Never let your children engage in these three jobs. No matter how much money you have, don’t do them. No matter how long you persist, there will be no future.

Dear daughter: Since you left home to study, your communication with your parents has become less and less. A few days ago, you finally came home for vacation, and your father asked for leave to accompany you. But no matter whether you were walking or eating, you were staring at your phone the whole time… He wanted to talk to you, but he ignored him. We see you enjoying the live broadcast on your mobile phone but not being interested in the delicious food in front of you, and we feel a little sad. Dad asks you to watch it after eating, reminding you that \”short videos are not nutritious, so you should watch them less.\” Unexpectedly, you said, \”It\’s not that studying is not nutritious. Nowadays, many college students can\’t find jobs.\” \”Look at your graduates from famous universities, don\’t you make more than Internet celebrities who graduated from high school?\” After hearing this, I and I Dad was stunned! From your words, we read two pieces of \”information\”: First, you are already a teenager who has entered adolescence, and you have your own \”judgments\” and \”questions\”. This is a sign of independence. We are a little surprised. , but also gratified and happy! Second, when your daughter grows up, your father and mother are no longer the \”supermen\” in your eyes, but have become \”not very good\” people. We are a little disappointed about this, but we also feel it is normal. After thinking about it, my father and I decided to give full play to our \”remaining influence\” and talk to you in advance about career choices before you become completely \”independent\”. Therefore, the following are sincere suggestions from two professionals and entrepreneurs who have been working hard for more than 20 years. They are also the parents who love you the most. I hope you will listen patiently. Look at it rationally: A job that is glamorous on the surface. Nowadays, the ideal job for many young people is: to be an internet celebrity! A survey by Xinhuanet shows that 54% of teenagers have such thoughts; \”What\’s the use of studying? The worst is becoming an Internet celebrity.\” This is also the most common argument after the rise of short videos and live broadcasts. My mother doesn’t dislike the profession of “Internet celebrity”, but I dislike the word “big deal”. \”It\’s okay for me to fuck you\” is probably an illusion. If you want to do well in any profession, you must have a certain degree of professionalism. Taking short videos as an example, it requires at least content creativity, shooting and editing, performance expression, post-operation and other capabilities. Broken down further, it also involves topic planning, script design, effect control, content publicity, user interaction, data review, and even team management. Doesn’t this all require learning? Li Ziqi, who turned pastoral life into poetry, Zhang, who used 290 camera movements in one video, Fang Qi, Kiki, whose copywriting skills were learned by the entire Internet, Liu Genghong, who is nearly 50 years old and still maintains a muscular body…anything that can be done The top Internet celebrities have all been deeply involved in their fields for a long time and have achieved the ultimate. My mother followed a popular science blogger on Douyin, with more than 20 million fans, and the videos were very interesting. Later I found out that he was actually the deputy editor of \”Natural History\” magazine; the popular teacher Dong Yuhui has 8 years of English teaching experience. He is well-spoken and can switch between traditional culture and life philosophy at will. He has a deep cultural background at first glance. So, you see, Internet celebrities who do really well have strong comprehensive abilities; those who are good at reading books are blessed when they become Internet celebrities! Of course, you will say that there are many account owners on the Internet who have low academic qualifications and average content, but they have also received a lot of traffic., make a lot of money? Mom understands your dissatisfaction. But behind the glamorous work, there are often hardships that no one can see. You have to be open-mouthed in front of the camera to \”family members\” and \”old people\”; you have to show off your \”talents\” at every turn; even if you are \”pretending to be crazy\”, \”coquettish\” or \”extremely boring\” in the eyes of others, you must not be embarrassed; It’s really easy to maintain a calm attitude in response to bad words… Is this really easy? Li Ziqi and Zhang stopped updating, and the number of people in Liu Genghong\’s live broadcast room dropped off a cliff… Even if you reach the top, you will still encounter doubts, troubles, and crises. There are even many people who want to suffer this hardship, but can\’t squeeze in no matter what: those account owners who swipe a lot of swipes but can\’t name who they are, rather than calling them \”Internet celebrities\”, it\’s better to say they are like us. Just like the hard-working \”Internet workers\”. The success rate of Internet celebrities is extremely low, highly random, and their life cycle is also very short. Not everyone can do such a job that relies on talent, luck, tests the ability to withstand pressure, requires hard work and accumulation, and endures a long dormant period! There is no free gift in this world. The more tempting it is, the more risky it is. In recent years, many celebrities have had their houses collapsed, and one after another they have been investigated, banned from acting, and imprisoned. This shows that people can easily get lost in the face of fame and fortune. On the contrary, many unknown literary and artistic workers, relying on their love for the work itself, have been diligent and self-disciplined throughout their lives, and have been loved and respected until they grow old. At this time, fame and fortune are natural. You envy celebrities and want to be Internet celebrities, mom understands. It’s just that the more superficial the job, the more rational judgment is required. Mom doesn\’t want you to use youth and beauty as bargaining chips and money and fame as your main pursuit. Instead of relying on outstanding looks and unpredictable luck, we should rely on flexible thinking and extraordinary strength. Remember, \”If you have talent hidden in your heart, time will never defeat your beauty.