Never let our sons fight for us

The mother was humiliated, the son drew a knife, accidentally killed someone, and was sentenced to life. The incident quickly spread across the country, and most people supported what their son Yu Huan did. When 11 men took turns to humiliate their mother: beating, insulting, pushing her head into the toilet, stuffing shoes into her mouth, and even taking out her male genitals to molest her, no bloody man could do anything other than draw a knife. Two options. Some people are discussing on the Internet, if you were Yu Huan\’s mother, what would you want him to do. Drawing a knife means a crime, which may be life imprisonment or the death penalty. The more terrible result is not a sentence. When Yu Huan draws the knife, there is a high possibility that the gangster will take the knife and hack him to death. If he didn\’t draw his sword, Yu Huan would live in humiliation, regret, self-blame, and embarrassment for the rest of his life. this is too scary! As mothers, we do not want our children to be harmed for us, nor do we ask our children to give us any rewards or sacrifices, let alone risk such a great life. Not only do they not want their children to risk their lives to save their mothers, but when a crisis comes, most mothers instinctively sacrifice their own lives for the safety of their children. But this thing is different from the others. If a man is indifferent at this time, he saves his life but loses his blood. What is the difference between living like this and dying! We love our children, but we don’t want to raise a waste, a loser, or even an ant. This choice is too difficult! So much so that I didn\’t even have the courage to think about it. In fact, when I saw this news, my first reaction was not anger, but fear! A great fear surrounded me. I said to myself over and over again: I will never, ever put my child in such a situation! I will never, ever give my children such a choice! As mothers, we must never let ourselves be humiliated. The best love for our children is to take care of ourselves and not do things that will put ourselves in danger. You stand on a cliff, do you let your children die without saving them, or do they die with you? Female entrepreneur Su Yinxia founded Yuanda Industry and Trade in 2009, mainly producing automobile brake pads. In recent years, it has become increasingly difficult to start an industry. In 2014, the company encountered difficulties in cash flow and could not get a bank loan, so Su Yinxia borrowed 1 million from local loan shark Wu Xuezhan. Does Su Yinxia know how dangerous it is to borrow money from loan sharks? Apparently she knew. Wu Xuezhan was famous in the local area for his loan sharking. Many companies in Guan County are keen to borrow money from Wu Xuezhan. Once a company cannot repay the high principal and interest, it will face violent debt collection. Wu Xuezhan recruited a large number of idle people and local bullies to collect debts. Another person in charge of a company in the Guanxian Industrial Park told Southern Weekend reporters that he had experienced trucks blocking doors and personal threats. As a business owner, it is impossible for Su Yinxia not to know this. In July 2015, Su Yinxia repaid more than 1.3 million yuan to Wu Xuezhan. Later, due to financial constraints, she failed to repay the remaining balance on time. In August, Wu Xuezhan sent people to block the company\’s door twice, causing harassment and disrupting the company\’s production and operations. Later, Su Yinxia paid back the money one after another, borrowing 1 million and repaying 1.525 million. The interest rates were extremely high, the debt collection methods were bad, and the person was threatened. All of this, Su Yin…Kasumi has already encountered this once. But in November 2015, she borrowed 350,000 from Wu Xuezhan again! Loan sharking is illegal, it is huge profits + violence! But who doesn’t know about these loans? It\’s just that the company is encountering difficulties in running its business. There are no other financing channels, banks can\’t lend money, and relatives and friends probably have no way to ask for help. Therefore, they can only take risks and borrow loan sharks! Do they have any other options? It\’s not like there isn\’t. Generally speaking, enterprises are short of money, and what they lack is cash flow. In fact, when it comes to assets, such as land, factories, fixed assets, etc., if they are willing to sell them, they are all property. But who is willing to sell at a low price in difficult times? If you ask a person whether life is more important or money is more important, he will definitely say life is more important; if you ask a person whether family is more important or success is more important? He definitely said family is important. But when trouble comes, people often make the opposite choice. Wang Yangming said that the combination of knowledge and action is true knowledge. So what you say is important is not true at all. Your choice is your true value. The saying that birds die for food and people die for wealth has been an empty saying since ancient times. When Wu Xuezhan\’s repeated debt collections threatened the life safety of Su Yinxia\’s mother and son, at least she still had a house worth 700,000 to sell. Su Yinxia\’s recent statement of the situation stated that Wu Xuezhan asked her to use the house to pay off the debt, but Su Yinxia said that the house was the only residence in her family and she did not agree. So Wu Xuezhan forced open the door of her house and occupied the house. Later, Su Yinxia went to the house to get something, but was detained by the debt collector, which led to the subsequent tragedy. It was wrong for Wu Xuezhan to seize the house, but if the loan shark did not collect debts in this way, why would he lend you money? If Su Yinxia can quickly sell the house for cash at a lower price, she can definitely pay off Wu Xuezhan\’s loan. Don’t say that loan sharking is unreasonable or illegal, that’s another issue. In fact, when you borrow money, you know it is illegal. As a mother, she encourages soldiers to go to the battlefield and fight, and she rarely brings her family with her. Why? With a wife and children, you have weaknesses and scruples, and you cannot risk your life to charge. I have a friend who is a very famous journalist. A few years ago, when he was investigating the economic problems of a company, he was indifferent to all the threats and inducements from the other party. One day he received a text message: The pink dress your daughter wore today is very beautiful. He became \”cowarded\” all of a sudden. The same goes for us women who are mothers. In fact, it\’s not just being a mother who is timid. As long as you have relatives, you should always be wary. There was an incident two years ago. A mother pushing a stroller got into an argument with a garbage collector who had just been released from prison. As soon as they disagreed, the man grabbed the child from the stroller and threw it to the ground. The child died on the spot without even making a cry. The murderer was sentenced to death. But so what, the child is gone! The child was killed. What if the mother was killed? The results were equally disastrous. The child has lost his mother. The child must seek justice for you and be willing to litigate everywhere. If the verdict is unfair, the child will have to go to the third type of court and, like Yu Huan, draw a knife and kill someone. Never let your son fight for us. Teacher Wu Zhihong said: A man should remember that you must fight for yourFight for your mother, even if you lose completely in the game of interests. Yes, even if he is going to die, Yu Huan must draw his sword. But, as mothers, we really never want our sons to fight for us!