The famous principal Li Zhenxi once said: \”No matter how important school education is, it is only an important supplement to family education.\” You must know that no matter how good a teacher is, they cannot replace the responsibilities of parents. A good teacher can influence children for only three to five years at most, but the influence of parents lasts a lifetime. There is such a formula circulating in the education world: an excellent child = 60% family education + 30% school education + 10% social education. It is not difficult to see that in educating children, teachers are only supporting roles, and parents are the protagonists! 01 Education cannot rely solely on teachers. Teachers are really powerless! After the start of the new semester, many teachers received feedback from parents, hoping to take more care of their children. But the most that teachers can provide children is guidance on knowledge and skills; as for many aspects of children\’s growth, such as character, code of conduct, values, etc., more needs to be cultivated by parents. You know, teachers can only accompany their children for one journey, and parents are their children’s longest-lasting teachers! A lot of knowledge outside the classroom requires parents to teach them. \”People\’s Daily\” once published an article warning parents: Educating your children well is not just a matter for teachers, but also the most important career in your life. When children grow up, parents cannot be absent! If education relies solely on teachers to discipline, it will really delay the children! 02 Without a good family education, no matter how good the school education is, it is useless. There is a saying that goes like this: The way out for education is in the school; but the starting point and the starting point must be at home. For children, the biggest influence on their education is not schools or teachers, but parents. Often, the problems that occur in children are the parents\’ problems. Famous singer Li Shuangjiang and Mengge\’s son \”Li Tianyi\” are many examples. When a child is lawless, teachers dare not take care of him, and parents are reluctant to take care of him, the result waiting for him is most likely to be a tragedy. You must know that the greatest cruelty in education is: \”Be born without nourishing, nourish without teaching.\” Family education is the key to a child\’s development and is also the first step for a child to contact society. Without good family education, no matter how good the school education is, it is useless. 03 There is only one time for children to grow up. Parents must experience it personally. In the CCTV program \”First Lesson of School\”, Dong Qing said this: \”When educating children, you choose to make money rather than discipline them; when the children grow up, , the money you have worked hard to earn all your life is not enough for him to spend one year!\” You must know that the validity period of parents is only 10 years. Don\’t choose to let your children go free at the age when they should set rules! Once education expires, it will become a lifelong regret. Growth is like a journey with no return. The train will only run forward and cannot turn back. Parents must be hands-on when it comes to educating their children! 04 The last person who should not be absent from the education journey is the parents. Gilbert, a professor of psychology at Harvard, said: \”Ten years later, you will not regret not doing one less project, but you will regret not spending one more hour with your children.\” Everyone. Parents, there is no money that must be earned, only children who grow up in the blink of an eye. Don\’t wait until you can\’t control your children before you regret not educating them well. As the saying goes: A small tree needs to be cultivated, and a child needs to be taught. educateChildren are like planting trees. Don\’t care about the seedlings when they are young and let them grow. Don\’t complain about how they grow wildly when they grow up. \”It\’s too late to regret it when you put dry wood in the stove. It\’s hard to change things after it\’s done.\” You can\’t repeat your childhood, and you only grow up once. Don\’t wait until things are irreversible, and then think about how to remedy it! Written at the end: The success of a child is never a matter of one person, but the result of the joint efforts of teachers and parents. As educator Suhomlinsky said: \”The effect of education depends on the consistency of the school and the family. Without this consistency, the school\’s teaching and education will collapse like a house made of paper.\” On the road to education. , only when parents and teachers cooperate with each other and work together can children grow better!
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