Recently, I was chatting with some friends about children. When we said that today\’s children are really happy, a chubby boy came over and said, \”Uncle, we are not happy at all. You see, I have to get up early to go to school every day, and then I have to stay up late at night to do my homework.\” , I have to go to special classes on weekends, it’s so tiring.” “And it’s very stressful. It’s much easier for adults to go to work.” A girl added. But my child, have you seen the hard work of your parents and realized how difficult it is for your parents? You know, I am asking you to endure some hardships and study hard now so that you can live a better life in the future. Because the path under your feet is the way you see the world. If you have fun, be lazy, indulge, and go astray, it is you who will suffer in the end. If you work hard and fight hard, you will go further and see better scenery. My child, don’t say you are stressed. When you grow up, you will find that the world will be kind to those who work hard. One day, you will also knock on the interviewer\’s door with an uneasy heart. Only then will you realize that your previous efforts will now turn into strength, become capital for display, and win favor. Thus having the first job in life. I still remember that I had not graduated from college and started looking for a job in my last semester. Because my family was at the end of their rope to send me to study, and they really couldn’t afford living expenses, so I had to earn it myself. So when I received an interview invitation from a company in my mailbox, I almost jumped in my dormitory. My brothers in the same dormitory also congratulated me one after another. I cherish this hard-won opportunity. Prepare carefully, go to the scene yourself, make a plan, and then check the areas that need attention during the interview one by one. While everyone was playing, I was immersed in making plans. I prepared for this for three days. But during the interview that day, there was an important signing ceremony at the interviewing company. The manager ran over sweating profusely, glanced at my resume in a hurry, and then left. At this time, I said, \”Look at this plan I made.\” He took a look at my thick stack of plans, and after a while he said, \”Come to work tomorrow. , but you need to be an intern for three months first, and if you perform well, you will be promoted to a full-time employee in one month.\” Then he left in a hurry. I don’t know if it was my luck, but he accepted me in a hurry because he was too busy. However, a year later, the manager talked to me about this matter. I joked that he was too busy on the day of the interview, and I hired him without thinking about it at all. He said seriously: \”I saw your dedication and diligence. At that time, there were more than 10 candidates with better qualifications than you, and their resumes were all on my desk. Some were from prestigious schools, and some were experienced. But you are the only one who made a plan.\” At this time, I realized how lucky there was. It\’s about the hard work I have done and the nights I stayed up in preparation. It\’s made of sweat. Many children complain that studying is difficult. That\’s because people who have never experienced hardship will know how easy learning is. Of course, there will be difficulties at the beginning, and when you encounter bottlenecks, it will make you even more worried. But if you grit your teeth along the way and see your progress, you will find that your hard work has paid off. Will also appreciateTaste the joy of learning. Every year during the graduation season, the media will report that millions of college students are employed and the employment pressure is high. In fact, many college students with real talents and learning are snatched away before they graduate. And if you pretend to be a college student, you don’t have any professional knowledge in your stomach, and your mind is full of fun. Which company do you think would dare to let you practice? Business is about profit, not child\’s play. A few days ago, a friend’s company was recruiting people for the New Year. He said that a vice president of the company brought a young man to their human resources department to see if there were any suitable jobs. The interview manager saw that the young man’s major was graphic design. So I asked him to take a look at the works he had designed. The young man replied without raising his head: \”No.\” Then a colleague who copied the documents came back and asked if he had missed the diploma because he had not seen it. The young man said unhappily, \”I don\’t have a diploma. My second uncle said I don\’t need it.\” The word \”second uncle\” was said very loudly, and he probably heard it in the office. At this time, the entire personnel department was dumbfounded. Finally, he was assigned to the planning department under his second uncle. As a result, I had a quarrel with the planning manager within three days. He pointed at the manager\’s nose and said he would tell the manager to get out. Fortunately, this company is not theirs. The vice president, who didn\’t want to make the matter a big deal, had good sense and took him away quickly. It added an after-dinner joke to the entire company. If you have real talent and learning, don\’t be afraid of those undercurrents. And if you are just messing around, then don\’t make others laugh. Of course, many people have many suites and cars at home without struggling. No matter how much money is used, it will never be used up. But this kind of person has superb reincarnation skills, so ordinary people should not have delusions. For ordinary us, studying hard is the only way out. Children, don’t say that studying is hard, because many, many things are harder than it. Not everyone has the opportunity to go to a construction site. People who go to that place and come back will not want to go back if they have a chance to study. Because my family was poor at that time, I would go to construction sites to do some odd jobs with my relatives during the summer vacation when I was in high school. Carry some steel pipes and steel buttons for them. Although I was given light jobs, it was still too hot in the summer to eat, and I almost fainted several times. When catching up on project progress, I often stay up late into the night and have to get up again the next morning, feeling exhausted all over. I have to drink a lot of water every day because I sweat like rain. I said that if I tell my children stories, they will feel that life is not easy. I said that in order to make money, sometimes you have to endure hardships. The son was so frightened that he didn’t want to make money. I said, don\’t worry about money now, because your father is here. But you have to promise me to study hard. How about reading picture books for an hour and studying for an hour every day? The son nodded sensibly. I know that one day, my children will be like me. Carefully enter one unfamiliar environment after another. They will also be busy with their careers and families. I will also lament that life is too bitter and living is not easy. Therefore, I want to work hard when he needs it most, in the best years when he should learn the most. Tell him to read more books. Tell him, if you don\’t fight hard, who will help you? A mother asked me if I had ever thought about having a second child because she was afraid of having two sons and wanted to give her childBuying a house and having a wife is too stressful. I said it\’s okay, I\’m really not afraid, because I always feel that I will do my best when it comes to my children\’s studies. As for the future matters of buying a house and marrying a wife, the children will have to deal with it themselves. As parents, you can only give this life away, regardless of the rest of your life. What a future! The children have to earn it themselves.
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