Never raise your daughter to be pretentious like Lin Miaoke, but to be as smart and beautiful as Emma.

A few days ago, I saw an interview video with Lin Miaoke before the Beijing Film Academy Art Examination started. After watching it, I was stunned! In my impression, Lin Miaoke is still as energetic and cute as he was in the 2008 Olympics. At the age of 9, she instantly became famous all over the country for her song \”Singing the Motherland\”. Later it was revealed that the song was not sung by her, but by another child. Because of this, Lin Miaoke was criticized and abused by countless people. But such important occasions often have their own requirements. Many things are not something she, a little girl, can decide. She just does what the adults ask her to do. So when I see her taking so much scolding, I feel very sorry for this little girl. . I hope she can keep this sweet aura of hers until she grows up. However, when I saw the interview video yesterday, I was shocked. How could a little girl who was once so beautiful and sweet become like this? ! During the interview, she kept shaking her head. The reporter asked her: \”Are you applying to other schools?\” She did not answer immediately, but turned around and gave up. Then he tilted his head to the other side and squeezed out two words: \”Yes!\” The reporter asked: \”Did your parents give you some encouragement?\” Lin Miaoke also looked around with two big watery eyes. He didn\’t say the last word, just \”Yeah!\” The reporter asked: \”How was your sleep last night?\” Lin Miaoke kept shaking left and right, and finally threw out an emoticon and said: \”Very good.\” Let me show you the complete video. If this is an 8 or 9-year-old As a little girl, I think such behavior is normal and acceptable. Watch the interview video of Lin Miaoke when she was 10 years old. Whether she is holding her chin with her hands, touching her boots, tilting her body to one side, or flipping her hair and squinting at the host, it is acceptable. After all, she was only 10 years old at that time. Just a little girl! Under the light, she can only act according to the requirements of adults. However, now she is a 17-year-old high school senior girl. Girls who are about to become adults lack their own aesthetic vision, dress in an old-fashioned way, act coquettishly, or act mature that is not their own. They talk in a cooing voice, shake their heads… It is really a bit unbearable. This is because society has different requirements for children at different stages. For a little girl of several years old, we hope that she will be innocent and romantic, but for a girl nearly 20 years old, we prefer those girls who have both wisdom and beauty, are both internal and external, elegant in manners, and dignified in manners. If she only has appearance but lacks a substantial inner, elegant temperament and polite manners, it will be difficult for such a girl to gain public recognition. Lin Miaoke is a typical person who plays a good hand of cards to pieces. After she became famous at the age of 9, she did not use her advantages to help her grow. Instead, she was \”formatted\” prematurely because of her fame and was indoctrinated into the adult world. It is really a pity. This reminds me of another girl who became famous very early through the screen – Emma Watson. Emma got an audition for \”Harry Potter\” when she was 9 years old, and after eight rounds of auditions, she was selected to play Hermione Granger. In the first Harry Potter film, Hermione wasn\’t pretty;Just like what is written in the book, she has small freckles on her face, a small mess of teeth, crazy curly hair, and is horribly dressed. Let’s take a comparison picture and let everyone feel it. You will find that the same 9-year-old Emma feels overall. She is far behind Lin Miaoke. She mainly relies on her roles to shine. Normally, Harry Potter has given her enough good resources. Emma just needs to be a star happily, just like everyone thinks of child stars. If you look at it that way, you don’t have to learn and grow. However, the most powerful thing about Emma is that she has a high understanding of herself. Not only did she not give up studying, but she also asked herself to study hard like Hermione and become a gifted student who gets A in every subject. So even though she arrives at the set at 6 o\’clock every day, goes home at 9 o\’clock, spends time on the set every day, faces the pressure of public opinion, and endures various situations of being chased by paparazzi, she still requires herself to study hard. In the British GCSE (High School Education Examination) examination, she obtained 8 A+ and 2 A excellent results in ten subjects. The actors and actresses on the same crew couldn\’t help but praise this girl when they talked about her. Because what makes her different from other ordinary children is that it is really not easy to maintain good grades under such a busy work schedule. Because she knows what she wants and knows how to work hard, in the 8 \”Harry Potter\” films, we see Emma change bit by bit and see her becoming more and more beautiful. Her excellent grades earned her admission to three Ivy League schools, including Oxford University, and she ultimately chose Brown University. While in school, she announced that she would not accept any movies and became an ordinary student. It is really difficult to give up fame and fortune during the most popular period and concentrate on studies. But Emma is determined to be herself and does not regard \”Hermione\” as her lifelong career and the pinnacle of her life. She knows her own choices, knows what she wants, keeps working hard for her choices, and conquers the public with her wisdom and talent. Therefore, even if Emma briefly leaves the entertainment industry, her every move still attracts everyone\’s attention. When she walks on the red carpet, she doesn\’t have the thinnest legs or the hottest figure, but she attracts everyone\’s attention with her unique charm. She spends all her time trying to conquer the world with her talent. She visits Africa and calls for women\’s equality. She met with the Prime Minister of Canada to discuss women\’s rights. She went to the United Nations to give a speech and called for progress in universities. She founded a feminist book club and insisted on reading a book every week. At the end of last year, she threw a book on the London Underground, igniting the enthusiasm of netizens. She is so smart and beautiful. Emma not only received a warm welcome from the public, but even Prince Harry was fascinated by her. But Emma doesn\’t want to be a princess. She said, \”To be a princess, you don\’t have to be a princess.\” She said, \”I don\’t want others to decide who I am, I just want to make decisions for myself.\” \”I believe that this kind of girl with high spirits, outstanding taste, strong bookishness and fashion is really what everyone expects their daughter to grow up like! If she shakes her head and talks like Lin Miaoke, then she will have Are these opportunities? Will they be recognized by audiences around the world? Therefore, even if they become famous early, they must continue to grow. Those girls who continue to enrich themselves as they ageThose who are the most beautiful are those who are still beautiful and confident, have inner enrichment, behave elegantly, and study hard while growing up. This is the most attractive aura of girls! Finally, today ends with a passage from Emma, ​​which I would like to give to every mother who has a girl at home: \”I don\’t have beautiful teeth, and I\’m not a skinny girl. But I want to be a girl who can do anything no matter what my figure is.\” People who love themselves, still feel great about themselves, and don’t change themselves at will.”