My son has a girlfriend. What this mother did is worth pondering.

During the summer vacation trip to Europe, my 16-year-old son met Xuan, a lively and generous girl. The two were of the same age and from the same hometown, and they had a good conversation. The night we arrived in Switzerland, it was already midnight. We stood on the balcony of the hotel and looked up at the stars. The shining band of light from the Milky Way reminded us of a bride’s long veil. It was so beautiful that it was dizzying. The stars were so bright that it made people feel real. You can truly feel the wonderful artistic conception of \”you can pick the stars with your hands\”. It was late at night, and the two children did not want to go back to the house and wanted to spend the night on the balcony. So, the two of them lay on the deck chair covered with quilts, facing the starry sky, talking softly, everything seemed so quiet and beautiful. After coming back, we went back to our hometown. When the girl learned that we were back, she asked her son to meet, and I agreed. What I didn\’t expect was that when I told my family, my mother-in-law was very worried: \”The child is so young and meets a girl alone. What should I do if he falls in love prematurely?\” The husband said dissatisfiedly: \”You forgot that your classmate\’s son fell in love early and got bad grades. It’s plummeting.” The aunt who teaches junior high school said: “It’s not good to date girls too early, it’s easy to get distracted.”… In short, no one understands or supports me. Despite my family\’s objections, I sent my son to the girl\’s home on time. The two went out soon. I chatted with Xuan\’s mother. Xuan\’s mother told me that when we were in Europe, Xuan told her that my son was better than her in science and she would ask him for advice in the future. I also learned that Xuan not only has excellent grades, but is also good at hosting, singing, and playing the piano. She also speaks at the parents\’ meeting as a student representative. She is a well-rounded girl. What\’s more valuable is that, as a standard rich second generation, she has a little bit of talent. Not squeamish either. At around eight o\’clock in the evening, Xuan\’s mother sent my son back, more than an hour later than the stipulated time. I criticized my son. Later, he explained to me that they first went to a small shop near the theater, and he helped Xuan do her homework. It was not until the movie was about to show that the two of them hurriedly bought chicken steaks and entered the theater. After watching the movie, Xuan wanted to buy a book cover, so the two simply walked home. Finally, my son actually said something like this for the first time: \”Mom, you don\’t know how beautiful the night view in my hometown is!\” This incident touched me a lot. Although I also grew up in the countryside, my parents never interfered with me. When it comes to making friends, I have made a lot of friends since I was a child, including those who are playful, studious, worldly, simple, etc. I especially like to socialize with boys, whom I find generous and thoughtful. During those periods of ignorance, I felt various emotions between men and women. Although I was confused and confused, I never forgot my original intention and learned to make friends. These experiences since childhood have given me more emotional experiences than my peers, and I have become the calm and calm person I am today. Therefore, I don’t want my son to miss these opportunities to experience a beautiful life and grow up on his own. I believe that as long as parents respect and trust their children and guide them correctly, their children will not let down our trust. Children will eventually transition from a natural person to a social person. Adolescence is a period of preparation for entering society. Let children often interact with partners of the opposite sex, understand the opposite sex, learn the advantages of each other, reflect on shortcomings, improve themselves, enhance self-confidence, and learn to adapt to each other. It is to accumulate experience for future marriage and social life, and to lay the foundation for a happy life. If a child really falls in love early, it will be the most beautiful and innocent thing in the world.Isn\’t it worth being happy that emotions can be encountered but cannot be sought? How many people around us are regretful because they have not experienced the beauty of love? Aren’t we here in this world just to experience these beautiful feelings? My dear sister Lu Qin once wrote three sentences to her son who fell in love early: When a country becomes strong, other countries will establish diplomatic relations with you. When a person is strong, others will be friendly to you. When a man is strong, good girls will naturally come to you. Therefore, if a child falls in love early, the real test is the educational wisdom of the parents. Therefore, I believe that all kinds of interactions between young men and women should be regarded as natural and normal things.