No matter how ordinary a child is, he is still qualified to talk about his dreams.

If you ask an adult. What is your aspiration? I think many people will be surprised. Because dreams seem to get further and further away from me as we grow older. Or it once existed and was later lost. And the answer given by more people is this. “Don’t talk to me about dreams, talk to me about reality.” This is a mainstream value at the moment. If I can see benefits, I will do it. If you can\’t see it, then bye, I don\’t have time to talk to you. If you ask a child. What is your dream? The answers are varied. And they will attach great importance to their dreams. Like boys, take my son for example. When I was two years old, I wanted to be an excavator master. And when I was three years old, I fell in love with dinosaurs. I said there is a profession called a paleontologist, who specializes in searching for dinosaurs. The boy immediately felt that he should become a dinosaur archeology expert. Now four years old, I read the Three Character Classic and Tang poetry with him. Talking about hundreds of schools of thought, we also talked about great people like Li Bai and Du Fu. The boy said seriously that he wanted to be Li Bai. Children\’s dreams are like this, very interesting. They will continue to adjust based on their experiences. In fact, this is growth, frankness is really valuable. I remember when I read \”Little Doudou by the Window\”, the first page I opened was what Little Doudou said about what he would do when he grew up. She met her uncle who was checking tickets at the station and it was very interesting. She just thought, \”When I grow up, I want to be a ticket seller!\” When she told her mother about it, her mother said, \”Don\’t you want to be a spy? What should I do?\” \”Otherwise, I still want to be a spy.\” It\’s better to be a publicity artist.\” This is the child\’s mind. Be sure to look at your children approvingly when they talk to you about their dreams. Take their every little dream seriously. A few days ago, a mother left a message saying, \”My son is just three years old. I taught him how to recognize numbers tonight, but he didn\’t learn. He said to me: I don\’t like studying, I just like playing games.\” Many times, children will follow this We say, \”I don\’t want to study, I want to play!\” In fact, parents must work hard to help their children\’s minds find direction. Let them focus on meaningful things. Talking about playing games. I also let my son play, but there is one principle: set the time for the game, choose what to play together, and play together. I would give him some advice from the side, sometimes taking turns. When we can\’t get through it, we will take our laptops and look up information on the Internet with frowning eyes. Every time my child’s mother would joke: “Others play games to relax, but you are more tired playing games than studying!” At this time, I would say, “Oh! You also need to learn a lot of knowledge and methods to play games. You really need to study hard!\” My son will not be disgusted at this time. He thinks this is the truth. People can play games, but they also have to study hard. What I fear most is my parents’ indifference. This is what makes children addicted. Be a parent with dreams and talk about dreams with your children. We cannot impose our dreams on our children. But we can inspire children to dream. For children, nothing works better than their own inner calling. Parents’ nagging often leads to rejection. But the determination you make sometimes affects your life-long decisions. I remember when I was in high schoolWhen I was young, my family was very poor. One time, I lowered my head and went to the class teacher to talk about deferring tuition payment. The teacher said to me very seriously, \”It\’s okay. You study hard and have the energy to get out of this place and go see the outside world.\” At that time, for the first time, I was strongly awakened in my heart, \”Study hard and go.\” Take a look outside!\” Years later, I can appreciate the teacher\’s good intentions even more. Every child should understand that the way he works hard is the way he will see the world in the future. So, when we want our children to study hard. It is necessary to stimulate children\’s interest in learning. Those dreams will call you inside. My son is a foodie. I showed him foreign food and talked about local customs. For example, what are the restaurants in the UK and what are the delicious ones in France? Every time he said it in an embellished way, his heart moved. He would also point to the continents on the map and tell him what delicious food there would be. When he was about to drool. I said, \”How about we go see it one day and eat something delicious.\” \”Okay, okay!\” \”Actually, dad has always wanted to go to Europe, but his English is too poor and he has never dared to go.\” \”Why?\” \”Just think, when we entered the hotel, we didn\’t speak English. How to order? I need a little translator. The kind that is super powerful.\” \”I can!\” \”Yes! Why did I forget you! Then you must study hard.\” So when we When I open an English picture book and practice together, I occasionally mention this to him. The energy immediately increased a lot. There are places everywhere in life that inspire children to learn. Talking about dreams with your children is a good choice. Children who have dreams will work hard towards their dreams. When children are young, parents need to discover and support their children\’s dreams. And sometimes there is more than just one dream. They are like branches of a tree of life, each one important. Take me for example, I have wanted to be a teacher since I was a child. Later, I felt that journalists are very good, so I wanted to be a reporter, report some social events in depth, and help more people. Later, I didn\’t do well in the college entrance examination and majored in media. It seemed that I had no chance of becoming a teacher. But I have always maintained my passion for education. So I insisted on self-study courses in pedagogy. After having children, I feel that children’s education is a major event in life. Because for parents, nothing is more important than educating their children well. Since you can\’t be a school teacher, then be your child\’s first teacher. So I studied psychology by myself, because psychology and education are two sides of the same reality and the same problem. To guide the mind is to know how the mind works. And those who understand the mind and its operating principles can use knowledge to direct the mind to higher and more permanent goals. This goal has nothing to do with money and fame. But it is related to the realization of human value. Life is so full of twists and turns, it seems chaotic. But if you look closely, you will see that people actually set out with dreams. They are all moving towards their dreams. Don’t forget your original intention, never forget it, there will be an echo! For children, the road to their dreams. Initially inspired by parents, young children watch what their parents do and think.. Start to understand this strange world. When we plant the seeds of dreams in the hearts of our children. Then it will sprout eventually. It’s time to talk to your children about their dreams. Dreams have nothing to do with high or low, let alone ordinary or great. Be a baker, or a ticket collector. It\’s just as great as being an astronaut or a scientist. Because in the end the child will become what he is. And here, the sweat of parents\’ hard work and the children\’s own efforts flow. Every child, even if they have limited talents and are ordinary, has the opportunity to realize their dreams and change their destiny through hard work. Don\’t think that your children are young and ignorant. They like their parents to sincerely talk to them about their ideals and life. You might as well give it a try…