Parents and children, who achieves whom?

For me, who has primary school students at home, I am always in a hurry every morning. I have to prepare breakfast, urge my son to get dressed quickly, brush his teeth and wash his face quickly. Yesterday morning, while I was frying eggs in the kitchen, my son called me again from the sink. I hurriedly walked over and wanted to turn on another light in the living room. As a result, I didn\’t pay attention and turned off the light that was already on. I immediately pressed the switch again. At this time, my husband said: \”Are you stupid?\” I was furious at that time. I was so busy that I didn\’t touch the ground. He stood beside me and swallowed slowly. How dare he say that to me? I immediately went into curse mode. After a while of crackling, I felt a little calmer. I was busy pouring hot water for my son, and he said: \”Mom, I want to tell you something.\” I answered him simply: \”Don\’t look for trouble, wash your face quickly and get ready for breakfast.\” At this moment, I was still The anger was still lingering, and he didn\’t want to be angered by his son anymore, so he simply told him to stop talking. My son also saw that his mother was not to be messed with at the moment, so he washed his face obediently and sat down at the dining table. I had already brought breakfast to the table, and I sat down to have breakfast with my son. At this time, my son turned to me and said, \”Mom, anger is contagious.\” I was stunned. I didn\’t expect my son to say this to me, and I suddenly felt ashamed. I thought for a while and said to my son: \”Mom was angry with dad just now, so she had a bad attitude when talking to you. Mom apologizes to you. Mom will definitely not be like this again in the future, okay?\” \”Well, I know it was dad. You are angry, but try not to be angry in the future, otherwise all three of us will be angry.\” What my eight-year-old son said made sense, and I was convinced. Over the years of raising my son, I often feel that it is not me who is educating him, but him who has been making me grow. His words and deeds encourage me to become a better mother and a better myself. Some people say that children are angels who help parents grow in life. Every child comes into this world as the most perfect and innocent baby. Parents spend a lot of time and effort accompanying their children to grow up, but what they gain is not only the healthy growth of their children, but also the growth of ourselves. In the popular variety show \”Where Are We Going, Dad 5\” that was aired some time ago, the audience\’s favorite is the father and son duo of Jordan Chan and his son Jasper, who have a very cute contrast. Jordan Chan gives everyone the impression that he is the mafia boss carrying a knife in the movie \”Young and Dangerous\”. He always has a dark face and a cool look that makes people afraid to approach him. He also has the face of a \”strict father\” in front of his son, rarely smiling at Jasper. He himself said that as his son grows up, he rarely takes care of him alone. The father and son climbed the slope together. Jasper had short calves, so it was very difficult to climb each step. Chen Xiaochun, who had already reached the top of the slope, shouted to Jasper, asking him to go faster. Of course, Jasper knew that his father was angry. He took a loudspeaker and asked his father: \”Can you stop being angry?\” This sentence made Chen Xiaochun immediately say \”I\’m sorry\” to his son. Then Jordan Chan walked down the steps and smiled as he waited for Jasper to slowly climb up the steps. I think Jordan Chan was deeply touched at this moment.of. As he said in the interview: \”I believe I will never forget this conversation in my life.\” It was his son who made Jordan Chan\’s temper better and made him a better father. Children are innocent, and there is only truth, goodness and beauty in their world, but parents will make mistakes of one kind or another. Children\’s words and behaviors will let us know the mistakes and correct them. As adults, we ourselves are immature, and our understanding and cognition of the world will also be biased. We may even have problems of one kind or another, and sometimes we are not aware of it. The arrival of children makes us realize our own shortcomings and shortcomings, because their eyes are sharp and the world they see should be beautiful. When they see an unpleasant scene, they will always point it out bluntly, which sometimes makes parents feel ashamed, but this is also the best opportunity for parents to grow up. First of all, try your best to be yourself and set an example for your children to grow up. Some mothers said that before giving birth to my child, I was a chic person. I would stay in bed in the middle of the night to masturbate, and even run through a red light without blushing. After giving birth to my child, I was a good person and never dared to do as I pleased because there was a pair of eyes beside me that were always watching. I believe that most parents will feel this way, because if you want your children to do well, you must first set an example for your children. The power of teaching by words and deeds is very powerful. Dong Qing, a well-known CCTV host, said when talking about his son, what kind of person you want your child to be, you have to be the kind of person you want to be first. Parents are a mirror for their children\’s growth. If you want your children to focus on learning, then don\’t hold your phone away from your hands. If you want your children to be in good health, then don\’t be paralyzed and go running with your children. As parents, we no longer have the qualification to be willful. We need to try our best to be ourselves, so that we can set an example for our children, and their children will do better. Secondly, humbly accept criticism from children and improve yourself. As we who are struggling in this secular world, even if we want to do our best to be ourselves, we will still be troubled by all kinds of worldly things, can\’t help but make mistakes, and can\’t control our emotions. Innocent and kind-hearted children, of course they hope that their parents are also perfect, so they will criticize their parents outright, hoping that their parents will do better. At this time, we should not put on the airs of our parents, but should humbly accept criticism from our children and tell our children what their parents should do next time. Doing this not only allows you to practice yourself, but also sets an example for your children. If you make a mistake, apologize and do it well next time is the best way to correct it. After Jordan Chan apologized to Jasper in the show, the cute Jasper forgave his father at that time and trusted his father more. The kindness of children will always move you. A child is lucky to grow up with his parents because he has a good role model. Parents and children grow together, which is the wisdom of parents, because parents can become better. Our life can actually be divided into two parts. The first half is when we grow up with our parents and become what we are now. There are advantages and disadvantages of course. The second half is about becoming a parent and growing up with your children. Every child is our life mentor, allowing us to constantly correct ourselves and become a better version of ourselves. and betterWe can also set a good example for our children. The so-called relationship between parents and children means that in this continuous reincarnation, each generation is better than the next.