My child, your parents allow you not to be outstanding, but they don’t allow you to be uneducated.

On vacation at the beach, many children were playing in the sand together. My daughter ran all the way, ready to snatch other people\’s toys. I grabbed my daughter\’s hand that was about to fall and pulled her back. The daughter seems to be a \”human spirit\” and pretends to cry when she sees her mother. She was sure that her grandmother would blame her mother, and she couldn\’t help but blame me. Sure enough, the mother said: You made the child cry. Isn\’t the child grabbing the toy a manifestation of the child\’s possessiveness? This is a necessary period for children, so don’t make a fuss. My daughter looked at me with a proud look. I say, you get old at the age of three. Don\’t magnify the child\’s shortcomings, but don\’t condone the child\’s bad habits. Don\’t be beaten, but you can\’t hit others. This is the most basic education for a person. Mother said nothing. On the way back, I told my mother a story: a disabled little boy who was born not sensitive. In addition to physical defects, it seems that the brain\’s development and ability to accept new things are also weaker. He was at the bottom of the class in every exam. However, he is the most popular in the class. When he was in elementary school, he had many friends. When he went out for autumn outings, there were always many classmates vying to help him push his wheelchair. In junior high school, many classmates gave him gifts every birthday, and they invited him to attend their classmates\’ birthday parties. Why? 1. He is polite to everyone. He knows how to love others and himself, he knows how to be polite when accepting and polite when rejecting; secondly, he is not greedy. If he is not greedy for other people\’s love for him or other people\’s toys, he will not feel that he is disabled and should enjoy more love. He often limps to group activities and tells those classmates who are almost late that it is okay. I\’ll just come over slowly. He knows how much he deserves and how much others deserve; third, he knows how to share. Every time his mother brought him wedding candy, he would take it to school and give it to his classmates. It may not necessarily be expensive or delicious, but the relationship built through sharing is priceless. Mother said, I know who you are talking about. I met him on the road a few days ago and saw him chatting with an uncle at the door of the security room. Later, the uncle at the door of the security room said: Such a quality boy does not have to worry about his livelihood at all. Wherever he goes, there are people willing to help him. This boy is not excellent in the traditional definition. He cannot become an elite in the workplace. He cannot achieve any so-called achievements at all, let alone get a decent job. But because of his personality, that is, his upbringing, he did not live so lonely. A person\’s ability determines whether a person can fly high, and a person\’s education determines whether a person can fly far. I know the principal of a training institution. He did a research before when he was in school. He discovered that if a student in a class is popular enough and is a good person, he will definitely be able to gain a place in society when he grows up. And those children with excellent grades but some loneliness may be outstanding in school. After entering the society, some of them have become top scientific research talents, while the rest are unknown, and some even still cannot find a good job. Because after many years of struggling in society, you will find that apart from a part of your IQ,Outstanding and capable people don\’t need to compete on emotional intelligence. What most people need is to compete on character. And this character is inseparable from his growing environment and family upbringing. If appearance is a person\’s first business card, then education is a lifelong armor. I also have a feeling that when I was a student, those classmates who were kind, polite, honest, brave and decisive, regardless of whether they had excellent grades or not, all prospered after entering the society. And those people who have weird temperaments or stretch out their hands to hit people or speak harsh words are still the same after many years. In fact, when our generation becomes parents, most of them will still inadvertently follow the same path as their parents and put most of their energy into cultivating their children\’s abilities, such as when they can speak, when they can walk, and when they can walk. I can write and count when I can. But what we cannot ignore the most is correcting the most undesirable habits of children at every period of time – violence, robbery and unruliness. There is a saying that I particularly agree with: it doesn’t matter whether you are raised poor or rich, but education is the most indispensable. Children have never been our crafts, but we have the responsibility to make our children become educated people. Do not smooth out the child\’s personality, nor condone the child\’s shortcomings. One day in the future, I hope that her living in the world will be a happy thing for herself, and a beautiful existence for the world.