Parents, don’t believe it, it turns out that prosperous children have mystical skills.

I remember one time, Star Mom saw a mother taking her child to play on the slide in the park. When the child fell, the mother did not run over to help him immediately, but encouraged him to stand up on his own. The child hesitated for a moment, but finally stood up on his own, with a proud smile on his face. Isn’t this the power of prosperous children? The so-called prosperous children actually refer to how we, as parents, create a positive, healthy and loving growth environment for our children through our words and deeds in our daily lives. This may sound simple, but it requires wisdom and patience. Parents’ words and deeds are the most direct examples for children to learn from. We often say that \”teaching by example is more important than teaching by words\”, but it is not easy to truly do this. For example, we hope that our children will love reading, but if we hold our mobile phones all day long, how can our children fall in love with reading? Parents, do you know? Every word we say, every action, and even every look in our eyes may become a magic wand for our children\’s growth. When we face life with a positive attitude, children will also learn to see the world in a positive light. We often say that expectations are a powerful force. When we have confidence and expectations in our children, the children will also feel this strength and become more confident and brave. As psychologist Carl Rogers said: \”Unconditional positive attention is the best nutrient for a child\’s growth.\” Star Mom believes that parental companionship is an indispensable part of a child\’s growth. Whether reading together, playing games together, or facing difficulties together, these common experiences will become a source of inner strength for children. How to become a “prosperous parent” for your children? 1. Establish correct expectations: Expectations for children must be reasonable. They must have expectations and accept their imperfections. 2. Give unconditional love: Let the children feel that we love them no matter what they do well or not. 3. Grow together: Learn and explore together with your children, so that they can feel the joy of growing up. 4. Active communication: Communicate more with children, understand their thoughts and respect their opinions. I remember one time, Xing’s mother visited a friend’s house and saw their children drawing freely in the living room. His “works” were all on the walls and floor. Friends told me that they never restrict their children’s creative space, and even if they make a mess, they will patiently guide their children to clean up together. Doesn’t this create an environment for children to explore freely? During the parenting journey of Star Mom, I deeply realized that having a child is not something that can be achieved overnight. It requires our efforts and persistence day after day, year after year. But every time we see our children become more confident and happier because of our \”prosperity\”, all the efforts become so worth it. Dear parents, when we let go of those rigid expectations and treat our children with a tolerant and understanding heart, they will often give us unexpected surprises. Remember, raising children is actually an art, and this art requires us to study and practice it carefully. I hope this article can bring you some inspiration and thinking. Let us work together to create a loving and supportive environment for our childrenA growth environment that allows them to thrive in the sunshine of love.