On how to teach children? 99% of parents are worse than Peppa Pig’s parents

If someone asked me how to educate children, I would say: \”Please refer to Peppa Pig\’s parents.\” The Peppa Pig now is no longer the Peppa Pig before. Before, she was still the innocent little pig who looked like a hair dryer and taught children how to bark and jump into puddles. Now she is silently and tirelessly delivering a stable source of emojis to us on a regular basis. He has become a social figure sought after by the whole people and has reached the pinnacle of his life. How popular is Peppa Pig? The first thing a friend says when meeting a friend is: \”Are you wearing a Peppa Pig watch today?\” Some people even started decrypting the front view of Peppa Pig on Weibo, and the related video dominated the hot search list for three days. It’s scary to think about it, but it’s so well-founded that it’s hard to refute… And I was stimulated by a sentence: “Some people are well-informed on the surface, but behind the scenes they haven’t even watched “Peppa Pig”!” I I know I lost! So I made up my mind to binge watch it and watched more than a hundred episodes in one go. My friend said that I giggled in front of the screen for hours. After all, Daughter\’s Pie is a professional and attitude-oriented parenting account. Today, I won\’t be socializing. I just want to pick up the essence of education in \”Peppa Pig\”. \”Peppa Pig\” has a score of 9.2 on Douban, making it even better than Pleasant Goat\’s bald head. Someone commented on this cartoon: It provides the most relatable family life. @猫米 said: \”When watching the big-headed son, you can hear a lot of great truths. In Peppa Pig, you rarely hear any great truths, but parents can always educate their children in the most casual way, and even children I don’t even feel that I have been educated. This show is actually prepared for adults, especially those with two children at home…” The education level of Paige’s parents is also beyond the reach of 99% of parents today. I have four thoughts to share with you, please accept them. Protect your child\’s nature, give him freedom, and protect him. Peppa Pig received strong boycotts from parents last year because children would imitate pig noises along with Peppa Pig and jump into mud puddles without being able to stop them. In \”Peppa Pig\”, the game of jumping in the mud is played once every two episodes on average, but think about it, who didn\’t like playing in the mud as a child? What kid can resist the temptation of a mud puddle? Just like when we see bubble wrap, we want to pinch it. Children have an almost natural affinity for nature. They are born to explore. A little ant or a puddle of mud can excite them for a long time. Peppa Pig wanted to play in the mud puddle, but Peppa Pig\’s mother just told her: \”If you want to jump in the mud puddle, you must wear boots.\” This not only follows the child\’s nature, but also protects his safety, killing two birds with one stone. A previous video of a New Zealand child playing on a slide and rolling through mud in the rain attracted 10 million views! The children in the video were covered in mud and fell down the slide into the mud over and over again. It was so wanton and fun! For children, rain is rain and mud is mud, and has nothing to do with \”dirty\”. Some netizens said, will children not catch a cold if they get wet? If this were placed in a Chinese kindergarten, all the mothers would probably be frightened and send razor blades to the kindergarten teachers one after another! In fact, when the teacher put the video online, he explained it in the text:\”Although it is raining outside, the temperature is very high today, so we decided to let the children play in the rain for 10 minutes!\” And after the fun, there were clean clothes and big soft towels waiting for the children. \”Give him freedom and protect him well\” is the best explanation of the kindergarten\’s behavior. Treat the siblings impartially, and treat a bowl of water equally. Once, Peppa Pig and her good friend Suzy played a game together and had a great time. Brother George wants to join in, but Peppa Pig and Suzy just want to play by themselves. Tell George, \”You can play by yourself.\” George went to his mother and cried. But her mother had no morals to kidnap Peppa Pig and said: \”You are the sister, you should play with your brother. It is fun for two people to play together.\” Instead, she specially found something for George to do. She was making cookies. , let George be responsible for eating the remaining chocolate from the cookies. George enjoyed the meal. Perfectly resolved the conflict! There are many similar stories. For example, an aunt on the other side of the ocean sent a toy pony, and the two of them had a dispute over the name. \”It\’s called Shiny Toes!\” \”Pony!\” \”Shiny Toes!\” \”Pony\”… At this time, my mother spoke: \”Kids, don\’t forget, this toy was given to you two by your aunt. It’s a gift and you can take turns playing with it.” My brother George wanted to ride a toy pony. Peppa Pig\’s father said: \”If there is a strong person who can push George, he can move!\” Peppa Pig immediately raised his hand, \”Me! I am very strong, I can push George.\” While pushing, Peppa Pig suddenly thought, \”Because this gift is for the two of us, and you like it and I like it too, let\’s call it Pony\’s Shining Toes!\” Really, I was impressed. I was impressed by Qina\’s natural honesty and understanding. Another time, Peppa Pig\’s father was playing with George on his back. When Peppa Pig\’s mother saw it, she immediately picked up Peppa Pig. If Peppa Pig\’s parents were allowed to open a public account and write parenting articles, they would definitely be popular. (Envy…) These three stories perfectly explain how to get along with two children in a family. The eldest child is not forced to be mature, sensible, or tolerant; the eldest child is not forced to receive special favor, special treatment, and becomes Be confident. Recently, a 12-year-old girl\’s essay went viral in the circle of friends. She wrote in classical Chinese about her feelings after her parents had their second child. The article is quite long, so I cut out a part of it. In fact, the title says it all: Gu Zhizi, Don\’t grow too long. This is what every family with two children should do. \”Take care of the child, don\’t grow up suddenly\” In the winter month of Dingyou, my sister was born. To this day, it has not lasted for a hundred days. From childhood to early childhood, I had a heavy workload and heavy worries, so I needed special attention. However, my sister takes up all the time of my parents, and my parents have no time to accompany me. The mother has to breastfeed and has no time to go out. During