\” This is the glory we really want to pursue. Stay vigilant: highly replaceable jobs. Some time ago, your dad visited a factory. He said that the workshop is very smart now. A robot worth hundreds of thousands can be worth dozens of workers. The machinery works tirelessly and quickly pays for itself. They have reduced their number of employees by 3,000 to 4,000 people in the past two years, and they expect to reduce their number by another two-thirds in five years. My mother was shocked when she heard this situation. Three to four thousand people means that three to four thousand families have experienced unemployment. How difficult is it? But in terms of proficiency and efficiency, how can humans beat machines? In recent years, not only physical labor and repetitive labor, but even simple intellectual labor has been gradually replaced by artificial intelligence. Like various toll booths, bank counters, government affairs halls, agency customer service… many of those positions that everyone envied in the past, with \”more money, less work and less responsibility\”, have been replaced by \”robots\”. In the future, in addition to competing with people, you will also compete with machines. If you are not alert to highly replaceable occupations, you are undoubtedly setting up a minefield for your life. There was news a long time ago that has always impressed my mother. When road and bridge toll stations across the country were cancelled, an aunt who had worked at the toll station for a long time came to the leader to ask for an explanation. She said: \”I am 36 years old this year. I have given my youth to the toll station. Now I can\’t do anything. I can\’t do anything now.\” No one likes me and I can\’t learn anything……\” At that time, many uncles and aunts who had worked at toll stations for most of their lives were laid off. Some were old and some were suddenly unemployed. Everyone understood the hardships involved. But this aunt did not get everyone\’s sympathy. Why? Because, there was no No one can be responsible for our youth, and no one will pay for our \”ignorance\”. No matter what position we are in, it cannot be an excuse for us not to study and make progress. You may say that college students can\’t find jobs now. How to choose a job? That\’s true. My mother\’s advice is not to choose, but to do it first. Staying vigilant about high-substitutability jobs does not mean that you should look down on this and not do anything seriously. It means we need to plan and take action, and realize that no job can guarantee us a lifetime. The greatest benefit that the Internet brings us is not that we can play games and watch videos anytime and anywhere, but that we can search for high quality anytime and anywhere. Free learning resources! This is fair to everyone. My mother was very moved when she saw a piece of news. A delivery boy received a graduate admission notice from Shanghai Jiao Tong University in the past two years. Here, in order to take care of his father who had a cerebral infarction and support the family’s living expenses, he delivered food and studied at the same time. Commissioner Yang Jiechi, whom you said you admired so much (who once angrily criticized the United States as not qualified to speak condescendingly to China), actually, he was Before working in foreign affairs, he was a worker in an electric meter factory. He used the time when his co-workers played poker and watched TV to learn English by himself. Others laughed at him as \”what\’s the use of learning so much\”, but he later became an excellent diplomat. They all tell us that no matter what position we are in, what we look at is the most important thing. Mom, I hope you will take a long-term view, keep making progress, and never fall behind the times. There is one thing you can do to harm your health. I don’t know, but two months ago, your father’s good brother Uncle Yang left. In order to sign a big deal, he kept drinking with clients. He caused acute pancreatitis when he was drunk and induced vomiting. Coupled with alcohol poisoning, he couldn’t even be rescued. I don’t even have time. This incident was a big blow to your dad. He often has meetings and doesn’t have time to eat, and works overtime until late at night… Now I’m starting to reflect: Is the work achievement worth overdrafting my life? When you are healthy, you want many things, and everything seems to be a \”necessity.\” But once you are sick, you will find that your only wish is: health. There is news that two real estate employees were forced to drink alcohol by their boss. The other person drank too much and died on the spot due to the coercion and inducement of \”go home after drinking\” and died on the spot. After reading this news, my mother felt particularly uncomfortable, thinking about how you might be the same when you first entered the workplace. When encountering similar problems, the leader said: \”Whether you have the confidence to create value for the company depends on your glass of wine!\” \”If you don\’t drink, you are looking down on me.\” \”The taste of wine reflects the character\” may make you confused. Mom tells you that these words are just the logic of gangsters in the wine shop. Don\’t take them seriously. It seems to be persuading you to drink, but in fact it is a display of power and face. You can express it appropriately Be respectful, but if you are forced repeatedly or take pleasure in teasing others, your mother will support you at any time and firmly refuse!No matter how good a job is, it is of no value if it costs your health. My mother read an article about a boy who was encouraged by his friends to become a drug tester in college. In order to get high rewards, they falsified medical examinations and frequently tried high-risk drugs. As a result, they were sent to the ICU and almost died. In society, we often see young people choose to work as peripherals, or sell eggs or kidneys in order to get money quickly… Such examples are heartbreaking. Mom wants you to understand that your body can never be a shortcut to money or success. In this life, we may encounter times when we are eager to use money, or when it is particularly difficult, but in any case, we should not choose to \”kill the goose to obtain the eggs\” to exchange money. We can find ways to overcome the current predicament, but we cannot bear the consequences of physical damage. Health is the capital given to you by your parents when you were born. I hope you will not squander it just because you are young. Because we care more than you. Children, when you are in adolescence, you start to think about the use of learning, what kind of person you become is more valuable, and what is the meaning of our lives… This is a particularly good thing! Being able to listen to your thoughts and have in-depth discussions with you is learning for you and for us. Mom and dad are very happy. There are many different professions in this world, and there will be more in the future. Each one will shine if done well, but not every direction is worth trial and error. Mom and Dad will tell you a little bit of experience accumulated over the years: first, I hope you will know more about and think about some of your current careers; second, I hope you can position yourself from a long-term perspective as much as possible. . Knowing yourself and discovering your love takes time. Those who can meet their goals early must be particularly happy. I wish you that you will soon have the energy to support your life for a long time and move towards the peak you want to climb in this life!