you to continue working hard, while the latter requires you to make up for your shortcomings. Therefore, students and parents should keep their eyes openJust focus on the ranking, but you should make your goals more specific, see where you have lost points, and where the real gap between you and others is. There is a saying that goes well, \”The most likely thing in the world is not that you will gain something if you work hard, but the opposite – you will not succeed even if you work hard.\” In life, some people work very hard. Although you work hard, your life is not as good as others, and your position is not as high as others. Such situations abound. At this time, what we have to do is not to be discouraged and give up on ourselves, but to inspire our inner fighting spirit. Because we know that hard work may not necessarily lead to success, and if we don’t work hard, we will definitely not succeed. Academic performance is really the result of hard work, talent, luck and other factors. The only factor we can change is hard work. Whether it’s study or life, leave the past to the past and don’t have to think about it anymore. All you need to do now is just continue to work hard silently. Even if we cannot surpass others, we will continue to surpass ourselves.