Only a positive family can raise children with strong hearts.

A positive family is one that can provide a fertile ground for children to grow! ——In a family with positive energy, it will always be 1+1>2 and 1+1+1>3. This is the meaning of the word \”family\”. The ancients said that \”a single tree cannot support itself, but two trees form a forest.\” This is the truth. The cohesion of the family is very strong, because the family is our most solid support. When we work hard for a day, we have to face unnecessary quarrels and consume each other when we return home, which will only make people more physically and mentally exhausted. Home should be a place full of love, a place that can heal the soul, recharge the body, and make people happy. This is the meaning of home. In a positive family, tolerance, trust, encouragement, praise, fun, and positivity are always the main themes. Living in such an environment, children\’s hearts will be full of sunshine. Some people say that a child who lives in light will not be afraid of darkness even if one day he is surrounded by darkness, because the light in his heart will continuously provide him with energy and give him the ability to compete with it. A family with positive energy can cultivate children with strong hearts. They will have broad vision and a lofty plan, because only a strong heart can support them to stand higher and see further. A positive family is inseparable from the good mood of parents. Children who grow up in a warm and harmonious family will be full of happiness. Modern society is highly competitive and stressful. Many people will accumulate some bad emotions in their hearts. However, you should not bring bad emotions from work to home, nor should you lose your temper with people close to you. If you have conflicts, communicate well. Problems are not solved by arguing and blaming. Adults should have basic adult self-control abilities, know how to comfort themselves in a timely manner, and get rid of excessive anxiety, depression and other negative emotions. If both father and mother bring negative emotions into the home, it will easily lead to quarrels and conflicts. Children living in a tense and cold war atmosphere will feel helpless, lonely and afraid, and lose all sense of security. Negative emotions are like viruses that can spread and infect each other. Over time, children\’s hearts will be full of negative energy and they will become dull, depressed, decadent, and even sick. Negative energy is actually very scary. It will slowly erode our body and mind bit by bit, making us depressed, cowardly, and gloomy. If negative emotions are accumulated for too long, adults will get sick, let alone children. Children\’s worldview, values, and outlook on life are immature and are easily affected by the family atmosphere. A family with negative energy will only distort a child\’s outlook on life, which is very detrimental to their future development. Therefore, wives and husbands might as well have more trust, tolerance and understanding between each other. It is not easy for everyone to make a living and for their families. Family members are meant to be loved, not harmed. No one’s love and dedication should be taken for granted. Only by appeasing your own emotions, being considerate of each other, and communicating more effectively can you achieve harmony. As the so-called family and everything prosper, nothing is more precious than a family that loves each other. Good emotions can create a positive family. Children who grow up bathed in love and warmth will also develop goodMentality, be calm when things happen, be open-minded and optimistic, and be polite when dealing with others, because a good mood is the best cultivation of a person. The loving and sweet love between parents is always the best gift for children, because the love between husband and wife is the best feng shui of a family. \”Dad, where did I come from?\” \”You are an angel in the sky. God thinks mom is the most beautiful woman in the world, so he sent you to protect her.\” \”What about you?\” the baby asked his dad. \”When you grow up, you will leave her. Dad is responsible for accompanying mom until you grow old.\” In our lives, it is not our parents or our children who accompany us the longest, but our partners. Healthy family relationships, the relationship between husband and wife always come first, because the relationship between parents and children is like the soil and the roots of a plant. Only when the soil is fertile can it continuously replenish nutrients for the roots and stems of plants, allowing them to grow vigorously, flourish, bloom and bear fruit. Hai Ling, the founder of the famous family arrangement system, told us that a happy family relationship should look like this: the husband and wife stand closely side by side, and the children stand in the front and middle of the parents, forming a stable isosceles triangle relationship. Mother represents sensibility and father represents rationality. Only when children feel the simultaneous love from their parents can they feel more secure. It\’s not that the father loves the child more, or the mother loves the child more, but puts her significant other at the back of her life. The status and role of the wife and husband in the family cannot be replaced by children. The sense of security, understanding, tolerance and care needed between husband and wife should be given by each other. The child\’s mind and understanding ability are not enough to satisfy the father or mother alone. needs. Only when husband and wife love each other, will children feel less burdened and can focus their lives on self-growth. When children are in this state, they can unleash their potential and become better selves. They will be happier in their future study, life and work. On the contrary, if the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, cracks will appear in a family, and positive energy such as happiness, joy, kindness, self-confidence, courage, etc. will quietly slip away through this crack inadvertently. When children grow up in such a family, their hearts will be filled with haze that cannot be dispelled for a long time. In a positive family, love is hidden in the details. As long as you put your heart into it, you can warm each other. Home is a place where we talk about love. Here we don’t need to worry about so many so-called gains, losses, and interests. Only by warming each other with our hearts can we create a warm family. On Valentine\’s Day, the husband can give his wife a bouquet of flowers and a kiss, and on birthdays, the family can celebrate together. During holidays, fathers and mothers can also take their children on trips. Only a family with a sense of fun and ritual can lead a meaningful life. Life is not static. A good life requires the joint management of husband and wife. Home is not a place where one person works alone, but a place where family members work together and grow together. When the wife is cooking, the husband can help tie the apron. When the husband is working overtime at the desk, the wife can pour a glass of warm milk for her husband. Love is actually hidden in the details, and there will be love if there is a heart. The most beautiful thing about a family is probably that the father loves the mother very much.The mother adores the father, and the children are bathed in the love from both father and mother, and follow in the footsteps of their parents to grow up together. In a positive family, there are not so many quarrels, complaints, accusations and belittling, but more encouragement and praise, because beautiful words can make flowers bloom in the heart. The wife keeps the house clean, the husband cooks a delicious meal, the children are obedient and well-behaved, and occasionally assists parents in doing things. These daily efforts are actually worthy of praise. In a positive family, love is hidden in the details. As long as we protect each other carefully, we can make each other better. Nowadays, in order to prevent their children from losing at the starting line, many parents have enrolled their children in many training courses, hoping that their interests, hobbies and studies will develop in an all-round way. But these knowledge and skills are only external, and they only serve as icing on the cake. What really makes people strong is their heart. In the future journey of life, we will encounter many setbacks and variables. Knowledge and skills will change with the changes of the times. Only people with strong hearts will not be abandoned by the times. In a positive family, there is tolerance, understanding, appreciation, gratitude and respect. In such a family, positivity is always the main theme. Only when children are bathed in such an atmosphere can they have a sunny state of mind, which can not only make themselves stronger, but also inject energy into the hearts of others. Only a family with positive energy can cultivate children with strong hearts. For the rest of their lives, they will not need to be alone and will not be afraid of the ups and downs on the road ahead. They will be resilient and strong, and will not be frightened by favors or disgrace.