No matter how much you love your child, you must let him endure these five kinds of suffering!

Studying is hard: \”Mom, I\’m so tired, can you stop studying?\” Today\’s children\’s living environment and learning conditions are indeed much better than those of their parents\’ own time, but we have to admit that the pressure that comes with it is also is gradually increasing. Today\’s children are generally much smarter than children of the same age in the previous generation. This is the advantage that the superior living environment brings to children. At the same time, good learning conditions also bring corresponding pressure to children\’s learning. . Seeing that our children have not finished their homework until 10 o\’clock, their eyes are red. As parents, we are actually very distressed, but in the face of the pressure in reality, we can only grit our teeth and persevere with our children. Children may not be able to understand it yet, but after working hard in society for so many years, we parents know better than anyone else the importance of reading and studying. What a blessing it is to study under the roof. My child, learning will never let you down, and the books you have read now will open up a smooth road for your future. Regretful bitterness: \”Mom, I almost became the class monitor.\” Children are naturally motivated and motivated. Every child hopes to be a little leader. Maybe he works really hard. But the older we grow, the more we understand that not all efforts can get the rewards you want, but as long as you work hard, you will definitely gain something. And we must gradually understand that as long as we do our best, we can have a clear conscience and no regrets. The process of hard work is a process in which we are constantly accumulating quantity. If we do not achieve the results we expected, it means that our quantity has not reached the level of qualitative change. Believe in yourself and continue to work hard and you will see the day of qualitative change. My child, the regrets you face today are all to make your future achievements even better. The pain of change \”Mom, my deskmate Xiaoxiao transferred to another school today. I\’m so sad.\” Life is about constant encounters and separations. Classmates, friends, teachers, and relatives will all gradually move away from you one day. There is no need to panic or fear, and Who can guarantee that what comes next will not be a surprise? After understanding separation, we will know how to cherish today\’s gathering and joy even more, because what we have experienced will never be lost. An unchanging life is destined to be boring. It is the changes that come and go in life that make our lives more colorful. Only by experiencing the joys, sorrows and joys can we face the future life more calmly. My child, don’t be afraid of separation and changes. All you have to do is cherish today and look forward to tomorrow. The pain of upbringing: \”Mom, I don\’t want to wait in line.\” The survival of each species must rely on specific survival rules. Only by following such rules can the reproduction and survival of the species be guaranteed. In human society, if everyone does whatever they want, we will not be able to live in a comfortable living environment; if an individual cannot adapt to social rules, he will be abandoned by society. If we want to gain a foothold in society, we must take the initiative to abide by social rules, adapt to social rules, change our shortcomings and bad habits, and become a social person. No one can be a child forever, and learning to abide by social rules is also a necessary lesson for children to grow up. loseThe pain of failure: \”Mom, I failed the test again.\” The final exam is about to end, and the children will soon see the results of their efforts this semester. Not all efforts will get corresponding results, so this time there is no need to fail the test. It doesn\’t mean you will always fail. No one\’s life will be smooth sailing. If you have not experienced the pain and sadness of failure, you will not be able to truly appreciate the sweetness and joy of success. The more we experience, the more we understand that failure is the only way to success, and failure is not terrible. What is terrible is that after being knocked down by failure, you cannot stand up again and continue running on this road. My child, in this world of energy conservation, you have experienced hardship and pain, and you will definitely experience success and joy in the future. Only by experiencing the hardships they deserve and walking the path they deserve can our children truly grow into outstanding individuals. Parents cannot give their children lifelong protection, so when faced with necessary setbacks and pain, parents should let their children experience and overcome them on their own, so that their future path can be smoother.