Only such families can educate outstanding children. Is your family on the list?

There are many factors that influence excellent performance. In addition to school, family is the most important factor. Every child in school receives the same education. If you want your child to run one step further than others, you must rely on family education. A survey by the Chinese Academy of Educational Sciences showed that children educated by these types of families are better. Check out whether your family is on the list? The data shows that parents who often adopt a more equal model of communicating with their children in family interactions are much more likely to raise outstanding children. This more democratic family atmosphere gives children not only the opportunity to express their opinions, but also a greater sense of trust. Because parents rarely make decisions for their children, children face more choices. For example, in terms of the arrangement of spare time, families with a lower level of democracy will generally arrange their children\’s spare time, while families with a higher level of democracy will give their children sufficient freedom to choose. If children feel that their learning ability is trusted by their parents, they will develop a considerable degree of autonomy. At this time, the sense of trust will become the child\’s inner learning potential and motivation, which will make learning arrangements and time management more efficient. It is easy to promote the improvement of academic performance. Understand children\’s emotions. In the survey, we found that after problems arise, parents who show more support and understanding have a greater proportion of outstanding children. Many children are unwilling to tell their parents when they have problems in learning or interpersonal communication, and they will not ask their parents for help even if they are beyond their capabilities. A classic example is that after two children had a conflict at school, one child went home and told his parents and discussed countermeasures with them, while the other child went home and said nothing because: \”They will do it anyway if I tell them.\” \”I think it\’s my fault.\” Some parents\’ first reaction after their children\’s grades drop is to scold their children: \”You didn\’t work hard at all this semester.\” This is a sign of not understanding their children\’s emotions. When grades drop, the saddest thing is the child himself. If parents can give some support at this time, the child can slowly get up from the failure and learn from the failure, thereby becoming better, which is enough to see positive results. How important is emotional feedback. Parents have the habit of reading. In families where parents spend their free time reading and reading newspapers, the proportion of children who excel is more than ten percent higher than in families where parents spend their spare time \”playing mobile phones\” and \”playing cards\”. At the same time, the survey found that students with better academic performance generally read longer. The influence of family atmosphere on children is crucial. A \”learning-oriented\” family atmosphere can subtly influence children and play a correct guiding role. Moreover, \”learning-oriented\” families can usually provide their children with a lot of extracurricular reading materials, and the knowledge involved is more comprehensive. Some parents will ask, \”Can\’t the quizzes on TV also broaden children\’s knowledge?\” This is different. The quizzes are like instant noodles. It is difficult for children to accumulate their own insights after watching them, or even remember them. It is difficult to live in the city and it is a kind of \”quick knowledge\”. The knowledge accumulated through reading is something that children can truly absorb and understand, and it even plays an indispensable role in shaping their worldview. Lots of family entertainmentWhat’s interesting is that children’s performance levels are directly proportional to the frequency of family entertainment. Children who often engage in entertainment activities together at home have a 22% higher rate of excellence than children who never engage in entertainment activities at home. Among these family entertainments, the most frequent one is chatting at dinner. During dinner, many fathers will discuss interesting topics with their children, such as military, history, etc. And what’s interesting is that the more activities dads do with their children, the better their children’s grades will be. For most fathers, telling their children about their knowledge reserves is not a stressful task. Children in elementary school still admire their father quite a lot, so when their father tells interesting content such as historical stories and mathematical knowledge, the children can be loyal little listeners. Playing chess, running mazes, and playing sports with your children in your spare time will also be beneficial to children\’s intellectual development. Parents control less In addition to parental factors, children who can manage their own pocket money also have higher achievement levels. This sense of independent management is not only reflected in pocket money, but also in all aspects of children\’s lives. These children who know how to manage pocket money can consciously manage time arrangements and room tidying. So not only do these children study better, their rooms are also tidier. This kind of management awareness requires parents to know how to let go early on, and to draw clear boundaries with their children, and to know what is \”the child\’s business\” and what is \”the parent\’s business\”. The child will not become angry after making a mistake. Gradually, after the child masters certain rules, You will also gain good habits and a sense of accomplishment from managing yourself, and achieve higher achievements through good habits. This is a very virtuous cycle.