the winter vacation, the moon is full and she stays at home all day long, unaware of changes in the outside world. Every time I sit in front of the window, look at the blue sky, I just sigh. Mother must take care of my sister, and speak less to me. Reminiscing about the past, when I had no sister, I often had a happy time with my mother tongue; I lament that now, it is difficult to take care of each other, we have no understanding of each other, and we often fight. The hearts of mother and daughter are getting further and further apart. How sad! With the arrival of my younger sister, my family has become busier and my parents have no time to take care of my schoolwork. I need to study by myself. No one checks my homework or helps me answer my questions. I am alone in my studies.OK, I often feel that the road ahead is bleak. Due to the circumstances, I gradually became independent, and this is what Sangyu achieved. I have something to say to parents all over the world: take care of children, don’t neglect their growth, talk to them more, and have fun together. If this is the case, then the eldest son in the age of two children is very lucky! Children are not regarded as \”children\” and adults are not regarded as \”adults\”. They are independent, complete and respect each other. There is a saying circulating in Peppa Pig\’s fan circle: \”Can\’t I shed tears for love when I am 6 years old?\” This sentence has nothing to do with age or identity, it is only about emotional release. A child is not synonymous with ignorance and childishness. He is a person with a complete personality independent of his parents. Peppa Pig\’s parents have always followed this. Every night, Page\’s parents will listen carefully to their children\’s concerns and respect their children\’s choices when faced with major decisions. Who says parents have to be perfect and not make any mistakes? Peppa Pig\’s father often forgets things. There is a book he borrowed from the library that has not been returned for ten years, and he often forgets to go to work. Peppa Pig\’s mother will often tell little lies, be a little lazy, and diss Peppa Pig\’s father if nothing happens. Because this is real. In this play, adults do not regard themselves as \”adults\” and children as \”children\”. Peppa Pig fell when she was learning to skate. She was very depressed and decided not to skate again. Daddy Pig used his actions to show that adults can also fall and make mistakes. We are all the same, and it will be fine if we stand up again. . Peppa Pig bought her favorite red shoes and couldn\’t bear to take them off. She even wore them to bed. Peppa Pig\’s mother didn\’t stop her and just said good night gently. The next day, Peppa Pig and George were jumping into a puddle together again. When she was about to rush over, her parents said nothing, but she realized it herself. She couldn\’t bear to get her shoes dirty, so she took the initiative to take off her favorite shoes. red shoes. Echoing that sentence again, all education happened naturally, just because Peppa Pig’s parents completely respected their children. Looking back at the news some time ago, a Peking University graduate blocked his parents for 6 years because his parents had controlled him for 30 years. He said: \”If the purpose of education is to control children, then my parents are really outstanding models. All their efforts are just to control.\” Growing up, he had no right to choose clothes, no right to make friends, no choice The right to work is only subject to control and verbal violence. His parents did not treat him as an independent and complete person. They felt that it was appropriate for me to give birth to you, raise you, and control you. They treated their children as their parents\’ private property and accessories. He is the child of his parents first, and himself second. That\’s why the current tragedy has occurred. A good family is ruined by disrespect. If parents do not respect their children, children will not respect their parents. The most important thing is that Peppa Pig\’s mother helped the girl establish a proper attitude. In addition to her first-class parenting skills and strong hands-on ability, Peppa Pig’s mother also has a hidden advantage, which is that she is a bit feminist. Peppa and her family went to the amusement park. Peppa and her mother came to the \”duck fishing\” place. If they caught ducks, they would give them giant pandas. Peppa told her mother that she wanted a giant panda. \”I\’ll give it a try, but I guess it\’s not easy.\” The staff member said, \”You\’re right, I guess.\”You\’re not going to win.\” \”What? We\’ll see! \”After a while, a duck was caught. Peppa was very happy, hugging a giant panda. Then came the target shooting event. The staff said again leisurely: \”You won\’t win, girls are not good at this. , this game requires skills.” Peppa Pig’s mother was not happy when she heard it, “I can win.” When Peppa Pig’s mother said that she could win, she changed from her gentle nature and became domineering. She grabbed the bow and arrow directly. , hit the target. Peppa Pig thought her mother was so awesome and cool, and she secretly vowed to become a playground master when she grew up. Every time other little animals passed by them, there would be a conversation that was thought-provoking. \” Mom, I want that giant panda too. \”That one is too big, you can\’t hold it.\” \”No way!\” \”…That\’s right, no, Peppa Pig can be hugged, why can\’t other girls? Peppa Pig\’s mother can break other people\’s stereotypes about girls, so can other mothers do the same? When others question that girls must be weak, , you might as well attack her directly with actions like Peppa Pig’s mother. While writing this article, the apron mother in \”Big Head Son and Little Head Dad\” will always appear in my mind. Apron Mother is a hard-working housewife who takes care of everything. She took care of all the lives of her husband and son. Once, the apron mother wanted to dress herself up to make herself more pleasing to the eye, but forgot to clean up the housework. The father and son tried their best to make her understand what her job was, which was to wash the house. Clothes, cooking, cleaning… But Peppa Pig’s mother will tell you that a girl must be herself first, and then the mother of her children and her husband’s wife. After watching \”Peppa Pig\”, you will find that here is what children most long for. childhood. Here there is a gentle yet principled mother, a kind-hearted and exemplary father, a real life full of laughter. For children, Peppa Pig is their ideal life, and Peppa Pig’s parents are their most ideal fathers. Mom. If someone asked me how to educate children, I would say: \”Please refer to Peppa Pig\’s parents.\”